I've been in love with a lady that i'll soon marry. We've never had sex, and she claimed she's a virgin. Pls how will i confirm that on our first night? I don't want to go to the hospital for a test.. please i need your suggestions m thanks.

Solacemk:
I've been in love with a lady that i'll soon marry. We've never had sex, and she claimed she's a virgin. Pls how did i confirm that on our first night? I don't want to go to the hospital for a test.. please i need your suggestions m thanks.

Start by trusting her and then your instincts

Good attitude is more desirable than virginity. I understand though that she claimed she is a virgin. Manage your expectations to avoid disappointment. You will know if she is because it will be your worst sex ever. I said that because it's always a herculean task to break virginity

Solacemk:
I've been in love with a lady that i'll soon marry. We've never had sex, and she claimed she's a virgin. Pls how did will i confirm that on our first night? I don't want to go to the hospital for a test.. please i need your suggestions m thanks.

Op edit the subject to reflect "will"

Sorry son, you have to put it in it.
That's the sure way to the state of the clitoris.

ClitRaider:
Sorry son, you have to put it in it.
That's the sure way to the state of the clitoris.

What's the difference?

This is a good question...believe it or not a lot of guys only have theoretical knowledge thanks to our Yoruba demons that have helped us to disvirgin all our girlfriends before age 20..

And these days many girls have started hiding under the canopy of “ I was born without hymen”....

For peeps who aren't aware. The hymen is a very thin flap of skin which sometimes breaks due to physical activity before a sexually inactive female reaches 25. So don't be surprised if you get intimate with a virgin lady and there isn't any bleeding. It doesn't mean she isn't a virgin, simply means the hymen has broken b4 now

HYMENOPLASTY is a surgery for the reconstruction of hymen i.e virginity.
I am laughing

Just trust her word. She could be or maybe not. The most important thing is the love you share. If you love her, you will trust her. But if at the end you discover that she is not a virgin, confront her. That won't change anything anyway, but it shouldn't stop u from loving her.

Someone who claims to be a virgin and is not in the end, does not have a good character. A trustworthy and honest partner are very important traits to have so he has every right to be concerned if his partner is telling the truth or not about her virginity. You would be surprised about how many women lie about this.

olu77:
Good attitude is more desirable than virginity. I understand though that she claimed she is a virgin. Manage your expectations to avoid disappointment. You will know if she is because it will be your worst sex ever. I said that because it's always a herculean task to break virginity

Start with soaking the bedspread in kerosene....

Use finger

Ebonygirl1:
For peeps who aren't aware. The hymen is a very thin flap of skin which sometimes breaks due to physical activity before a sexually inactive female reaches 25. So don't be surprised if you get intimate with a virgin lady and there isn't any bleeding. It doesn't mean she isn't a virgin, simply means the hymen has broken b4 now

dey lie for your papa head there.

olabrinks:
Someone who claims to be a virgin and is not in the end, does not have a good character. A trustworthy and honest partner are very important traits to have so he has every right to be concerned if his partner is telling the truth or not about her virginity. You would be surprised about how many women lie about this.

That is quite true but some hymen are fragile too and could have been broken through activities other than sex. That there is no outlet of blood does inot mply she's not a virgin making things more complicated.

broken plate.


Reminds me of my mama

The hymen is not the only way to know. You will know if you’re having intercourse with a virgin.

olu77:


That is quite true but some hymen are fragile too and could have been broken through activities other than sex. That there is no outlet of blood does inot mply she's not a virgin making things more complicated.

olabrinks:
The hymen is not the only way to know. You will know if you’re having intercourse with a virgin.

How please? Can u explain more? Thanks

olabrinks:
The hymen is not the only way to know. You will know if you’re having intercourse with a virgin.

I bet. Don't know if some girls can fake it though.

Blood on d sheets. Atleast that's how people of old confirm and celebrate virginity

olabrinks:
The hymen is not the only way to know. You will know if you’re having intercourse with a virgin.

that's true.... penetration will be very difficult and painful. Might require several trials sef.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Blood on d sheets. Atleast that's how people of old confirm and celebrate virginity

What if it was menstruation blood

olu77:
Good attitude is more desirable than virginity. I understand though that she claimed she is a virgin. Manage your expectations to avoid disappointment. You will know if she is because it will be your worst sex ever. I said that because it's always a herculean task to break virginity

My own experience was like atomic bomb especially when I had to climax

Gloriagee:
Start with soaking the bedspread in kerosene....

Lol, what will d kerosene do if I may ask

Think it over and over again, imagine how many men she'd slept with...if you're able to fall asleep,then the hole is deep, but if u can't, the hole is blocked...

Iogobenz:
dey lie for your papa head there.

The guys on this forum need to get themselves educated.

We have to ask the gods for this one!

Ebonygirl1:
For peeps who aren't aware. The hymen is a very thin flap of skin which sometimes breaks due to physical activity before a sexually inactive female reaches 25. So don't be surprised if you get intimate with a virgin lady and there isn't any bleeding. It doesn't mean she isn't a virgin, simply means the hymen has broken b4 now

You are on point.

Ok

Ebonygirl1:
For peeps who aren't aware. The hymen is a very thin flap of skin which sometimes breaks due to physical activity before a sexually inactive female reaches 25. So don't be surprised if you get intimate with a virgin lady and there isn't any bleeding. It doesn't mean she isn't a virgin, simply means the hymen has broken b4 now

Sister Linus Mbaonu

AstroG:




Sister Linus Mbaonu

Go and educate yourself. Its true

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