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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by A305: 8:01pm On Oct 26, 2019

maynation:
Ji masun

I don't even know anyone with the white Bentley on the highway.

Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by VeeInsider: 8:03pm On Oct 26, 2019

It's a small world. wink

maynation:
Till you win it??

Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by maynation(op): 8:04pm On Oct 26, 2019

Originalsly:
This is most important.... don't ever ignore warning signs. He has a big contract .... but travelling for two weeks to hopefully contest for it? ... travelling but not knowing where to stay? ... can afford two week stay but clueless about getting data? ...and borrowing money for same?...N1K? You not living in a one room?...and single?... back to Plan A... borrow money...pay back quickly with interest... impress paying back is not a problem... set up for the kill.... either get your bank account details (locked room hurdle)... or big investment scheme... both failed... he mad. Consider yourself lucky he didn't jam a knife at your throat... force you to give him the details... then slit your throat....and disappearing. Again..... never ignore warning signs or gut feelings.
Some men are really dogs.... but few are exceptions... the ones you can trust with all your heart.... like me for example..... sooo calm and honest and gentle like a ~~lion~~ lamb. So now that the beast has gone and the guest room is empty.... and I have to be in your area for a conference.... is it possible that ehmmmm......can we talk privately??

This baba na CID.. ��

@the boldened..

If I hear pim

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by JohnnyPalmer: 8:17pm On Oct 26, 2019

@ maynation.... I don't often commend nairaland ladies
As a matter of fact, I have zeroed nairaland ladies
But you have changed my opinion that there are still good ones..

Lesson number one.... Never judge based on one side of the story

I guess many would have condemned the lady based on the guys post.. Without hearing from the other side

Number 2.....never trust a stranger you met online.... The ones you know in real life cannot be completely trusted

What if he had killed you in your own home

It wasn't a wise decision and I blame your boyfriend... Good heart or not

The guy had a plan... There was no contract... He was an obvious scammer

He only came to Akure to see you, effect the plan and maybe chop the cookie too

You just a strong lady for not giving in

He's obviously an amateur too and sloppy... Invading your privacy and still telling you, he knows how much you earn

Lazy motherfvcker

Pained ass niggaa...he eventually lost control and panicked.... Rushed here to boost his ego....

Did you ask for the 10k extra?

What about the accommodation for 2 weeks ? Probably you were the one feeding him and all.... Still no get shame dey say he's broke

Isn't all that worth more than 10k?

A sense of useless entitlement... You should buy him 1k card

This Jay dude will come to regret it.... Cos he just wasted a lifetime friendship opportunity..

I liked that you cleared him on time.... Not leading him on

The onus lies on him not to give up... Maybe he win eventually win your heart or something.... Various ways to do this right.... The mofo decided to play a fast one

When it didn't work out... He started crying foul... Trying to thrash a good samaritan image

You lucky he wasn't around.... When you told him... You'd saved enough money for another car
He would have had sleepless nights.... Maybe na then im go hit you something for head

Who is the scammer?
So many guys are disgracing the male gender

He never had money for any hotel... He told you he was broke when he came around.... He was banking on you accommodating him from start....
You dived right into it.... It was a well laid out plan... I give it to him
He only got emotional and naive at the end

Let's say you actually had feelings for him.... It will be like filmtrick, how your money for grow wings

You've done nothing wrong, except being too nice, too trusting and too accomodating

God bless you sis... There might actually be a few good Nigerian gals out there with no strings attached

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by Biritiko: 8:18pm On Oct 26, 2019

maynation:
I better do

Lol
Well, thank you for creating this thread and all, you have no idea how much lessons I’ve learnt from reading through .

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by izaray(f): 8:20pm On Oct 26, 2019

Treasure17:
Wow... I saw this thread yesterday and I waved it aside thinking it was another super story from a nairalander without concrete evidence. I was engrossed while reading honestly. First off, thank goodness he didn't succeed with his plans and you were very lucky not to fall for such. Others could have succeeded with this little opportunity. Base on what have seen so far via the screenshots, Too low for the guy to capitalise on your disposition of being too nice. Don't want to fault you here maynation by accommodating the guy, you did the right thing but you didn't apply caution. This just shows you are a good fellow with a great heart and God will reward you for that. And for the guy, I won't judge you cause I wasn't there but remember, the words says whoever uses evil to pay good, evil will never depart from his house... You are a rare gem maynation for helping a total stranger at such... Very risky in this Nigeria... cheers.
izaray, you need to see this honestly. Things are happening on Nairaland o

Thank you so much for the mention

Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by Originalsly: 8:25pm On Oct 26, 2019

maynation:
This baba na CID.. ��

@the boldened..

