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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Eagba(m): 4:48pm On Oct 22, 2019
Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do.
lol my nica you shouldn't be suicidal. this thing you are sad about already has a solution n the solution lies with you. you're logical, practical, greatly analytical in nature and can solve problems. even God like to help people like you. I want to believe that advance surgery can solve it. and God also. cheers

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 5:05pm On Oct 22, 2019
Amiee99:
https://googleweblight.com/i?u=https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/16420241&hl=en-NG

Check this out
It's based on administration of testosterone to improve the condition

Hi, I have read this. The thing is nothing really works and most people resort to a penile implant. Even the venous litigation surgery has only about 30% success rate and is considered very dangerous.

Thanks for taking time to check for a practical resolution. I appreciate this!!

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Ibkay32(m): 5:15pm On Oct 22, 2019
Guy stop claiming what's not yours upon your life
you never try to have sex and you're saying you're impotent
I'll only advice you to try to have sex first, if you dont have girlfriend, try to visit ashewo house, after that if you can't perform you will say will say your impotent..

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 5:36pm On Oct 22, 2019
Ibkay32:
Guy stop claiming what's not yours upon your life
you never try to have sex and you're saying you're impotent
I'll only advice you to try to have sex first, if you dont have girlfriend, try to visit ashewo house, after that if you can't perform you will say will say your impotent..
I have tried and failed several times
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by cimag: 9:30pm On Oct 22, 2019
It's only when you marry and you are unable to impregnate your wife after one year of unprotected sex that you can see yourself as impotent.You said that you only have erection while lying down and loses it when you stand up.What's the major problem with that?Will you sleep with your wife while standing up,won't you lie down with her on the bed to fire her?My friend,sex may be important in life but the major role of sex is for procreation.Don't kill yourself when you may be able to father many children when you finally marry.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Excuzeme: 10:11pm On Oct 22, 2019
Crenzywilliams:

You wen de find help de ask such kinda questions, baba rush call them first o, find out for yourself. I really wish you the best man, I Hope it all works out well for u. But just in case, why don't you try to preserve some sperm cells and for the sake of the future...And I think viagra also does some wonderful tricks.

Why cant he ask questions?
Just because he has an issue does not turn him to Mr. Stupid, does it?
he should not do any rushing otherwise he will blame himself later.
He needs to ask a lot of questions because it is hi sbody and his pen!s, not yours, not mine and he has to make sure he does not fall for scams or do more damage to his already damaged pen!s.
Viagra wont help him at all becaus ehe does not have weak erection.
As to storing some sperms in a bank, that is not a bad idea just to cater for the 'worst case scenario' but that itself is not even his problem because he has sperms jaburata and he also has erections, lying horizontal.
His problem is the limp he experiences when he stands vertical....and the vein drains blood that is supposed to keep erection standing.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Excuzeme: 10:21pm On Oct 22, 2019
Goddys:


Meet a strong man of God for a prayer. If you don't know any, come to Ijesha Lagos and ask for Lord's Chosen Church, tell the pastor you meet your problem. Watch out will happen if you heed to this. Miracles still happen in this generation like in the olden days. Goodluck

Miracle that did not make this church to power its hall with Solar or something even miraculaous, miracle that did not prevent the Pastor from using body-guards, miracle that did not feed all his poor church members like Jesus fed 5,000 with five loaves of bread, mracle that could not solve the chronic problems of his members since all these years?
You Nigerians need to open your eyes wide and use your brains.

God can do miracle, infact, sleeping and waking up alive, when thousands die on a daily basis, is the miracle...nto all these scams that the conmen who call themselves MOG are perpetuating.

If someone promises to give you a Gold necklace, look closely at the fake jewelry around his own neck and ask yourself why he has not given himself one.
God gave us a brain because he knows we need it to solve simple problems, instead of claiming we need a miracle to solve such simple problems

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 5:32am On Oct 23, 2019
cimag:
It's only when you marry and you are unable to impregnate your wife after one year of unprotected sex that you can see yourself as impotent.You said that you only have erection while lying down and loses it when you stand up.What's the major problem with that?Will you sleep with your wife while standing up,won't you lie down with her on the bed to fire her?My friend,sex may be important in life but the major role of sex is for procreation.Don't kill yourself when you may be able to father many children when you finally marry.

In my post i stated that this usually gets worse. Can u recheck? Currently even at laying posting my erection seems to be declining.

