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The school name get :ocock in it,so nothing surprise me

Best to see the face of the girl in case you decide to wife her and she's claiming "virgin".

Lol. JK

Johnbosco77:
Well said bro.. he who is without sin should cast the first stone..
Babcock no try...

First, the couple are guilty. Their guilt is not in the fact that they had sex. Their sins are in recording their actions on tape.

But they forget that there are hundreds of other acts like these going on right under their noses. The difference is that those ones are yet to be caught.

Nobody cares about what anybody does in their private and secret lives. They made it a public issue when they decided to made video of it and it found its way into the internet. They have themselves to blame

safarigirl:
Was this epistle really necessary?

Yes, everybody failed; the girl, the guy, the distributor of the video, the school, parents and guardians.

There are consequences for failure. You don't get to fail and continue like nothing happened, the point of a mistake is to learn from it. The girl made s mistake and has to pay for it by way of her dignity being spread online and her expulsion, the boy made a mistake and has also been expelled, albeit, he was smart enough to keep his face out of it, the school made mistakes and their name is equally being tarnished in the media, the parents mistake has led to their children's shame all over the internet.

The lesson to learn from all this is that, you should never create a sex tape and if you must, keep your face out of it, so, even if it is traced back to you, you can deny it with your full chest

What is the school mistake in all these?

modelmike7:
of all d tins d thread talked about. na gate be ur own problem? Misplaced priority.

The thing tire me oh, couldn't help but laugh...that's the beauty of nairaland all this funny comment.

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wamide042:
Will Deji yesufu be happy as a parent if his own daughter was caught on sex tape.....just asking......

Do you breath through your anus?

VBCampaign:
Sex Tapes and Depraved Viewers

In the past week another sex tape hit the Nigerian social media space. A young couple can be seen in the video in what is best called compromised positions. It happens that the two of them are students of Babcock University. Almost immediately after the tape was published, the university issues a statement saying that the boy in the tape had since been rusticated from the school; while the university has now taken the decision to also expel the lady.

In a bid to get more information on the story I thought I should view the tape myself. So I searched on YouTube and saw this seven minute video of a young man saying something like this:

“Eh, so what are you looking for? Sex tape abi? I don’t have any sex tape here o. I just want you to subscribe to my channel. You know, you people come here and watch me tell jokes all the time but you don’t follow my YouTube videos. Is it good? Now sex tape has been released and you are all running around looking for it. It is not here… Just subscribe to my channel; abeg…”

While his message was meant to be cheeky and a creative way to get people to follow his videos on YouTube, it turned out to be a rebuke on my own heart. What exactly did I need a sex scene for? The facts of the story were already in the public. So why was I looking for the video to validate the story? I realized that my own depraved mind was looking for something which was clearly pornographic but couched in the guise of a breaking news. It did not take long to see my heart. I repented.

The fact of this story is simply this: all of us are in one way or the other culpable in this matter. I would use the rest of this essay to describe our sins to us with the hope that we all can find repentance and possibly that kind of faith in Jesus Christ that would spur a holiness that can prevent partaking in the next sex tape will hit the Nigerian social media sphere.

First, the couple are guilty. Their guilt is not in the fact that they had sex. If these young people are above the age of eighteen, they are adults and they have the right to do whatever they wish with their bodies. And since they are clearly not professing Christians I cannot use the standard of God’s law to judge to them here. Their sins are in recording their actions on tape. No one knows yet who published that tape but it appears that the very filming was done by the duo themselves and possibly preserved for each other’s viewing pleasure – in private. But with time, things could have happened. There may have been a fallen out between them. One of them may have given the tape to a friend, who eventually began to use it to blackmail them. The possibilities are endless. So the foremost mistake they made was in putting a private act, a precious and sacred act, on recording. I hold the theory that 100% of nude photos and sex tapes will come to the public – sooner or later. It is better those things are never recorded. A naked human body is a sacred picture that should be preserved for that person alone; or for their spouses within the boundaries of a marriage. The moment it goes beyond those boundaries, anything can go wrong. In these days of recording videos on phones, people should realize that it is wrong to make nude recording. It is a sin against human nature that has the potential to destroy one’s life.

Second, Babcock University is guilty. I am hoping that the young girl and her family would realize that there is no law in Nigeria that forbids anyone from having sex – whether or not it is recorded on tape. I hope that they can find lawyers that will sue that university blind and collect damages. Babcock University, an institution owned by the Seventh Day Adventist Churches in Nigeria, are being hypocritical in sending away a student all because her sex tapes were published. Of course they would say that they are both a university and a religious organization and such acts contravene their moral code. But they forget that there are hundreds of other acts like these going on right under their noses. The difference is that those ones are yet to be caught. If Adventist’s Christianity is genuinely redemptive, restoring that girl to a relationship with Jesus Christ should be higher in their agenda than separating themselves from her failures. This situation reminds one of Jesus’ words to the Pharisee: “…he that is without sin should cast the first stone…” (John 8:7). Babcock University will expel that young girl because they have failed to bring their own children and wards up in the way of the Lord. And the moment an act that will tarnish their reputation is published, they now do everything to distance themselves from it. They remind me of Foursquare Churches Nigeria, who quickly distanced themselves from the Mr. “Lecturer” of University of Lagos, following the BBC publishing of sex for marks in that school. If these institutions are genuinely intent on instilling morals in their wards, they would not be casting them out the very minute they discover they fail.

