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Re: Dear Single Mothers, by Omar09(m): 2:59am On Nov 29, 2019
Charis15:
Live is deep my dear.
God forbid I wish you evil.
But who knows if your sperm will be trained by someone else.
Don't forget life is full of twist.
I know life is full of twist, but I won't try a single mom.
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by Omar09(m): 3:03am On Nov 29, 2019
ubunja:
if his sperm is trained by another, then it's good news. You don't get it. It's about money, time and emotions wasted on the product of another man's orgasm. Which man in his right mind will have anything against a sucker doing the heavy work for him. Lmfao.
Bro you on point. Why bring emotions into this topic. Lol I won't have anything against any man who is ready to take care of my orgasm. But still I don't want any man to do my job for me. Lol
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by yazga(op): 7:55am On Nov 29, 2019
emmaodet:
I don't think single moms are in the best position to negotiate good deals in a relationship.
Why will a man that can support himself be serious with a single mom in the first place? When he is in a better position to get a single lady to date?
In life, there is time for everything.
Immediately you pass your prime of negotiation, you will have to deal with whatever comes your way.
why?
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by yazga(op): 7:56am On Nov 29, 2019
ubunja:
exactly bro. If a man has money he must get the best his money can get him. And a man between 35 and 50 with his money has the world as his oyster. He has his pick of the best.

But personally I'm lazy lately. I don't see myself working 9-5 after 3 years from now. I'm already levelling up to snag a well off woman to gold dig undecided. And the easiest targets, at least where I am, are these single mothers. They drive and live in posh townhouse complexes. And are fresh as hell.
Gold Digger sighs!!!!!!
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by yazga(op): 7:57am On Nov 29, 2019
kiss kiss
praz001:
Modify this please
some ladies have actually changed the heart of some men who should be hard working to "Diamond diggers......
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by yazga(op): 8:08am On Nov 29, 2019
emmaodet:
Hmmmmmm
Ubunja, about you getting tired of 9-5 job bro you are not alone in this.
Everyday i keep getring tired of wprking because it not easy and with the way things are going in life more and more people will be getting lazier and lazier because working is not just energy draining but not worth it bro.
Our parents worked all there life through the nose but as little to show for it, hence the present generation don't want to tow that line.
Moreover, humans are social animals which means we are been motivated by what we see and alot of people living good life are doing illegal things like scammers, drug pushers, politicians as looters and cooperate thieves calling themselves management staff.
Bro if you are not in that bracket you are sitting on a long thing there by discouraging hard work, integrity, honesty and faithfulness.
I have 2 family members into drug trafficking from brazil and dubai and also into money laundering.
Bro if you see the kind of life the live, buying expensive cars, travelling up and down the globe, floating businesses unlike l looking for loans and saving through my nose, it's tiring and not encouraging jare.
Despite doing courses in abroad running into millions - india, italy etc yet struggling financially.
Bro, if gold digging is the way, pls take it. All way na way.
This is not the way, there kids reading it.
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by Skepticus: 8:09am On Nov 29, 2019
ubunja:
here we go with the emotional ones.... Don't you people ever take a day off.
grin grin
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by anonymuz(m): 8:09am On Nov 29, 2019
Sanchez01:
I have a friend who has never been married but is so into single mothers. Truth be told, I feel a good guy who has things working out for him shouldn't be involved with a single mother. Not because they are not humans but the idea of starting life with baggage that aren't supposed to be yours is nerve wracking. Why can't I look for a single lady with similar interests, get married to her and live our lives peacefully and happily without wondering or worrying why I am responsible for the upkeep of someone else's children or child in the name of love?

Sad truth... It isn't like most single mothers have great options when they become one. Things change pretty fast and finding love and single, okay dude who'd gladly take up their problems is difficult in today's world.

A man with a reasonable amount of wealth isn't done seeing single ladies, na single mothers remain. This is somewhat insensitive but it is the Gospel truth.
im even dating one
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by yazga(op): 8:10am On Nov 29, 2019
Omar09:
If it's adoption I'm good with it, I can even take kids in the motherless home and pay their education till the graduate, but for a single mom, No!
what the difference?
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by yazga(op): 8:11am On Nov 29, 2019
I never said so
AwkaetitiBabe:
Ladies without kids deserve the broke guys?
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by Skepticus: 8:19am On Nov 29, 2019
I can see some guys already simping here.

Believe the OP who is a member of the Pussy Cartel, at your own peril.
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by cRobo: 8:28am On Nov 29, 2019
[quote author=yazga post=84446333]Dating rules.

Dear Single Guy, do not date single mothers that are broke. Don't date any woman that you would have to feed, clothe and pick her bills and kids. It is a recipe for disaster. You have your future children to take care of.

At least, date a young fresh single gilr who picks her own bills, even though he has none to offer you, but let her not be a burden to you. The only people permitted to date broke and hungry single mothera are strictly sugar daddies.

