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Don't let the crashed marriages you see or read on social media scare you away from getting married..
Look at those marriages that are actually working out well and celebrating their anniversaries, then you realize that there's still hope for a good marriage.

No one is perfect but learning to love one's imperfection is everything and one of the factors that can keep a healthy marriage..
The only thing that should make you walk out of your marriage is "DOMESTIC VIOLENCE" cause once he/she starts hitting you, they won't stop until you're dead.

Every other shortcomings should be discussed as mature humans, if she can't cook, just teach her or enroll her in a catering school, if he doesn't know how to make sweet love to you, tell him instead of faking your moans till you finally walk out of the marriage, if he's not helping you with the house chores one way or the other, explain to him, let him know how draining it is to deal with everything alone without his help or support..
My point is whatever the problem is asides DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, learn to talk it out, so that instead of divorcing or making marriage look horrible, you'll be celebrating your anniversary.

Only you can tell perfectly where the shoe hurts, so communication/discussion/speaking out is really important.

Thanks for ur write ups..but,i dont know if u've come across the pics making round on facebook.where a wife poured hot water on her husband...many of them are never ready to talk it out.some persons are just demons in human form,hidding under marriage to carry out their assignment.

No I have not.

donbachi:
Thanks for ur write ups..but,i dont know if u've come across the pics making round on facebook.where a wife poured hot water on her husband...many of them are never ready to talk it out.some persons are just demons in human form,hidding under marriage to carry out their assignment.