If I hear pim

Pim....now what?? �

Really... I'm glad you put this out there.... stood up and defended yourself...and did so verrrry well. Is like you just can't be nice to people again without looking at them as if you're ehmmm....CID ??

Hmmmm...... all these fine women with head full of working brain just be hiding in the shadows.

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by maynation(op): 8:28pm On Oct 26, 2019

JohnnyPalmer:
@ maynation.... I don't often commend nairaland ladies
As a matter of fact, I have zeroed nairaland ladies
But you have changed my opinion that there are still good ones..

Lesson number one.... Never judge based on one side of the story

I guess many would have condemned the lady based on the guys post.. Without hearing from the other side

Number 2.....never trust a stranger you met online.... The ones you know in real life cannot be completely trusted

What if he had killed you in your own home

It wasn't a wise decision and I blame your boyfriend... Good heart or not

The guy had a plan... There was no contract... He was an obvious scammer

He only came to Akure to see you, effect the plan and maybe chop the cookie too

You just a strong lady for not giving in

He's obviously an amateur too and sloppy... Invading your privacy and still telling you, he knows how much you earn

Lazy motherfvcker

Pained ass niggaa...he eventually lost control and panicked.... Rushed here to boost his ego....

Did you ask for the 10k extra?

What about the accommodation for 2 weeks ? Probably you were the one feeding him and all.... Still no get shame dey say he's broke

Isn't all that worth more than 10k?

A sense of useless entitlement... You should buy him 1k card

This Jay dude will come to regret it.... Cos he just wasted a lifetime friendship opportunity..

I liked that you cleared him on time.... Not leading him on

The onus lies on him not to give up... Maybe he win eventually win your heart or something.... Various ways to do this right.... The mofo decided to play a fast one

When it didn't work out... He started crying foul... Trying to thrash a good samaritan image

You lucky he wasn't around.... When you told him... You'd saved enough money for another car
He would have had sleepless nights.... Maybe na then im go hit you something for head

Who is the scammer?
So many guys are disgracing the male gender

He never had money for any hotel... He told you he was broke when he came around.... He was banking on you accommodating him from start....
You dived right into it.... It was a well laid out plan... I give it to him
He only got emotional and naive at the end

Let's say you actually had feelings for him.... It will be like filmtrick, how your money for grow wings

You've done nothing wrong, except being too nice, too trusting and too accomodating

God bless you sis... There might actually be a few good Nigerian gals out there with no strings attached

You people are just making me smile with your level of intelligence.

Thanks a lot sweet heart.

Lessons learnt, advice taken.

Thanks a bunch

Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by maynation(op): 8:30pm On Oct 26, 2019

Originalsly:
Pim....now what?? �

Really... I'm glad you put this out there.... stood up and defended yourself...and did so verrrry well. Is like you just can't be nice to people again without looking at them as if you're ehmmm....CID ??

Hmmmm...... all these fine women with head full of working brain just be hiding in the shadows.

I didn't say I won't be nice to people o Oga.

It just doesn't have to be on NL.

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by BecaciaBarbie(f): 9:05pm On Oct 26, 2019

maynation:
I def won't let it slide.

Your kind is rare....you remind me of a good friend, people like you are just few in this world, really I’m impressed.

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by emerged01(m): 9:18pm On Oct 26, 2019*

Wow! That guy na badoo! Op try fa! While reading the chats,I discovered the guy is a grade A scammer. Thank God he met a rare gem.

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by Treasure17(m): 9:19pm On Oct 26, 2019

izaray:
Thank you so much for the mention

You welcome.

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by Rukkydelta(f): 9:59pm On Oct 26, 2019

LilMissFavvy:
Hmmmm......be careful my dear.

