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comtem2011:
Are u for real? Did u understand what I wrote up there at all? Well, I won't exchange words with you.

It is well.

Better that way.
Bye

sassysure:
Better that way.
Bye

Na wa for you o, I can't believe this. Newborn thread mama. O ga o.

Lol.

comtem2011:
Na wa for you o, I can't believe this. Newborn thread mama. O ga o.

Lol.

Oh dear me, I thought u were the @op. So sorry

The guy uses lots of format so u wouldn't blame me.

Ur post wasn't straight forward and a bit sarcastic that's why I said sharrap there( which was neutral by the way as I wanted the person to express himself or herself more) but you were still vague so I ended it as I don't want to start arguing. If i was actually wanted to be disrespectful i would have said shut up.
Never knew it was you.
Forgive me, okay

How is sweetheart?

SarahSholagbade:
electricity
gas
tv licence
rent
council tax
broadband
mobile phone bill

How can you pay council tax when you are on benefit and you don't work?

sassysure:
Which bills actually? You live free off govt. The only thing u pay for is feeding and clothing.
Ur husband for the past 3 yrs couldnt raise flight ticket for u to visit him?

You pay all your bills from your benefit, you can hardly save on that if you have no other source of income.

justwise:
You pay all your bills from your benefit, you can hardly save on that if you have no other source of income.

U actually believed the poster?

And no, u can save. A lady with bipolar disorder receives 1k every month from council( a friend), she is living in a subsidised accommodation that she pays 400, receives her shots free and do save to go on holiday. Her cousin with kids not married( don't know what he said is his problem)receives such from council and don't wanna work.
Autistic patient receive more that a bipolar patient, has more public sympathy. Even though I was trying to wring out the truth from the poster, I actually know what I was explaining to her and she never disputed any.
There is a guy on rampant here scamming people using so many formats so the style of writing was like his.

sassysure:
U believed that?
Lexus430 gave her the easiest and best way to apply for spousal visa for spouses with disabilities link and she vamoose to show again begging for money.

The thing we see here.
He or she ran away cos justwise and Lexus430 will eventually burst the bubble.
For 3 yrs, her spouse couldn't raise money for her flight ticket to Nigeria knowing she isn't capable?
For 3 yrs, even if he is carrying blocks where they are building house.
How will they give birth as an average naija man want a child. A sure banker for marrying her in the first place.
Fear scammers. They are real

You will be surprised that she is supporting him with her little disability check. The lack of effort on his part shows his true intention.

sassysure:
U actually believed the poster?

And no, u can save. A lady with bipolar disorder receives 1k every month from council( a friend), she is living in a subsidised accommodation that she pays 400, receives her shots free and do save to go on holiday. Her cousin with kids not married( don't know what he said is his problem)receives such from council and don't wanna work.
Autistic patient receive more that a bipolar patient, has more public sympathy. Even though I was trying to wring out the truth from the poster, I actually know what I was explaining to her and she never disputed any.
There is a guy on rampant here scamming people using so many formats so the style of writing was like his.

I can't say she is lying or not but i was only pointing out that many on benefit hardly save from what they get from the govt, out of control life style could be a contributing factor etc.

sassysure:
U actually believed the poster?

And no, u can save. A lady with bipolar disorder receives 1k every month from council( a friend), she is living in a subsidised accommodation that she pays 400, receives her shots free and do save to go on holiday. Her cousin with kids not married( don't know what he said is his problem)receives such from council and don't wanna work.
Autistic patient receive more that a bipolar patient, has more public sympathy. Even though I was trying to wring out the truth from the poster, I actually know what I was explaining to her and she never disputed any.
There is a guy on rampant here scamming people using so many formats so the style of writing was like his.

im not being funny im just trying to be honest here but i got soooo upset and hurt last night that i was actually being called a scammer when im not even one, i wouldnt even know how to be, i just wanted a little help but got abuse instead.

i get nowhere near £1,000, i used to get that 3 years ago, but that got reduced and now im getting just £160 a month which is hardly nothing when u think gas and electric comes to £46 a month, then broadband £18.00, tv license £12.00 every two weeks, water bill £13.50 every two week, mobile phone £20.00 a month, cant keep doing this
and im being truly honest here I Would love to work id give anything to work and get a stable income but i cant because i have tried in the past but i cant because i lose concentration get distracted and then end up distressed it happens all the time

baby124:
You will be surprised that she is supporting him with her little disability check. The lack of effort on his part shows his true intention.

That's what I'm saying only if its true.

3 yrs and he couldn't save money for her to come over.
Even borrow. How did they meet?
Was there marriage certificate?
Why didn't he apply for spouse visa?

Even when she said they made a mistake and he was banned for 10 yrs, a guru on that type of matter told her what to do that supersedes the ban and she went AWOL to surface again begging for money.

