₦airaland Forum

I am so angry now so I decided to throw this wickedness to the open.

A friend of mine has just told me of what he suffered when he travelled to somewhere in Niger delta to fulfil he's marriage traditional rites with he's wife to be.

He's in-laws had asked he's fiancee's mother to remarry from their family when she lost her husband(their son). But she refused to remarry anyone of them. Now they are taking it out on her by refusing to collect BRIDE PRICE of her daughter(My friends fiancee).

All the investments sleepless nights stress, I am just angry.

U could have made this easier to read. Now i have headache. The advisory council may need to take a recess now.

nkezecheckport:
I am so angry now so I decided to throw this wickedness to the open.

A friend of mine has just told me of what he suffered when he travelled to somewhere in Niger delta to fulfil he's marriage traditional rites with he's wife to be.

He's in-laws had asked he's fiancee's mother to remarry from their family when she lost her husband(their son). But she refused to remarry anyone of them. Now they are taking it out on her by refusing to collect BRIDE PRICE of her daughter(My friends fiancee).

All the investments sleepless nights stress, I am just angry.

Kindly shed more light on the issue at hand I.e the part of the country.

If the bride's mum later remmary etc


The tribes playing this nauseating politics

Who went to pay for the girl's head..I.e the kind of persons

nkezecheckport:
I am so angry now so I decided to throw this wickedness to the open.

A friend of mine has just told me of what he suffered when he travelled to somewhere in Niger delta to fulfil he's marriage traditional rites with he's wife to be.

He's in-laws had asked he's fiancee's mother to remarry from their family when she lost her husband(their son). But she refused to remarry anyone of them. Now they are taking it out on her by refusing to collect BRIDE PRICE of her daughter(My friends fiancee).

All the investments sleepless nights stress, I am just angry.

Lol.. I'm very familiar with this situation, just because they ask her to Mary from the family doesn't necessarily mean shes marrying anyone there.. that is just tradition.. you can have this matter solved without any dispute.. her refusal will only bring her more problem .. and returning bride price to them is rude and this will cause more problems for her..

Before I proceed on what to do, I'd like to know what trybe is her previous husband,... maybe ijaw, or urhobo??

I know it's very annoying, your friend should calm down Las Las dem go accept am na initial garaga

if u would confuse me abeg do it gently not like dis jaree

Story story once upon a time a beautiful woman from mmiri kingdom married a handsome man from umuvilla ,they had a beautiful daughter.
After some years the husband died and the family of the husband wanted the woman to remarry the brother or uncle of the deceased which she vehemently refused. Now her daughter is of age and has brought a man home. In order to complete the traditional marriage rites, the husband to be is to pay the elders in the girls family the bride price, but the elders refused the bp because the mother of the girl refused to marry one of the brothers of her husband Shikena.
So the Op is a friend to the groom that wanted to marry the girl and he's really angry with the tradition.

Babaalata:
Story story once upon a time a beautiful woman from mmiri kingdom married a handsome man from umuvilla ,they had a beautiful daughter.
After some years the husband died and the family of the husband wanted the woman to remarry the brother or uncle of the deceased which she vehemently refused. Now her daughter is of age and has brought a man home. In order to complete the traditional marriage rites, the husband to be is to pay the elders in the girls family the bride price, but the elders refused the bp because the mother of the girl refused to marry one of the brothers of her husband Shikena.
So the Op is a friend to the groom that wanted to marry the girl and he's really angry with the tradition.

three gbosa for you joo don't mind the op, he is really angry

bring the bride price to me. My family will.collect it. we have adopted her as our daughter