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Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 3:28pm On Oct 21, 2019
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Nobody: 3:39pm On Oct 21, 2019
Agbo jedi will make you stronger.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 3:49pm On Oct 21, 2019
dayo2me:
Agbo jedi will make you stronger.

This is a physical/organic issue. Like I said I manage to get average erections when not standing (50%) but as soon as I stand its gone. I hear this is because of where the leak occurs and how gravity affects the drain. You can picture a bottle that has a leak on top; there won't be any water draining until it is turned over (change of gravity).

I am in the south west so I have seen a lot of these herbals that claim to work.. Many in Osun State here.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Bigflamie(m): 3:50pm On Oct 21, 2019
Shits happen in this life, how can someone not be able to have sex. I can't even imagine it.

The part where you asked why God allow bad things happen to people, well I don't think God exists cos I've seen so many things that prove that he's not existing.

Don't give up in pursuit for cure.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 4:04pm On Oct 21, 2019
Bigflamie:
Shits happen in this life, how can someone not be able to have sex. I can't even imagine it.

The part where you asked why God allow bad things happen to people, well I don't think God exists cos I've seen so many things that proof that he's not existing.

Don't give up in pursuit for cure.

How do you explain people that get cured from illness by prayers? I know God exists but why he allows bad things happen to people is what i don't understand.

Thanks though

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by WebLab: 4:14pm On Oct 21, 2019
Impotency is a condition and no condition is permanent. Don't give up bro. If you believe in God, pray very well. If there is a man that can pray, there is God that answers. If His Word can become flesh, that same Word can give you a brand new "Jeep". You can also seek medical intervention from General hospitals. Don't rescind to fate.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Jayslicky: 4:15pm On Oct 21, 2019
You are just stressing yourself over nothing, you just have the ability to control your erections, the more you think of something sexual your organ gets erects, there are few men like that.

Until you test your penis in a girl, you can't claim to be impotent, try get a girl so you would know.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 4:16pm On Oct 21, 2019
WebLab:
Impotency is a condition and no condition is permanent. Don't give up bro. If you believe in God, pray very well. If there is a man that can pray, there is God that answers. If His Word can become flesh, that same Word can give you a brand new "Jeep". You can also seek medical intervention from General hospitals. Don't rescind to fate.

Bro I have visited at least 4 specialists, they seem to just think my problem is psychological because they don't have a solution.

I'm going back to lagos to explore more though

I will keep on praying about it. Thanks

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by DesreeDon(f): 4:50pm On Oct 21, 2019
This is really sad. I can only imagine what you're going through. Please do away with suicidal thoughts and don't lose hope please. There is a God that answers prayers and I know that he will surely answer your prayers if only you have faith in him.
Be closer to God. Fast and pray he will surely perfect your health.
I'll put you in my prayers.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 5:36pm On Oct 21, 2019
DesreeDon:
This is really sad. I can only imagine what you're going through. Please do away with suicidal thoughts and don't lose hope please. There is a God that answers prayers and I know that he will surely answer your prayers if only you have faith in him.
Be closer to God. Fast and pray he will surely perfect your health.
I'll put you in my prayers.
Please do. Thank you

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by amendara1: 5:47pm On Oct 21, 2019
Don't give up brother, it's not permanent. A lot of men have been in that situation and come out of it.
Call this no, it really helped me then.
08112286540, 08067373322. Dikko Herbal centre. They are in southwest , oyo, Ibadan, Lagos.
It cost just #1,500.
Best of luck...

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 5:52pm On Oct 21, 2019
amendara1:
Don't give up brother, it's not permanent. A lot of men have been in that situation and come out of it.
Call this no, it really helped me then.
08112286540, 08067373322. Dikko Herbal centre. They are in southwest , oyo, Ibadan, Lagos.
It cost just #1,500.
Best of luck...

Thanks but what is this about? Are they doctors

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by valicious1(m): 10:39pm On Oct 21, 2019
why do i have this feeling that the op and Amedara1 (the dude advertising herbal stuff) are one and the same. Dude opened the thread to market his product and the mods fell for it

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Muyiwaipere(m): 10:39pm On Oct 21, 2019
Bro use Hygra.. You would perform wonders

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Donbosco46: 10:39pm On Oct 21, 2019
How do you know your impotent?

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Rosella1: 10:40pm On Oct 21, 2019
I don't know what to type dear! sad But please neglect thoughts of dying. It's not the way!

But since you still feel something there. You can get a female pastor Wilson to work a miracle for you down there! undecided

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by OnlinealabaPro(m): 10:40pm On Oct 21, 2019
Do you masturbate, stop it..you still have your whole life ahead of you so there is always a way out just seek good medical attention and do away with all these mixtures etc beside tell God your predicament he hears and answers
Check my signature

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Starboytwo(m): 10:40pm On Oct 21, 2019
You are not impotent, you just a coward...

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:40pm On Oct 21, 2019
. grin grin grin



see as people just dey drop letter just to book space in someone else's thread.



one guy up there dropped 'TY' cheesy




craze peeps full here.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by NwaAmaikpe: 10:40pm On Oct 21, 2019
shocked




In other words, your pendulum only gets erect when lying down but it goes limp if you stand up?
That's not impotency neither is it a gravitational problem in your preek.

It is a divine sign from God that you were born to be a missionary but you've run away from your calling like Jonah.
I'd just advice you stick to missionary position or just marry a cowgirl.
But stop worrying over irrelevant things.

Some people have preek but no pubic hairs, others have big balls and small sticks while some don't even have a preek that can spit out akamu.

But here you are with a functional preek and can eat freely from a spoon, yet you want to commit suicide just because you can't doggie.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by PureGoldh(m): 10:40pm On Oct 21, 2019
This is not the end of the road for you... Don't give up.

God can still give you a new life

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by DaddyMorenike: 10:40pm On Oct 21, 2019
E good Na.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by lyriclekidd(m): 10:40pm On Oct 21, 2019
Lol not again, i done tire for social media like this.. bullshit everywhere.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by lilianofentse(f): 10:40pm On Oct 21, 2019
sorry.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Promismike(m): 10:41pm On Oct 21, 2019
cry
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Etizz: 10:41pm On Oct 21, 2019
Strange ...


Let me ask,

Have u had sex once in your life?

How long does it stays erect when u stand before flaccid?

Did u by any means had an accident that affect your vein or artery??

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by MrHistorian: 10:41pm On Oct 21, 2019

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Godjone(m): 10:42pm On Oct 21, 2019
no introduction. how do we catch the intended messages in this write up

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:42pm On Oct 21, 2019
OP, sorry when last did. u have sex?
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Fuckthamods: 10:42pm On Oct 21, 2019
Damn! I feel your pain bro.. What i will advice you to do now is to look for a sexy chick to impregnate before your erection goes for good. Since for now it only stands when you lie on the bed, let her ride you and then u can ejaculate in her moist vagina. Secure your future now before it's too late.. I can't imagine my dick failing me and me not being able to nack again, of what use is life then? this is truly sad cry
I wish this is the kind of condition that affects only priests instead, they don't need potent prick.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by johnmattew: 10:42pm On Oct 21, 2019
eat more fruits, vegetables,dark chocolate, walnuts,tiger nuts and ginseng

*stop masturbating
*stop taking alcohol, sugary and energy drinks...replace them with herbal tea

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