I pity them too but the ambitious ones strive to make something out of their lives rather than blaming the system everyday.

What gladdens the heart of your oppressor is seeing you crying and wailing always but success makes them hide their face in shame.

With the way the American system is any ambitious human on earth will make a decent living

safarigirl:
like I said, that guy explained it better, if I had more time I would have explained it to you.

Europe is not America. Europe is filled with native Europeans and native Africans, your experience in Europe is beginners level compared to centuries of racism in America that is even institutionalized.

You won't understand their problem, a lot of Africans can't relate. I don't like AAs much, but I pity them. They have serious identity crisis issue, if I can find that thread I will show you the post from a Nigerian who finally wrapped his head around the sad plight of AAs

Taliban:


No give am one of your left overs o or those wey una sample. Cos you ehn, you go be professional sampler!!!!!

Errrrrrm I don't sample no more

Humility017:


this marriage matter tire me nor be small.....

me that I am close to giving up nko?

Anyone who is morally sound and bothers to have standards these days, to find a partner is hard because people are messed up. No sense of loyalty, no respect, nothing.

Even trust is lacking, because women and men are ready to pretend to be who you want until you marry them and see a different thing.

safarigirl:
A Nigerian woman collects money from men doesn't mean all Nigerian women do that, but Nigerian men still generalize.

If you go online, see people warning their citizens against Nigerian men. You think it is one person that caused all that? Nigerian men are notorious o.

Same way you go online and see Nigerian men writing epistles on how entitled and gold digging Nigerian women are. Is it not generalization?

E Dey everybody body, no reason that one. If plenty people no dey do am, dem no go generalize am. How come they don't do same for Kenyan or Tanzanian men? How come Nigerian men are collecting the brunt of it?

They have blacklisted West African men as a whole, but you see Nigerian men, they have a special place in the hearts of scorned women

charlesemeka85:
I pity them too but the ambitious ones strive to make something out of their lives rather than blaming the system everyday.

What gladdens the heart of your oppressor is seeing you crying and wailing always but success makes them hide their face in shame.

With the way the American system is any ambitious human on earth will make a decent living

these ones are few, and America still finds a way to cut them down.

If dem no catch you in your youth, dem go hook you for old age, ask Bill Cosby.

Taliban:


Unfortunately history and most cultures have treated women as lesser beings. Women have been and in some cases treated as property and play toys to satisfy man's sexual urge. I am not speaking about feminism or any ideologies but mutual respect and fairness must be encouraged and practiced. It is not a sin for a man and his wife to work things together support themselves in all ramifications other than treatin them as baby machines, sexual objects, cooks, housemaid etc. Maybe if the girl child is treated with respect from her young age and sees the same done to older women around her, she won't become paranoid and become the detestable "feminists" the guys are complaining about today.

thank you for understanding this notion

Feminism is a result of unequal treatment and a case of the oppressed fighting back. The problem is, when you have been feeding a monster, it will eventually swallow you up.

No give up n at the same time lower ur standard if truly u wish to attract a good man.

safarigirl:
me that I am close to giving up nko?

Anyone who is morally sound and bothers to have standards these days, to find a partner is hard because people are messed up. No sense of loyalty, no respect, nothing.

Even trust is lacking, because women and men are ready to pretend to be who you want until you marry them and see a different thing.

I have one I talk to on fb, she is a doctor, hv her own house and 2 good rides. She told me why she was able to achieve all this becasue she made that decision not to hv any child that the father won't be around to assist her to raise.

Having kids out of wedlock hv set alot of them backward as well kill their dreams. It's normal to see an aa lady of 25 with 3 kids out of wedlock.

safarigirl:
these ones are few, and America still finds a way to cut them down.

If dem no catch you in your youth, dem go hook you for old age, ask Bill Cosby.

safarigirl:
me that I am close to giving up nko?

Anyone who is morally sound and bothers to have standards these days, to find a partner is hard because people are messed up. No sense of loyalty, no respect, nothing.

Even trust is lacking, because women and men are ready to pretend to be who you want until you marry them and see a different thing.

no Dear...never give up... I have been hurt severally but none of those experiences can ever make me give up on finding the right one....

you see people cant pretend for long and also they're basic characters we need cultivate prior a relationship and even marriage self
*humilty
*tolerance
*teachable

marriage have his lesson to teach...meaning we must come into it as students willing to learn and grow in it.....

trust me....

charlesemeka85:
I have one I talk to on fb, she is a doctor, hv her own house and 2 good rides. She told me why she was able to achieve all this becasue she made that decision not to hv any child that the father won't be around to assist her to raise.