Sure I will
Thank you

Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by BabbanBura(m): 10:02pm On Oct 26, 2019

maynation:
Good morning fellow wonderful people.

This thread is a response to the baseless accusation from a nairalander yesterday.
Worthy of mention is the fact that he has called to apologise late last night, i guess he had a little sugar rush and this sorta made him go haywire. Anyways, i have forgiven him out of my good heart but then the deed has already been done and I believe many people have already seen the post so I definitely need to clear my name.

For the sake of my peace of mind, I have been on nairaland since 2009, even though I deactivated my previous account and and created this one. Since I have been on this forum I have never exchanged contacts with anyone apart from Jason (which shall be referred to as Jay all through my post).
I gave spoken and met some nairalanders actually but it is out of this platform. I met Lirusehn back then in ABU, I met: "Queenyprinxex, Sehindemi15'' and one other guy I can't remember his name at Lirusehn's birthday party back then in 2017 and we have been friends since then.

Then again he alleged that 'Sisterfine' and 'pettyprincess' are my alternate monikers, please this isn't so. I met these people on that thread so his claim is an obvious baloney.
My alternates are 'maynattion and maynnation!.

Why did I give Jay my contact? He begged. Yeah, he begged. He was too persistent and I felt giving him the number wouldn't cause any harm even though I out-rightly regretted and regret this.

Anyways, I will be sharing screenshots of what truly transpired and I will allow you fellows to be the judge. But did he really give me 10K as he alleged? This post will answer it.

Below is the screenshot of the post that was later removed by moderators.

Be my guests.

MyNation your kind amoung women are rare. You are so smart and your maturity is ocean-deep. Your heart is Angel's!

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by CaptainMitch: 10:29pm On Oct 26, 2019

Cannicus the boss, welcome Sir.

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by spirul77: 10:34pm On Oct 26, 2019

@op, I'm sure you are not ready for all the attention this whole issue would subject you to, the best thing I would suggest you do is deactivate this your account and the alternates that has similar wordings with this your moniker, create another account and with different moniker and start a new "nairaland life" ,because as the matter be so na different styles and different patterns men go take dey throw you formats from now onwards

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by iamoyindamola(m): 10:41pm On Oct 26, 2019

maynation:
I def won't let it slide.

babe you are really special ,may God bless you abundantly chai what a rare gem
Men are scum truly and shameless I'm ashamed on behalf of the guy.

Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by area74: 10:49pm On Oct 26, 2019

@maynation,

I am publicly requesting to become your friend. If the chats I read are true without dilution, there is no point hiding behind a finger. A woman like you is so rare.

I need not to proof anything because you will naturally become wary of meeting new guys especially from a faceless forum like nairaland but I can assure you that my identity is real. I am the country manager of a popular company in Nigeria in one of the west African countries.

I am in a dire need of a girl like you. I believe that you will complement me. I need your maturity and intelligence. I hope that you will find my personality interesting. One bad thing about me is that I'm always very busy and constantly travels due to the nature of my job.

I am not shy to express my friendship publicly because what is good is worth chasing.

Here is my email : tyolamide22atgmaildotcom

Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by Sukueponmalu: 10:52pm On Oct 26, 2019

spirul77:
@op, I'm sure you are not ready for all the attention this whole issue would subject you to, the best thing I would suggest you do is deactivate this your account and the alternates that has similar wordings with this your moniker, create another account and with different moniker and start a new "nairaland life" ,because as the matter be so na different styles and different patterns men go take dey throw you formats from now onwards

Trust me.
This young lady is fucking smart and won’t fall for any bullshit easily.
After reading all that chat, you’ll notice that she’s obviously nice, got a kind heart. But this girl is a fucking smart ass!

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by DenreleDave(m): 10:55pm On Oct 26, 2019

maynation:
Thanks so much Olumide

U r adored dear... U proved ur innocence...

Don't drag anytin again

Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by Resees: 10:57pm On Oct 26, 2019

Not tryna insult you,but you must be real tough for a woman to bring this kinda person inside your house to stay for even 1 sec not to talk of staying for over 24hrs .You need to be real careful this desperate moot could have Robbed you off all you have or even killed you..

Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by CyberWolf: 11:08pm On Oct 26, 2019*

You have a boyfriend and you housed another niggar you’ve never met before in your house? Ladies like you shouldn’t be taken serious. Some people here are saying OP is smart, like seriously? I see a dumb girl that fell for the same format yahoo boys use in hypnotizing there potential maye and as you all see, she fell for it flat and even started doing favors that the scammer didn’t even ask for, that is offering to house him free of charge and she get boyfriend oo and your so called boyfriend even spoke with the scammer on phone cheesy

chai.. You see that you and ur boyfriend are dumb. You’re very lucky that the Jay scammer only perfected his con skills but lack the mind and courage to execute his plan if not, you would’ve turn like this “ young lady killed and dumped on the street, some body parts missing” and we all here will blame yahoo boys, ritualists, skull miner, etc. ... Just go and thank your stars, most ladies like you are not that lucky.

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by Swissheart(f): 11:32pm On Oct 26, 2019

@maynation

I hope you have moved to a new house.

It was too much of a risk to house a grown man who isn't related to you in any way except that you think he is some nice guy you met on here. Yeah, there are no rules to who or where you meet people but Babes, it was too much to do. That guy left who knows wherever he lives to come cool off with you....he had no business in akure.

As soon as he discovered you were doing pretty well for yourself, stealing from you, robbing you or duping you was the next on his evil agenda. Thank goodness you weren't hurt because if he had come prepared he would have done more.

I have met guys on this forum that I'll forever be thankful to God that I met and ofcos.....it is mutual.

Sis, pls don't always trust too easily, your home is suppose to be your safe place. Every Tom dick and harry can't be welcomed in there especially because you live alone!

You are a nice person and your heart is pure but the sad truth is that some people are just out there to take advantage of the nice ones.

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by Lamanii22(f): 12:24am On Oct 27, 2019

Ginaz:
You don’t really need to prove anything babe. You should let it go and shouldn’t bring it to Nairaland .

People will forget it sooner or later.

*modified*

Oh my gosh. Maynation you’re such a rare gem. I took my time to read all that happened and thank God you came out to clear your name.

The guy is a complete asswipe and a gigolo. Such a loser. Thank God nothing bad happened to you while he was at your house . Girl please be careful next time don’t just allow people into your house .

What if you had been raped (I reject it) or robbed? God bless you dear for you kind heart. Keep being you but keep people at arm’s length you don’t know too well of.

I swear down... Accepting him in her own home is a great deal... I mean who does that... She's so kind... Those curses are empty... It can't work... Her kindness supersedes...

Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by Lamanii22(f): 12:26am On Oct 27, 2019

I want a friend like maynation .. My laws you're too kind... Keep being you dear... That guy's such an asshole...

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by Santinho: 12:33am On Oct 27, 2019

After reading through I must say you are a smart girl with a very unique heart. Your responses to his messages and when to pull the plug during d convo was a top notch. I can't really say that I have seen your type socially before.
The guy is a scammer who planned everything before coming to ur house. His contracts et al were all fake from inception.
He only got furious when he discovered both plan A and B couldn't work out and you were smarter than he thought, and he also realized that he lost 10k to you which wasn't even enough to me looking at d cost of accommodation and feeding you gave him.
Please do not stop to help people around you if you can... But not some random online goaldigger.

Modified :
Why are some people here especially the guys still defending that idiot with this overwhelming evidence. This is absurd.
May God reward you for your kind gestures.
On a lighter note, you acted like a double agent in a Hollywood movie...The guy is a Scammer who later got scammed � 10k

Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by Nobody: 12:41am On Oct 27, 2019

Carbon2Oxide:
As we type... some boys are still sending this girl mail o

Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by DonroxyII: 12:50am On Oct 27, 2019

Ginaz:
You don’t really need to prove anything babe. You should let it go and shouldn’t bring it to Nairaland .

People will forget it sooner or later.

*modified*

Oh my gosh. Maynation you’re such a rare gem. I took my time to read all that happened and thank God you came out to clear your name.

The guy is a complete asswipe and a gigolo. Such a loser. Thank God nothing bad happened to you while he was at your house . Girl please be careful next time don’t just allow people into your house .

What if you had been raped (I reject it) or robbed? God bless you dear for you kind heart. Keep being you but keep people at arm’s length you don’t know too well of.