Third, the viewers of the sex tapes are all guilty. That is you and me. Has anyone ever wondered why sex-tapes go viral? Viral means that something has gone everywhere – like the spread of a virus. The reason such videos go viral is because certain people are watching them. If you do not watch a video and choose not to pass it on to the next person, the video will stop right there on it tracks. But there is a depravity in all of us that loves to see nudity. Many of us do not watch pornography but we enjoy the sight of others being exposed while doing what people should be doing in private. It is sin in us that makes us crave to see sex tapes and this is where repentance is required of us all. We are all guilty.

There is this scripture that has helped me to deal with my own heart depravity regarding sex. It is the words of Apostle Paul:

“For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his body in holiness and honor…” 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4.

While the command to abstain from sexual immorality is clear in the whole of the Bible, the latter instruction is very helpful: it says to know how to control one’s body. Now that is the key to dealing with sexual immorality: know your triggers and separate yourself from them. It may be a look; it may be a touch; it may be a gist-partner; it may be friends; or it may be movies or recorded videos. The trigger points for sexual immorality are abundant and if we are intent on pleasing God with our bodies as Christians, we must know these things and separate ourselves from them. The very act of separation is what sanctification entails.

But even much more than these: we would realize that these admonition was not to everyone. The letter was written to Christians in Thessalonica. It means therefore that anyone who is not a Christian does not have anything in himself to control his body against sexual sin, besides will power; and the moment your will power is compromised, you are done. Thus the very next admonition is to call all who wish to know victory over their sexual appetites to believe in Jesus Christ and find the help of his Holy Spirit to overcome their inner depravity.

The words of Paul puts the Babcock students’ scandal to perspective: separation from sexual sin is holding the human body in honor. Humanities’ use of sex may either lead to glory and honor, or to shame and disgrace. Sex is a sacred act that God has created within the boundaries of marriage alone. Anything outside of these boundaries will lead to shame, dishonor and sometimes even death. This is the story of Babcock and her students; and it will be the story of all who choose to dishonor God in their bodies with sexual immorality. The next victim can be you if you choose to continue in your way of sin and dishonor.

© Deji Yesufu

Deji Yesufu is the author of the books of Victor Banjo and Half a Millennium. He teaches a Reformed Bible Study group every Saturday morning at the University of Ibadan.

Source: http://mouthpiece.com.ng/sex-tapes-and-depraved-viewers/

slowpoke. So the school should not send them away. The school should award them abi. They knew the school rules and regulations and still chose to go against it. Even if d sex was outside school, they shouldn't have recorded since they were still schooling. It would surely get out. I heard it was the guy dat even showed his friend the video and his friend tapped it from his phone. They got their deserved punishment. I support Babcock on this. If it were ur daughter, so u wouldn't get annoyed. U would just pet her and talk abi as if she's a kid that doesn't know what she did. They're adults and they knew the consequences. That's life... People that would be foolish would still be foolish. Not everyone would play by d rules.

Wow

Well I wrote about the Babcock Saga from the angles of those involved. Read here https://www.nairaland.com/5544854/babcock-saga-examined-angle-those

Not sure OP isn't contradicting himself. I'm pissed at all these they are adults talk. Adults still paying their own school fee? Or living alone. Or still answering to some other persons.

wamide042:
Will Deji yesufu be happy as a parent if his own daughter was caught on sex tape.....just asking......

Too bad you missed his points.

They named the school"babcock" and they wonder why their students are having premarital sex

Deep

why why

ola33t:




There is nothing wrong patronizing made-in-Nigeria soft-porn during this border closure. That's all what the government has been preaching lately. The video is a welcome development, as Nigerians could focus on made-in-Nigeria porn and take a rest from foreign xvideos for a while.

I saw a thread fews minutes ago on Nairaland Front Page, where a kind hearted Nairalander said she is about to drop her sex tape online too, sequel to the Babcock video. That's the kind of patriotic spirit that can keep made-in-Nigeria products in progress.

The short Babcock soft porn traveled more than all the travels the Nigerian president has made during all his years as president. The video has been the only successful export of Nigeria in recent times, Mia Khalifa was impressed by the bedmatics and prowess of the duo.

I know Honorable Bright Ejedewhro and Elisha Abbo would have watched the clip more than five times today. Babcock video is one of the best things that happened to the country lately.
Lets learn to appreciate made-in-Nigeria products instead of being the antagonist against our own development.

ornicus:
I am ashamed for this computer illiterate who is looking for porn vids on youtube. That is the real shock for me here.