Having kids out of wedlock hv set alot of them backward as well kill their dreams. It's normal to see an aa lady of 25 with 3 kids out of wedlock.

exactly...she knows her onion

ChrisKels:


Errrrrrm I don't sample no more

oga Chris.... haba
so na your plan be that .
I suspect that your wild smile

you are spot on. she has to also check herself well before giving up cus no man wants a tiger as a companion


setting standards have left so many beautiful ladies unmarried today in 9ja. alot don't want anything do to with you while you are still in 9ja but once you cross over the same elements will turn back bombarding you with messages on social media.

many even fall in love with mere pictures of one dude abroad whom they know nothing about just because he is overseas. no worry many will go down this xmas season

Humility017:


no Dear...never give up... I have been hurt severally but none of those experiences can ever make me give up on finding the right one....

you see people cant pretend for long and also they're basic characters we need cultivate prior a relationship and even marriage self
*humilty
*tolerance
*teachable

marriage have his lesson to teach...meaning we must come into as students willing to learn and grow in it.....

trust me....

if not for anything bro i for go for i swear but am not desperate. still on still nothing like coming home to get married to a 9ja babe

Humility017:


exactly...she knows her onion

charlesemeka85:
you are spot on. she has to also check herself well before giving up cus no man wants a tiger as a companion


setting standards have left so many beautiful ladies unmarried today in 9ja. alot don't want anything do to with you while you are still in 9ja but once you cross over the same elements will turn back bombarding you with messages on social media.

many even fall in love with mere pictures of one dude abroad whom they know nothing about just because he is overseas. no worry many will go down this xmas season

Nigeria ladies have a low self esteem....
They don't even believe and know that some of them are to help their husband's to become rich...while they're still chasing after rich men....

I some times get irritated seeing them acting as if without a guys money they can't live some turn to beggars online

LMC

Humility017:




that league ehhh
anything managed by those [b]Nffs [/b]is always a disaster

charlesemeka85:
if not for anything bro i for go for i swear but am not desperate. still on still nothing like coming home to get married to a 9ja babe

Please don't ooo.

Many men no longer last long in this small world because of the kind of wife they marry.....

The oldest man in Canada once said the secret to live old and have a fulfilled life is by marrying the right woman....

What drives me in making such choice is "quest for peace of mind and the desire to have kids well raised in Christ" because I am a Christian....

somehow:
LMC

No be nff vice president dikko they manage am.....
Those guys corruption. ..
I once attended to the Secretary of NFF then when I was working in a telcom company in Abuja.... he was my customer

Was surprised to see the airtime balance in his phone enough to get up to 2 plot of lands in kubwa

Humility017:


Nigeria ladies have a low self esteem....
They don't even believe and know that some of them are to help their husband's to become rich...while they're still chasing after rich men....

I some times get irritated seeing them acting as if without a guys money they can't live some turn to beggars online

exactly my brother that's why i am in no rush if not i for don born pikin complete here. the worst thing is for one getting married to someone you know little about. if i were to be desperate i for don marry her relocate to alaska sharp sharp but over comfortable dey worry me for where i am presently.

we have been friends on fb since 2016 but thats not what i want for my peaceful live. i know say alot of 9ja guys for fall for her trap if say dey get the opportunity but all that glitters are not gold. e better make i marry 9ja witch than person wey fit wake up one morning shot me

Humility017:


Please don't ooo.

Many men no longer last long in this small world because of the kind of wife they marry.....

The oldest man in Canada once said the secret to live old and have a fulfilled life is by marrying the right woman....

What drives me in making such choice is "quest for peace of mind and the desire to have kids well raised in Christ" because I am a Christian....

charlesemeka85:
No give up n at the same time lower ur standard if truly u wish to attract a good man.

how low do the standards have to be to find a truly good man?

If you limit yourself to the barest minimum, then the man is probably not as good as he seems.I no dey find rich man, but It seems rich mem are easier to find these days than sensible men

Alice bread

Blueelf:




Funny pidgin aphorism but I still don't get your point

oya no vex the right man will come, who knows he fit dey for this thread

safarigirl:
how low do the standards have to be to find a truly good man?

If you limit yourself to the barest minimum, then the man is probably not as good as he seems.I no dey find rich man, but It seems rich mem are easier to find these days than sensible men

komekn:


Sadiq is almost 23.

Has played professional football for 6 years plus and 75 games since 2014 that's not good enough. Why so few games if he is so good.
D
He has played in a number of leagues Eredivisie, Seria A and B, Scottish premier league and now Serbian league.