Maynation is not a rare gem but a stupid spoilt gem !!

She brought all the shi.t on herself hearing the intelligent talks from him .... Most intellectual guys are potential scammers , you won't see it coming because what you see is the intellect !!

Now, I will have to train my would be daughters better !!! ......

From the huge contract, VC, Cheap Hotel , trash talk .... An intelligent mind would have seen some disconnect.... Maynation fell because she lent him 25k and he returned 35k .....

Testing the water to earn trust for big lash !!

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by Nobody: 12:53am On Oct 27, 2019

Ote sele bo yahoo ni babalawo
Ole ni everybody eni ile moba sani barawo
Ofe se ika fun mi
mi ologun mo ni Quran
mon de se adura mi
bi nse se adura mi
Allah ngba adura mi
Ati lo atide
eni ori yo odile
eniba lo lo bade
igba tin gba da de
se na de mi ni ade
kade kope lori
ki bata ko pelese
ki awon ota mi kan lese

Inside life lotiri 5ive alive

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by Nobody: 1:01am On Oct 27, 2019

maynation:
Good morning fellow wonderful people.

This thread is a response to the baseless accusation from a nairalander yesterday.
Worthy of mention is the fact that he has called to apologise late last night, i guess he had a little sugar rush and this sorta made him go haywire. Anyways, i have forgiven him out of my good heart but then the deed has already been done and I believe many people have already seen the post so I definitely need to clear my name.

For the sake of my peace of mind, I have been on nairaland since 2009, even though I deactivated my previous account and and created this one. Since I have been on this forum I have never exchanged contacts with anyone apart from Jason (which shall be referred to as Jay all through my post).
I gave spoken and met some nairalanders actually but it is out of this platform. I met Lirusehn back then in ABU, I met: "Queenyprinxex, Sehindemi15'' and one other guy I can't remember his name at Lirusehn's birthday party back then in 2017 and we have been friends since then.

Then again he alleged that 'Sisterfine' and 'pettyprincess' are my alternate monikers, please this isn't so. I met these people on that thread so his claim is an obvious baloney.
My alternates are 'maynattion and maynnation!.

Why did I give Jay my contact? He begged. Yeah, he begged. He was too persistent and I felt giving him the number wouldn't cause any harm even though I out-rightly regretted and regret this.

Anyways, I will be sharing screenshots of what truly transpired and I will allow you fellows to be the judge. But did he really give me 10K as he alleged? This post will answer it.

Below is the screenshot of the post that was later removed by moderators.

Be my guests.

Op I have never come across the extent of kindness. No not in this day and age with the evil that lurks around. You are rare, you talked, housed, fed and stayed alone with a man you barely knew. It is mind blowing how you were wary of his sinister intentions. And yet you were not wary enough not to allow him into your house. Or had the courage to throw him out at the first red flag( him going through your documents and asking about your income). You really had courage to stay alone with him for days.
You shouldn't change not everyone is the same. We do have good people with good intentions. Btw you are lucky enough to have solid evidence of your interactions together

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Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by DonroxyII: 1:08am On Oct 27, 2019

Pettyprincess:
Mumu you think she dates underage boys like you? Better go nd face your studies Maynation dnt mind this toddler o, dnt let them tag you paedophile,he is one of the yahoo boys here that you need to avoid!!

.... See casting and finishing !!

Re: I am not a scammer. My encounter with a Nairalander by DonroxyII: 1:18am On Oct 27, 2019

sinaj:
This is quite risky sha, aside been strong and smart I think you are lucky he didnt go diabolical on you to cart away with your savings or even kill you.

I swear down .... I'd advice she even relocate from that her house ..... Upon all the gory tales we hear all over Nigeria and Nairaland .... You can harbour a total stranger in your house because you think he is a potential connect grin

...

Maynation wants to be the one that help the next Goodluck Ebele Jonathan cheesy

..... Partharcourt serial killer issues have never finish .......

Imagine omo Akure .... Oodua, Yoruba .... !!

You ain't even scared of something happening to him in your house and his family change am for you for killing their son ...... Good heart can change to eternal life in Prison or you carry another person misfortune jejely sitting in your house !!

I can never harbour who I don't know .... Your people must know me and I must know them ... !!

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