Also impotence is basically erectile dysfunction, not infertility.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Crenzywilliams(m): 10:11am On Oct 23, 2019
Excuzeme:


Why cant he ask questions?
Just because he has an issue does not turn him to Mr. Stupid, does it?
he should not do any rushing otherwise he will blame himself later.
He needs to ask a lot of questions because it is hi sbody and his pen!s, not yours, not mine and he has to make sure he does not fall for scams or do more damage to his already damaged pen!s.
Viagra wont help him at all becaus ehe does not have weak erection.
As to storing some sperms in a bank, that is not a bad idea just to cater for the 'worst case scenario' but that itself is not even his problem because he has sperms jaburata and he also has erections, lying horizontal.
His problem is the limp he experiences when he stands vertical....and the vein drains blood that is supposed to keep erection standing.
My point!
He needs something, he's been given some useful advice And a possible solution, it's best he calls them or visit them and finds out for himself, by doing So, he would be able to make an informed decision.
And bros; petson when de find something de rush every chance em get to get am.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by uchmann(m): 10:56pm On Oct 23, 2019
Hope777:


Apart from doctors and prayers is there any other.option?

I just told you.
Pelvic floor and lingam massage will help repair damaged nerves and muscles. You can increase blood flow to the pelvic and strengthen the penile muscles with specific stretches and exercises.
Your problem is not incurable.
It just means you have to work harder than others.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Subhradip4u: 1:03pm On Oct 24, 2019
okomogo:

I had similar issue but I realized later it was all in my brain. I started sexual activity when I was a teenager, all through my teenage year till I was 26, I never ejaculated for one day no matter how long I had sex. I spent money going from one hospital to another, they keep telling me it was psychological but I did my research just like you and I was sure I had a condition. After some years, I gave up and decided to use my gift of lasting as long as possible to enjoy myself. I made several promise of huge sum for any one that can make me cum. It didn't happen until one fateful day.my girlfriend seduced me, I didn't think about cumming when we started and just after few minutes, I felt this sensation from all part of my body. Bros I used sperm design our room, I was out of control but I felt very free and pleasured. That was the change of my story till date...God will help you discover your cure. I know nothing is wrong with you, it's just in your head and you need to get it out.

https://www.happy-new-year2020.com
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by tonero230(m): 7:44pm On Oct 24, 2019
Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do.

Send me your number
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 7:56pm On Oct 24, 2019
tonero230:


Send me your number
check ur pm
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by dazzlingd: 9:26pm On Oct 24, 2019
aminu114:
if there is no cure now, who told you there wont be a cure forever?, dont you see the world is developing everyday? my advice for u is to continue working hard make a lots of money in few years there will be a cure nd you go for it. pls forget about suicide u are not alone in trouble dnt kill yourself because u think u will never get married. i too think thesame nd it doesnt make me feel suicidal. im 24years old i got hiv the day i broke my virginity, im jobless i lost my parents when i was 4years old
nd i still live nd hvnt ever thouhgt about suicide.

Hmmm, life's interesting

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by xxoxx(m): 12:02am On Oct 27, 2019
Hello bro , try to get the stuffs at those people called elewe omo in yoruba land..... those women who sells herbal stuffs in shops , asunwon oyinbo , kahun that’s potash, just write it out and give them , you are using the the colorful part of the asunwon oyinbo looks like flower, you sun dry it very well , add a little of the potash to it and grind to powder , take a spoonful of the powder in hot pap every morning , update me ur experience afterward
Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 2:00am On Oct 27, 2019
xxoxx:
Hello bro , try to get the stuffs at those people called elewe omo in yoruba land..... those women who sells herbal stuffs in shops , asunwon oyinbo , kahun that’s potash, just write it out and give them , you are using the the colorful part of the asunwon oyinbo looks like flower, you sun dry it very well , add a little of the potash to it and grind to powder , take a spoonful of the powder in hot pap every morning , update me ur experience afterward

Thanks. Is this a healing agent? I just got some herbs yesterday too and I don't know if it will work the same way as this? I have also used some Agunmu in the past but i learnt this just treats the symptoms (trys to improve blood flow), but the damaged vein remains. I'll be glad to hear why to think this can heal my vein.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Larrylarex(m): 2:39am On Oct 27, 2019
maynation:


If you can't share the products on here then go bang yourself.
Awon oniranu oshi.
Ṣe werey leleyii ni? Did I quote you or was I talking to you? If you don't ever want to be unfortunate, never ever quote me again! I said the guy should PM me what's your own? You're not even a guy that could be in need of the remedy I wanted to suggest for him, so what's your problem with quoting me and calling me names?

