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Every Woman Should Read This
Your Butt and boobs doesn't make you sensible. Yes, lots of men will chase you because you're sexy and beautiful but a real man wants more than just your body. Make up your mind same way you make up your face.

Again, when a man asks you out. It's okay to reject him but do that without being rude. It says a lot about your personality. If you like a guy, show him. Tell him. It doesn't reduce your worth as a woman. Any man that takes that as demeaning to you is a wrong man. Have a vision. Have a purpose. Love and relationship and marriage doesn't make you a better woman. Let a man walk into your life while you're busy. Don't wait for a man to come start your life for you. Make money, get an education, travel the world. Let him meet you busy.Be the kind of man you want. His female version.
What will you spend your life doing if there were nothing like marriage?

Start doing it now!
See, if a man hits you, leave that relationship. Stop making up excuses to stay. A man who hits you today will kill you tomorrow if you stay.
Don't ever listen to society when you want to do anything that will give you happiness because somehow society cares about the male folks than females. Patriarchy is think in Africa.

Have standards when it comes to relationship and marriage and any man who cannot keep up to it shouldn't be in your life. Most of the men who complain about your standards are those who know they can't keep it.
Don't marry or date a man because he helped you maybe financially. See, marriage is not an appreciation scheme. There are other ways to be grateful.

Don't be desperate to to be called ‘MRS'. Many what to leave that status already. Make you take enough time to find the kind of man you want. Better to marry late and marry right than rush into trouble.

One of the reasons you must endeavor to make your own money as a single woman is that successful women repel low self esteemed men. All some men have is money, so when you have same, it makes them feel that they lack the tool to control you.
Have physical spec, it's okay but remember that the ultimate thing you need in a man is: a good man, a man without the patriarchal ego; a man who will be your friend and partner, not Master and Lord.

Marriage is sweet when both are made to feel equal.

Very well said. Clap for yourself