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Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by lagdmark(m): 10:46pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
Due to economic hardship and irregular sources of income most men are now wives instead of the active husbands they supposed to be. 1 Like |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by Nobody: 10:47pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
lavylilly: So you think there were less single moms in the past because they enjoyed their marriages more than women today? Definitely not. I think women today are more liberal and find divorce not so much of a big deal as it used to be. A child or two for a man is all they need. Many, after being exposed to moral danger during universities days, find marriage as restriction to their freedom. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by TemmyT002(m): 10:50pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
Fyi0: Who broke your heart? 1 Like |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by emmaodet: 10:51pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
pocohantas:You are 100% right Poco. Moral value really dropping like naira 1 Like |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by OkunrinMeta: 10:52pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
lavylilly: Pele o Mr. Nigerian Bureau of Statistics. 65 % ko 56% Ni. I don't know how people pull statistics out of their ass! Because you are supposedly a lawyer, you also know the true reasons Nigerians file for divorce! Weldone, Mr private investigator and statistician. Next time, quote surveys, research and verifiable data to support whatever you want to write. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by Nobody: 10:57pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
Op You are a complete Idiot, How many men have you been Aquinted with? To know what more than 2 billion men on earth are like. you came across few bad men and arrived at an Ignorant Conclusions. Any woman who couldn't do well in her life blames men. Women are so innocent and Victims right? Do these MEN you label include your father, uncles and brothers? You Ignorant mysogynistic Cretin. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by A1kennedy(m): 10:58pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
lavylilly: Hey dear. Did you just say where are they? Oh! Common caught that crap. Show me where the motherly,caring and loving women are and I will show you where the fatherly, caring and loving men are. |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by Kennedyiheme: 11:01pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
First of all, its your fellow women that shame other women for being divorced or not having a husband at 35.. i know a woman who was shamed by another woman for giving birth through ivf.. secondly women do not like themselves, they fight and shame each other dirty, online and offline... you don't see men fighting like that.... 2 Likes |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by Nobody: 11:01pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
[quote author=lavylilly post=84355986]I have been reading with so much disdain, the recent tantrums thrown on divorced ladies on this platform recently. I may not have followed every comment and reply, but majority I read from guy seems to shame the ladies. This is very wrong. There is nothing dehumanizing or stigmatizing about a divorced lady coming out to say she was divorced. There is nothing glorifying managing an unmanageable husband or wife in a matrimonial home. I have rarely read people shame a divorced man, or are their stigma different? The truth is simple, its better to live alive or stay and die, and its very very simple, simpler than staying. As a legal practitioner, I have had the opportunity to handle/witness several divorce cases, and I'm sure to say its better to leave alive. 65% of divorce cases in Nigerian courts today are instituted by ladies who couldn't tolerate a toxic marriage any longer. This simply means, there is something certainly wrong with men of today, or both. Men have become more randy, intolerant and abusive than before. Let's watch how we shame somebody, especially in a situation we haven't been involved in before. Remember the goal is to be alive and happy, married or single. Thanks, and have a lovely A feminist has spoken |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by birdmansoho: 11:02pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
A few posters have posited that married women now cheat a lot and that they even have married women hitting abi flirting with them. I can confirm their assertion to be true. In recent years, I’ve come to realise that the level of infidelity among the married women is alarming. I’ve had quite a handful of newly married women, mostly in their mid 20’s flirt with me or we flirted and even went as far as engaging in video fvck. I have explicit pictures of one of them in particular, which I’ve had for over a year now and never shared with anyone and intend to go to my grave with it, for if it dared leak it’ll cause a social media storm as the lady in question is very active on social media and married to an equally popular rich guy. I’m an unmarried guy and very ready to get married by next year (if all odds add up) but each time I remember how these married women flirts with me till date I become paranoid. Imagining my future wife flirting/cheating with guys and even sharing pictures where they bare it all. Men have been known to be cheats from time past and women not so much or they’ve always been coded about it but the level of infidelity in married women is very worrisome. Just very scary. 7 Likes |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by Lugianostar(m): 11:08pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
Many factors contributed to that including the lazy you!!! |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by Thegeneralqueen(f): 11:08pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
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Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by Kennedyiheme: 11:09pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
pansophist:dont mind them, they dont have the thick skin to shrug things off.... they act like saints, like its all mens fault theirs a divorce, women are silently wicked, how do you explain 6 out of 10 men fathering kids that aren't thiers without them knowing... 5 Likes |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by overseasnbeyond: 11:10pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
Romanoff:It is a shame on our country, an ideal society by 40 you should be a grand pa or grand ma .Most of my colleagues at work in same age bracket are grand ma and pa. |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by mhizsuzzy(f): 11:11pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
Romanoff: The same reason why when you are making your view about a situations known they will say remember you will enter a man's house ooo |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by OruExpress: 11:30pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
Young Nigerian men hate women. their fathers felt they as men were better than women, but the young actually hate them. 5 Likes |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by chizzyreal: 11:34pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
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Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by bluebay(m): 11:37pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
Women are.the cause of all. Do you know that men tollerates till the extend that they look weak to the wife? I don't support domestic violence, but I believe little slap can reset the madness in most women. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by lexy2014: 11:44pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