Please explain better

Brightgem:
Well I wrote about the Babcock Saga from the angles of those involved. Read here https://www.nairaland.com/5544854/babcock-saga-examined-angle-those

Not sure OP isn't contradicting himself. I'm pissed at all these they are adults talk. Adults still paying their own school fee? Or living alone. Or still answering to some other persons.

Oga anybody above the age of 18 is considered an adult legally and is responsible for his or her action. so the fact that they still in school doesn't make them any less of an adult t the fact that they dont live alone ot still answering to some other persons doesn't make them any less of an adult. i dont get your point exactly about them not being qualified as adults tbh

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ola33t:




There is nothing wrong patronizing made-in-Nigeria soft-porn during this border closure. That's all what the government has been preaching lately. The video is a welcome development, as Nigerians could focus on made-in-Nigeria porn and take a rest from foreign xvideos for a while.

I saw a thread fews minutes ago on Nairaland Front Page, where a kind hearted Nairalander said she is about to drop her sex tape online too, sequel to the Babcock video. That's the kind of patriotic spirit that can keep made-in-Nigeria products in progress.

The short Babcock soft porn traveled more than all the travels the Nigerian president has made during all his years as president. The video has been the only successful export of Nigeria in recent times, Mia Khalifa was impressed by the bedmatics and prowess of the duo.

I know Honorable Bright Ejedewhro and Elisha Abbo would have watched the clip more than five times today. Babcock video is one of the best things that happened to the country lately.
Lets learn to appreciate made-in-Nigeria products instead of being the antagonist against our own development.

jeffrey1596:
Please explain better

You will not find hardcore porn on YouTube. That is not youtubes market. They go out of their way to ensure there is no porn in their site.the best you will get is racy videos, and that is with a warning. Believe it or not porn publishers eg Brazzers, advertise on YouTube, but they do not publish videos there.

Have you ever seen a hardcore video with Instruments on YouTube? That's why I call the guy an illiterate Las Las he is just lying there for the sake of his story.

safarigirl:
Was this epistle really necessary?

Yes, everybody failed; the girl, the guy, the distributor of the video, the school, parents and guardians.

There are consequences for failure. You don't get to fail and continue like nothing happened, the point of a mistake is to learn from it. The girl made s mistake and has to pay for it by way of her dignity being spread online and her expulsion, the boy made a mistake and has also been expelled, albeit, he was smart enough to keep his face out of it, the school made mistakes and their name is equally being tarnished in the media, the parents mistake has led to their children's shame all over the internet.

The lesson to learn from all this is that, you should never create a sex tape and if you must, keep your face out of it, so, even if it is traced back to you, you can deny it with your full chest

word.

maasoap:
What is the school mistake in all these?

I wonder ooh.

maasoap:
Nobody cares about what anybody does in their private and secret lives. They made it a public issue when they decided to made video of it and it found its way into the internet. They have themselves to blame

lol

The writer is saying that the students should be exonerated because others doing it are yet to be caught.

How lame.

Officialgarri:
Everyone keeps talking for talk sake.

Should I pet an armed robber for stealing simply because you don't have clean hands in the past?

Some people will shout 'hypocrite' that what we do in the closet is worse.

Yes, it's done in the "closet" and that's what makes it private.

When you record what you ought to practice in private, then you must be ready to face any consequence that comes afterwards.
I stand solidly with Babcock on their decision.

If we keep treating all terrible cases with love, then we should be ready to plunge into further decadence.

how is having sex and recording it a terrible case?....and how can you compare an armed robber to people having sex? Your analogy is very flawed

Check out the video by clicking the link and Slide left to watch

https://www.instagram.com/p/B5MnR6yHTzx/?igshid=1dlthmcjk7ejh

Everybody Sha wan trend for social media
The girl and boy wey do sex tape and op wey write long epistle dey craze

Sex is sacred

Like Babcock, like Queens College

Institutions that are designed to build are so ego-driven in destroying self esteem, character and their students... It's all about their self agenda, not building students.

wamide042:
Will Deji yesufu be happy as a parent if his own daughter was caught on sex tape.....just asking......

No parents will be happy, but will you kill or disown your daughter if such happen to her.

safarigirl:
Was this epistle really necessary?

Yes, everybody failed; the girl, the guy, the distributor of the video, the school, parents and guardians.

There are consequences for failure. You don't get to fail and continue like nothing happened, the point of a mistake is to learn from it. The girl made s mistake and has to pay for it by way of her dignity being spread online and her expulsion, the boy made a mistake and has also been expelled, albeit, he was smart enough to keep his face out of it, the school made mistakes and their name is equally being tarnished in the media, the parents mistake has led to their children's shame all over the internet.

The lesson to learn from all this is that, you should never create a sex tape and if you must, keep your face out of it, so, even if it is traced back to you, you can deny it with your full chest

So this is all you got from the writeup abi

Nice writeup bro.
We just all need to repent.
My concern is not just the actors.
The question is we the watchers. Especially those who are Christians.. Wetin we dey find there?
God have mercy.

ornicus:
I am ashamed for this computer illiterate who is looking for porn vids on youtube. That is the real shock for me here.

The thing shock me fa. When I saw YouTube I was like...