She should show us some of their chat history so we can believe her.
Chart history of last 3 days is ok, u will see people will help as long as they know it's genuine.

That guy might be a scammer too.
Married her so as to cross over. Trust Nigerians. As it didn't work as planned, he abandoned her. Else why is he not sending money to her?
Abeg I don tire for the matter. Nothing moves me here anymore

and juat to make it clear i wasnt begging for money i wasnt holding a gun to anyone's head they could of helped if they wanted to, if they didnt want to, thats fine too and i wasnt expecting a big donation even if someone did help, i would of just been happy if anyone donated 1p i dont care i was trying to get some help but u know what who cares anymore i wanted to be with the love of my life but it seems like the whole worls is against that i have been fighting for 3 years straight wrote to the MP everything but nothing helps

i just feel....stuck in a situation where its the same story all the time, get money, pay bills and food, no money left all the time, its a vicious circle. and theres nothing i cam do. i want to work so much because im sick to death of sitting bored in my home doing nothing but i know my barriers will get in the way.

I don't buy any clothes for myself, wish i could, but i just can't afford it. My mum buys all my clothes for me

SarahSholagbade:
and juat to make it clear i wasnt begging for money i wasnt holding a gun to anyone's head they could of helped if they wanted to, if they didnt want to, thats fine too and i wasnt expecting a big donation even if someone did help, i would of just been happy if anyone donated 1p i dont care i was trying to get some help but u know what who cares anymore i wanted to be with the love of my life but it seems like the whole worls is against that i have been fighting for 3 years straight wrote to the MP everything but nothing helps

i just feel....stuck in a situation where its the same story all the time, get money, pay bills and food, no money left all the time, its a vicious circle. and theres nothing i cam do. i want to work so much because im sick to death of sitting bored in my home doing nothing but i know my barriers will get in the way.

I don't buy any clothes for myself, wish i could, but i just can't afford it. My mum buys all my clothes for me

Why haven't you applied for spouse visa using disability route?

Why not cut down on your outgoing to save money to visit Nigeria? E.g your gas bill is too high for someone on benefit probably living in one bedroom house, cancel your phone contract and move to pay as you go since you have broadband.

If you switch supplier you could bring down your gas bill to about £20 a month. What are you doing with TV license when you are disabled and not working?

If someone gives you money from this and you moved to any visa free country with your husband how will both of you survive with your condition?

Have you thought of moving on and face your life as this marriage doesn't seem workable?

SarahSholagbade:
and juat to make it clear i wasnt begging for money i wasnt holding a gun to anyone's head they could of helped if they wanted to, if they didnt want to, thats fine too and i wasnt expecting a big donation even if someone did help, i would of just been happy if anyone donated 1p i dont care i was trying to get some help but u know what who cares anymore i wanted to be with the love of my life but it seems like the whole worls is against that i have been fighting for 3 years straight wrote to the MP everything but nothing helps

i just feel....stuck in a situation where its the same story all the time, get money, pay bills and food, no money left all the time, its a vicious circle. and theres nothing i cam do. i want to work so much because im sick to death of sitting bored in my home doing nothing but i know my barriers will get in the way.

I don't buy any clothes for myself, wish i could, but i just can't afford it. My mum buys all my clothes for me

Go table ur issue in a church or better yet, get attached to someone else who can care for u. Men are meant to take care of women and not the other way round.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Go table ur issue in a church or better yet, get attached to someone else who can care for u. Men are meant to take care of women and not the other way round.

You are joking, right?

KingMEXX:
You are joking, right?

Money wise but women are meant to give care to men

AwkaetitiBabe:
Money wise but women are meant to give care to men

I'll just let this slide 'cause it doesn't pertain to the topic of discussion


@OP Most people cannot just wake up and donate some cash to you when you don't have a legitimate plan on how to go about solving your issue and you haven't taken any genuine steps.

On your part, all expenses have to be cut as was suggested. Consider borrowing some cash from your mum since she buys you things or maybe friends (make it clear you may not be paying back anytime soon). The next is to make up your mind to leave the UK if you truly want to see him considering he's on a 10 year ban and all future apps seem likely to be rejected.

Do all these, come back and show us how much you've raised, then people may then consider assisting.

sassysure:
Oh dear me, I thought u were the @op. So sorry

The guy uses lots of format so u wouldn't blame me.

Ur post wasn't straight forward and a bit sarcastic that's why I said sharrap there( which was neutral by the way as I wanted the person to express himself or herself more) but you were still vague so I ended it as I don't want to start arguing. If i was actually wanted to be disrespectful i would have said shut up.
Never knew it was you.
Forgive me, okay

How is sweetheart?

No offence, I was actually teasing the lady for the bills she listed as if someone here is responsible to shoulder those responsibilities for her.

Your sweetheart is doing fine.