Romanoff: What makes u think that men are not equally "shamed" for not being married? |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by lexy2014: 11:46pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
OruExpress: Pls explain how "Young Nigerian men hate women"? Which research did u do to come to ur conclusion? |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by stevups(m): 11:49pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
24kmagic: See, what you just wrote is undiluted truth. Nothing can change it. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by Azmanaty: 11:49pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
The way people dish out statistics can be very annoying. How did u come to a conclusion that 65% of all divorce cases are instituted by women? 1 Like |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by Alexaonfleek: 11:53pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
lagosminded:shioor How many guys of nowadays want to suffer like their fathers.Were father's then yahoo boys Do u still go to the farm now Uncle sufferhead 3 Likes |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by LordPsalm(m): 11:55pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
Blame Buhari |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by HarunaWest(m): 11:58pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
lavylilly:My dear you are spot on..Buh somethings are the factors.. 1.Technology...A man can now stay in the comfort of his room in Lagos and scope a chick in Faraway Abia due to Advent of GSM,internet, social media and the like. He would be cheating on his wife under his nose as still be answering Sir or Daddy. 2. The Nigerian economy is so hard and excruciating that men go home angry everyday. To make money isn't easy in Nigeria..when you now make it,you have family pressure,friends pressure et Al..With all this factors combined,why wouldn't men do anyhow .Even me talking am no different,but we will try to amend our ways. Nice piece I must confess. Cheers 2 Likes |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by meobizy(f): 12:07am On Dec 05, 2019 |
These type of topics are hitting front page back to back tonight. Somebody is seriously looking for traffic via user participation. The internet and its many forms of engagement is the worst place to carry out a survey or generalize on something. As a “legal practitioner” (which I heavily doubt because most are exposed enough to know the first sentence) you were likely taught that in school. Riddle me this, who does the most cheating in marriages and relationships? Well, 1 - 1 for both sexes then. Edit: So, why was this posted when OP replies comments using only smileys? Hmm. One can think up a write-up but can’t comprehend responses well enough to engage in back-to-backs. |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by TonyeBarcanista(m): 12:16am On Dec 05, 2019 |
Feminists have started 1 Like |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by Nobody: 12:18am On Dec 05, 2019 |
lavylilly:first mistake, learn to use most or some to avoid being an absolute biased person, what would you do or what can women do without men?, im no supporter of men who abuse women but frankly as humans we individually are responsible for the kind of people we attract to ourselves, a magnet doesnt attract plastic but when you glue a piece of iron to the plastic the magnet now attracts the iron along with the plastic, this is how our looks work in arcordance with our personality, if anyone has any intention on getting married then they should be willing to enjoy the rollercoaster lol, marriage is not about happiness its more about commitment and the best you all can make out of every situation or challenge you find yourself in the union, if you find yourself in an abusive marriage, then it means you have been hiding something which obviously has cought up with you, its either you knew your partner was abusive before the marriage and yet got married or you simply are not the person you told your partner you where and your partner happens to find out too late, unlock your secrets with people you think you love, they would love you more if the feeling is mutual, most women have a billion more secrets than men, while a man may easily disclose 100% his secrets to a woman, a woman may only let out just 5% and hold unto the 95% which could put her marriage in danger.if you wont get married please remain single, marriage is only for people who are willing to be commited for whatsoever reason it is thats binding them, if you cant be commited to the oat then dont go there, and stop blaming people for what they think or say about you, because you do the same to other people, if it isnt so we wont be having this chat. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by saajus: 12:27am On Dec 05, 2019 |
Blame our Parents. They focus so much preparing their female Children on how to be good wives but forget teaching their male counterparts on how to be good husbands. Are you not familiar with these statements; - is that how you will be serving food to your husband when you are married? - is that how you will be greeting your husband? - Kemi, come and watch me in the kitchen so that you can know how to prepare a good meal for your husband How do they prepare we guys; - You are a man na. Man up, don't cry - we have the highest suicide rate than women in the world. Abi, we dey man na but dying inside - If your dad always travels, even if you are the last and only male child, they will say you are the husband of the house, take charge. Submission, mbanu - Have you ever heard any Parents say, is that how you will be shouting at your wife when you marry? 2 Likes |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by Champagnegold: 12:27am On Dec 05, 2019 |
OP no matter how you twist the order or twist the central truth. I assure you no man malhandle a sane and mannered woman except an occult. irrespective of the acclaimed cases u are justifying. yesterday's woman gossip more, talk more but there know when to be quiet and submissive to their husband I mean their husband that they were suddenly matched to for marriage if u understand my point there, but since the impossible irony of equality came up lots of women lost common virtue and offcourse equal shoulder with their hubby, infidelity increase, imaging a woman believing she should do the exact of a man. Reality have it that precisely a man can keep two or more wives in a house esp if he can afford but a woman will expect to marry more than one man.of which most times they provide means for her survival I bet you a man full of pleasure still seeking for a wife materials (submissive lady) when it's time for marriage. Sometimes you see a very handsome man marry to a less beautiful lady so-to-say because of these qualities. Lastly, I am sure religiously it was certain that women are the home builder majorly(in this case the man support), but today women r feeling cheated to equally share it with her husband, which inturn affect the upbringing of the child having known that children have more affinity to their mother than father.. coz mother somehow is around. #This was y broken home were not common yesterdays and it was a thing not to be proud of 8 Likes |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by Nobody: 12:30am On Dec 05, 2019 |
Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by Ivebeenbanned(f): 12:34am On Dec 05, 2019 |
bluebay:Your abusive father must be proud. I pray to God you marry one that has physical strength equal to a man's. Funny how you people are quick to assume its every woman you can beat anyhow 3 Likes 1 Share |
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