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by xxoxx(m): 6:30am On Oct 27, 2019
yes it heals , though i don’t know the component of the herbs you use but let’s see the work of that one you just got too first then you can update me on what you observe
Hope777:


Thanks. Is this a healing agent? I just got some herbs yesterday too and I don't know if it will work the same way as this? I have also used some Agunmu in the past but i learnt this just treats the symptoms (trys to improve blood flow), but the damaged vein remains. I'll be glad to hear why to think this can heal my vein.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 9:20am On Oct 27, 2019
xxoxx:
yes it heals , though i don’t know the component of the herbs you use but let’s see the work of that one you just got too first then you can update me on what you observe
thanks bro. I will
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by emperordachris(m): 6:33pm On Oct 28, 2019
Hope777

Have gone through this post and have the following suggestions....
1. In the MRI and other scans you carried out ....was the result showing a ruptured vein. Since the doctors who went through it said that the issue is psychological...how did you come to the conclusion that you have a ruptured vein ...was it through the test and scans or just your research.
2.you might need to change some lifestyles....start watching porn since you don't.
3. You seem to be avoiding the option that the issue might be psychological....what you have to lose in signing up for a therapy or consultation.
You need to keep any open mind.

It might not be actually what you thought..... you need to try options with an open mind.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 8:55pm On Oct 28, 2019
emperordachris:
Hope777

Have gone through this post and have the following suggestions....
1. In the MRI and other scans you carried out ....was the result showing a ruptured vein. Since the doctors who went through it said that the issue is psychological...how did you come to the conclusion that you have a ruptured vein ...was it through the test and scans or just your research.
2.you might need to change some lifestyles....start watching porn since you don't.
3. You seem to be avoiding the option that the issue might be psychological....what you have to lose in signing up for a therapy or consultation.
You need to keep any open mind.

It might not be actually what you thought..... you need to try options with an open mind.

The sad thing is these scans don't show the state of the vein and i noticed the urologists cannot read the film. They just read the written report.

Its not pshychological; there's just one thing that causes the issue I have and thats venous leak.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by grandstar(m): 10:22pm On Oct 28, 2019
Hope777:


In my post i stated that this usually gets worse. Can u recheck? Currently even at laying posting my erection seems to be declining.

Also impotence is basically erectile dysfunction, not infertility.

Did you check the YouTube link I sent you?

Do you release sperm? You can store sperm in a fertility clinic for decades. That is an option if you want to father children
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by emperordachris(m): 10:57pm On Oct 28, 2019
Hope777:


The sad thing is these scans don't show the state of the vein and i noticed the urologists cannot read the film. They just read the written report.

Its not pshychological; there's just one thing that causes the issue I have and thats venous leak.
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You shouldn't rush to conclusion..... since the scans doesn't show anything..... remember keeping an open mind is the key.... lemme ask again.....what makes you so convinced that it's not psychological..... what do you have to lose trying it out....if it doesn't work....you might drop it... just give it a try first
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 3:15am On Oct 29, 2019
emperordachris:
we



You shouldn't rush to conclusion..... since the scans doesn't show anything..... remember keeping an open mind is the key.... lemme ask again.....what makes you so convinced that it's not psychological..... what do you have to lose trying it out....if it doesn't work....you might drop it... just give it a try first

I had a trauma there. Also for a normal ED, its either you have it or you don't. Nothing like getting it in certain positions
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 3:18am On Oct 29, 2019
grandstar:


Did you check the YouTube link I sent you?

Do you release sperm? You can store sperm in a fertility clinic for decades. That is an option if you want to father children

Didn't see the link
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by 88joshua99: 4:35am On Oct 29, 2019
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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 4:11pm On Oct 29, 2019
88joshua99:
There's a way for u , cuz if JESUS SET U FREE U ARE FREE IN DEED , go and use Alliance products, or u can reach me on 08085311745
did you read my post?
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Ade24682: 5:46pm On Nov 01, 2019
aminu114:
if there is no cure now, who told you there wont be a cure forever?, dont you see the world is developing everyday? my advice for u is to continue working hard make a lots of money in few years there will be a cure nd you go for it. pls forget about suicide u are not alone in trouble dnt kill yourself because u think u will never get married. i too think thesame nd it doesnt make me feel suicidal. im 24years old i got hiv the day i broke my virginity, im jobless i lost my parents when i was 4years old
nd i still live nd hvnt ever thouhgt about suicide.
aminu u just go about telling lies to motivate people.

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