Prior to playing in the Serbian league has not been outstanding. He just been at best average if not below. Before he went to Rangers the highest number of games he played in a season was 12 games that's very poor to be honest. He has never played more than 17 games in a season in his entire career. And that has been at higher sub10 rated leagues in Europe.

That will change now in Serbia now for him. If he had not been to other leagues before going to Serbia. I would be very optimistic. So he has to get to better league to prove his quality.

Scottish league is a higher rated league not in dispute.

Football is always about the HERE and NOW.

Quite recently Rangers beat Porto among other higher rated clubs. Who has Partizan beat in the UEFA of higher rating ❓

Let's look at value which club has the higher quality of players. We can look at in financial value of players, that's a good start. Just Morelos and Aribo in value and pedigree will exceed the total value of thier players. There are others attracting transfer speculation.

The most expensive player they have is Markovic has a poor reputation on and off the pitch. From his time at Liverpool.

Future look at the players of Rangers a club that Flanagan( former high flying Liverpool & England RB) is struggling to get game time.

I find no comparison between them in the HERE and NOW. If you use Transfer Market the club players in entirety are valued at £40 Million and l don't even trust thier valuation they are not very market responsive.

UEFA Partizan are in Group L the easiest group but have been generally poor. The only team that's quality there is Manchester United.

Rangers are in a far harder group but are second in the group. With Feyenoord ,Porto and Young boys. But are joint group leaders Celtic have 10 points and are top of thier group. An indication of how the Scottish league two top teams are progressing.

Will you agree it's much easier to go from Rangers to bigger clubs than Partizan. ❓

That's my take Rangers is ahead

When last did any Scottish team play in the UEFA Championship league? The Serbia league representative played there last season and is currently in the group stage this season.

Don't forget a Serbian club beat the current UEFA Champions 2 goals to nut last season. Can any Scottish team do that currently?

Partizan has only lost to Manchester United in the group. The other two games ended victorious and in draw. Nothing like generally poor as you portrayed. The same Partizan reached the round of 32 in the Europa League two seasons ago. When last did Rangers crossed the group stage? About 7 or 8 season ago?

The UEFA coefficient rating that placed Partizan ahead of Rangers is an indication of both teams performance in Europe.

If I go by your comment without going into full details, then Sadiq has played 122 games, scored 71 goals and assisted 25 times in the last 6 years. How about that?

safarigirl:
white feminists are extremists.

A lot of you are just ignorant to their existence.

Some months back, there was a Quora thread filled with white feminists, that we're talking about aborting their pregnancies because they didn't want to have sons.

If you jam white feminists, you will know that there is no black woman that practices actual feminism. Black women that are still looking for make validation, people that are quick to be baby mamas and base their whole existence on being someone's wife, are those the people you are calling feminists?

A lot of black men don't understand who a feminist is. Black women can be stubborn and aggressive because society has made them grow tough skins just like black men have been forced to become tough. Black women are the most maligned race in the world, because not only do they get insulted by other races, even the black men that should support them are also quick to malign them. Black women carry their families on their back and get insults for all their hard work, from men who barely do a thing to help in family building.

Women like Serena Williams who black men constantly teased for having muscles and looking masculine, only to find love with a white man, who the same black men caimed wouldn't be able to handle her because he's white and has a 'small dick' (a lot of black men think their dick is all they have to offer the world. Pathetic really).

When you read Joys of Motherhood and A Woman in her Prime, it gives you an idea of what black women in Africa have to face, but I am sure you have never read those books.

All I see from you is ignorance and arrogance. Those are two things a lot of Nigerian men, especially those of Igbo extraction pride themselves in.

Like I said earlier , feminism has since lost its essence. The left wing ideologists have hijacked the movement and disguised it to suit their liberal motives.Of course , know that by bringing white women into this conversation , you , like a typical black woman will jump on it and use that premise as a base for your argument. Nonetheless, my stance remains unchanged ,because liberalism caught across racial line but the fundamental factors that inform different entities are different.
I dont expect a typical Igbo girl like you to understand the complexity of this issue because your thought process is shaped by the views and opinions of white women and disgruntled African American women. You lack the native intelligence as a tool to aid you in seeing the world from different perspective. You have the nerve to bash Igbo men because you have no respect for your culture.
If you understand Igbo culture by any stretch then you would know that the pet names "oliaku" , "odibeze", "odozi aku","osodi eme" etc are testament to the chivalry of Igbo men. You are going to have to better than this crap you wrote here. You dont have to marry an Igbo man , after all , Adaeze Yobo, Chimamanda , Davido baby mama,Chimamanda etc are some Igbo women who are not with Igbo men and person never die...run off and go find a non Igbo husband as we give a single ffuck. But , Igbo culture is purely paternalistic and it will remain so till eternity!