Have a wonderful day ahead.

justwise:
Why haven't you applied for spouse visa using disability route?

Why not cut down on your outgoing to save money to visit Nigeria? E.g your gas bill is too high for someone on benefit probably living in one bedroom house, cancel your phone contract and move to pay as you go since you have broadband.

If you switch supplier you could bring down your gas bill to about £20 a month. What are you doing with TV license when you are disabled and not working?

If someone gives you money from this and you moved to any visa free country with your husband how will both of you survive with your condition?

Have you thought of moving on and face your life as this marriage doesn't seem workable?

justwise i dont know if i am on the right benefit to apply for spousal visa via disability route. i havent a clue but i will look into it

how do i cut down on my gas bill please? ive looked for cheaper but they all seem to come to about £45-£50. But thats what im saying they are charhing me £46 a month for both gas and electricity so together so it is about £23 a month for gas and £23 for electricity. About my phone, if i cancel the contract i will be in debt and owing money cos i cancelled.
i didnt know u didnt have to pay TV Licensing if u r disabled. i just know tv licensing came knocking on my door so i signed up qith them because they were talking about prosecuting me.

no chance im not leaving my husband for anything i love him too much and i just cant see my life without him in it. i know we text and call everyday and facetime but i cant be without him

KingMEXX:
I'll just let this slide 'cause it doesn't pertain to the topic of discussion


@OP Most people cannot just wake up and donate some cash to you when you don't have a legitimate plan on how to go about solving your issue and you haven't taken any genuine steps.

On your part, all expenses have to be cut as was suggested. Consider borrowing some cash from your mum since she buys you things or maybe friends (make it clear you may not be paying back anytime soon). The next is to make up your mind to leave the UK if you truly want to see him considering he's on a 10 year ban and all future apps seem likely to be rejected.

Do all these, come back and show us how much you've raised, then people may then consider assisting.

i have tried taking steps to resolve, i even wrote to the HO to tell them it was my fault and can they look at it again, i wrote to the MP, I wrote to Theresa May before she resigned, I even wrote to the Queen.

and you saying borrow from friends, its not as easy as u think. i dont have any friends. i hardly leave my home. im gunna be truthful here and i hate telling people this cos it reminds me of the time, but when i was at school i was always bullied because people thought I was 'different' because of my Aspergers Syndrome, I always used to be on my own cos noone wanted to know me. this carried on outside of school, i used to get bullied on buses, even til this day i still get bullied from people and its all because of my Aspergers and they see me as 'different'. the truth is i try so hard to make friends and we start chatting then i get stuck on one topic and sometimes i dont know how to move on feom that topic and thats why they think im different

SarahSholagbade:
justwise i dont know if i am on the right benefit to apply for spousal visa via disability route. i havent a clue but i will look into it

how do i cut down on my gas bill please? ive looked for cheaper but they all seem to come to about £45-£50. But thats what im saying they are charhing me £46 a month for both gas and electricity so together so it is about £23 a month for gas and £23 for electricity. About my phone, if i cancel the contract i will be in debt and owing money cos i cancelled.
i didnt know u didnt have to pay TV Licensing if u r disabled. i just know tv licensing came knocking on my door so i signed up qith them because they were talking about prosecuting me.

no chance im not leaving my husband for anything i love him too much and i just cant see my life without him in it. i know we text and call everyday and facetime but i cant be without him

What sort of accommodation are you living in? Run down your contract then don't renew it.

justwise:
What sort of accommodation are you living in? Run down your contract then don't renew it.

am only living in a 1 bed apartment

From the previous thread by the op, I believe her story. But unfortunately, we can't help you. Nigerians are poor and can barely get by. Reuniting you with your husband is the least of our problems. I strongly advice you take the appeal to your own people who will probably have more money to spend on things like this. Sorry about your health challenges.

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Fountainofyouth:
You are confused, anywhere is nowhere, you are in UK, he's in Nigeria, so how will you meet without visas needed? Next time, think thoroughly of the details and outcome of your scam till the very end, you're a learner, you never ready to get money.

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Ah is it not Yemi again? haba i know this guy na, he voted for Buhari and he's here codedly ragging cash to run comot go meet white woman. bros no going anywhere o we all Die here.

SarahSholagbade:
am only living in a 1 bed apartment

You are paying far too much, that is what i paid for 3months when i used to live in one bedroom house not even flat.

justwise:
You are paying far too much, that is what i paid for 3months when i used to live in one bedroom house not even flat.

why am i paying so much then? mind u maybe its because my heating is on like 28 degrees celsius every day

do you even know what a person with Aspergers Syndrome behaves like? they become fixated on one thing and for me that thing is being with my husband

Every male is basically on the spectrum. Asperger’s-like traits are just a slight exaggeration of what’s present in introverted females (and a good half of females are introverted) and every male by default so it is what it is.