You have rent, fees, feeding, clothing to handle for yourself and your children. Don't add to your burden by dating a hungry woman. Your self preservation should be at the center of your dating decisions.

Don't make life difficult for yourself. It is not love. You have nothing to prove. You are not her mother.

Some of these women are actually very inconsiderate. Always ensure that the single mother has his own money before you date. Think about your future children. Don't put them and yourself in harm's way. This advice is not popular
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by Omar09(m): 8:34am On Nov 29, 2019
yazga:
what the difference?
The difference is, I don't have to marry their mom. And any kid in the motherless home, it's assumed his/her mom is late. That's the difference.
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by emmaodet: 9:37am On Nov 29, 2019
yazga:
why?
Because in life, we all have our time, chance, opportunities and prime to take good decisions and if we don't and the tide changes, we should be ready to put in the work.
In their 20's, ladies will find it easy to pick a quality mate that is committed but if that time eludes them, just like a cone graph - when they are on the other side of the graph spiraling downward, they won't be much in control.
E.g As a footballer in your prime like messi and ronaldo, that is the best time to pick the best club to play for and push for the highest salary you can get but when you are out of your prime, you will have to settle down with any club that comes for you and with whatever salary they table.
At that point, you don't have much negotiating power be that everton, Saudi Arabia clubs, Chinese clubs etc.
Pls Make Hay while the sunshine.
A stitch in time saves nine

Martinez39
Ubunja
Pansophist
Franchasng
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by emmaodet: 9:43am On Nov 29, 2019
yazga:
This is not the way, there kids reading it.
I know sis but to be honest, working 8-5 day in day out is not only discouraging now but seems not worth it.
You can hardly achieve anything after 35years in service or else you steal and even doing 35 years in service is a big grace nowadays.
If you even do 10 years, thank God because most private jobs are volatile now and before you know it, retrenchment.
A lot of companies are springing up why alot are also closing down fast. A very volatile and turbulent industry and the stress and effort does not really worth it.

Martinez39
Ubunja
Pansophist
Franchasng
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by Jersuiyjoe(m): 9:51am On Nov 29, 2019
Originalsly:
Emotions separate human from beasts. Then we wonder why some men can rape their own daughters regardless of age ....repeatedly ..... and feel good about it.
Ohh My God.
You are seriously right...
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by Sanchez01(m): 11:44am On Nov 29, 2019
anonymuz:
im even dating one
Sorry to quiz... Like there are no single ladies around you or that she has money?
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by anonymuz(m): 12:04pm On Nov 29, 2019
Sanchez01:
Sorry to quiz... Like there are no single ladies around you or that she has money?
there are single ladies around but just opted for her because of her attitude
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by yazga(op): 1:06pm On Nov 29, 2019
Nice one dear..
anonymuz:
there are single ladies around but just opted for her because of her attitude
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by Sanchez01(m): 1:12pm On Nov 29, 2019
anonymuz:
there are single ladies around but just opted for her because of her attitude
Nice.
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by chigoizie7(m): 1:28pm On Nov 29, 2019
Talking about open mindedness.


In a world where as a MAN I am expected to help a woman grow, invest in her and also care for her financially.


I also wonder why a WOMAN is not expected to do all that for me as well.


We are presumed equal.



If a single mother who does not intend to make a man she loves to grow simply because he is broke while she has all it takes. Then let her date herself. Let her take her eyes off single men too.


After another man don scatter you finish, add pikin on top am. You expect a single guy to date you, but wouldn’t want to date a broke one. Like you are doing him a favor? He is the one doing you a big favor and if you think otherwise? Please remain single with your child.
Double standard every where.
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by vikithor(m): 5:59pm On Nov 29, 2019
weighty sermons.
sufficient knowledge
discern and choose your course,note that whatever life offers you (single dad,single mum) you can make the best most reasonable opportunities for yourself, just don't be religiously rigid.
you think the bible is a rigid religious book,(for where) it has a record of good,bad,ugly,pleasant, favourable n not favorable weavings of fellow human life experiences, all written for lessons to be drawn from.There is nobody's current life's challenges that wont see a similitude from that Ancient Book of Wisdom, the Bible and discover solutions.

learn how to drive very well,add value to your life
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by spiralwedge(m): 7:02pm On Nov 29, 2019
If you are a single mom, reach out to me let's chat.
Don't be disturbed by these pathetic comments.
Re: Dear Single Mothers, by yazga(op): 10:29am On Dec 02, 2019
wink
vikithor:
weighty sermons.
sufficient knowledge
discern and choose your course,note that whatever life offers you (single dad,single mum) you can make the best most reasonable opportunities for yourself, just don't be religiously rigid.
you think the bible is a rigid religious book,(for where) it has a record of good,bad,ugly,pleasant, favourable n not favorable weavings of fellow human life experiences, all written for lessons to be drawn from.There is nobody's current life's challenges that wont see a similitude from that Ancient Book of Wisdom, the Bible and discover solutions.

learn how to drive very well,add value to your life
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