Same Igbo women that always come up with pathetic names for their children and will never speak the language...humor me. Go marry whoever you like but at least be honest, unlike Adichie that run all over the world demonizing Igbo culture while getting staffed by a mere half caste...haha

forgiveness:


When last did any Scottish team play in the UEFA Championship league? The Serbia league representative played there last season and is currently in the group stage this season.

Don't forget a Serbian club beat the current UEFA Champions 2 goals to nut last season. Can any Scottish team do that currently?

Partizan has only lost to Manchester United in the group. The other two games ended victorious or draw. Nothing like generally poor as you portrayed. The same Partizan reached the round of 32 in the Europa League two seasons ago. When last did Rangers crossed the group stage? About 7 or 8 season ago?

The UEFA coefficient rating that placed Partizan ahead of Rangers is an indication of both teams performance in Europe.

If I go by your comment without going into full details then Sadiq has played 122 games, scored 71 goals and assisted 25 times. How about that?

When forgiveness come reason your matter with UEFA coefficient,na die be that o

You want to talk about white women but you will be hard pressed to see white women defame and destroy their men like you black women do. White women know where to draw the line. But you run about catching pregnancy from every man that says hi and dropping babies from like dogs. No, black women are the most irresponsible set of people on this planet!! Use contraceptive and stop blaming the same useless men you raised for your woes. Madam , go sleep!

Spot on brother. U made the right point without mincing words.

few minutes ago she made a post on how she is about giving up on marriage but why won't she scare men away with such mentality of hers?

No man especially igbo man wants a wife who won't respect, regard and worship him as his king as a wife. It's the norm, tradition and culture of we igbos and if that is not obtainable in any union that makes an igbo man feel inferior and disregarded.


Humility, submission, regard, respect and love are the main components to build a loving home and if your igbo hubby gets these from you as a woman then u will be treated as a queen and deserving angel.

Make she dey follow chimamanda adichie who is happily married

OMANBALA1:


Like I said earlier , feminism has since lost its essence. The left wing ideologists have hijacked the movement and disguised it to suit their liberal motives.Of course , know that by bringing white women into this conversation , you , like a typical black woman will jump on it and use that premise as a base for your argument. Nonetheless, my stance remains unchanged ,because liberalism caught across racial line but the fundamental factors that inform different entities are different.
I dont expect a typical Igbo girl like you to understand the complexity of this issue because your thought process is shaped by the views and opinions of white women and disgruntled African American women. You lack the native intelligence as a tool to aid you in seeing the world from different perspective. You have the nerve to bash Igbo men because you have no respect for your culture.
If you understand Igbo culture by any stretch then you would know that the pet names "oliaku" , "odibeze", "odozi aku","osodi eme" etc are testament to the chivalry of Igbo men. You are going to have to better than this crap you wrote here. You dont have to marry an Igbo man , after all , Adaeze Yobo, Chimamanda , Davido baby mama,Chimamanda etc are some Igbo women who are not with Igbo men and person never die...run off and go find a non Igbo husband as we give a single ffuck. But , Igbo culture is purely paternalistic and it will remain so till eternity!

Spot on

OMANBALA1:
You want to talk about white women but you will be hard pressed to see their men like you black women do. White women know where to draw the line. But you run about catching pregnancy from every man that says hi and dropping babies from like dogs. No, black women are the most irresponsible set of people on this planet!! Use contraceptive and stop blaming the same useless men you raised for your woes. Madam , go sleep!

Gbam gbamer gbammest

OMANBALA1:
Same Igbo women that always come up with pathetic names for their children and will never speak the language...humor me. Go marry whoever you like but at least be honest, unlike Adichie that run all over the world demonizing Igbo culture while getting staffed by a mere half caste...haha

Even the Bible made reference to women being submissive, respectful and caring to their husbands.

OMANBALA1:
You want to talk about white women but you will be hard pressed to see their men like you black women do. White women know where to draw the line. But you run about catching pregnancy from every man that says hi and dropping babies from like dogs. No, black women are the most irresponsible set of people on this planet!! Use contraceptive and stop blaming the same useless men you raised for your woes. Madam , go sleep!

Even the Bible made reference to women being submissive, respectful and caring to their husbands while the husband as the head of the house, provides, love and protects her

OMANBALA1:
You want to talk about white women but you will be hard pressed to see their men like you black women do. White women know where to draw the line. But you run about catching pregnancy from every man that says hi and dropping babies from like dogs. No, black women are the most irresponsible set of people on this planet!! Use contraceptive and stop blaming the same useless men you raised for your woes. Madam , go sleep!