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sweetiliciouz:
Mr ,age 20 2019 is as wise as age 30 1995
generation now has changed unlike generation then
1995 had gulible women ,whom believed what men told them then because the world was yet to be spoilt .....1995 women were not as spoilt as women of this age who want the whole planet Earth
my mom 20 1995 doesn't mean she knew everything that was happening she entered school early without Knowing the things of life and also she got married to the first man she dated ,how was she supposed to test and test like this knew generation does

sweetiliciouz:
my Friend did you reason before typing ? what is women and audio ? am sure you are a graduate, dont you tell people you are a graduate so just keep quiet if your brain is paining you ..if you have a sister and she's brings in two suitors one who went to school and d other who didn't go to school , would you not pick the learned suitor
abeg talk well ,do you think I am happy I have a father like him ,I am very much aware of the various suitors who come into my life
my father even went to forge a useless certificate that did not look real as far back as 1995
mom applied a job for him after they married just to find out that it was all lies ...if u can't reason then pray none of your sisters if u have any doesn't fall into such liars as husband .....pls anyone who quotes me should reason with his brain ,I wont reply anyone who doesn't think.
before you quote ask your sisters if they can continue a marriage with a lazy man who lied to them about going to school
it's not like my dad was rich self or was working because he wasn't ,she got married to him in her year 4 at futo so my mom wasn't convetious or so ,he was an ordinary man full of lies
uncle go and train ur daughter and let her bring in a liar husband and someone who has nothing to show in his life and tell me if you won't be the most miserable man on Earth
the reason y u can chat reasonably is because your father trained you and impacted so much
mine did nothing to not even biro did he buy , everything my mom ,
I told my mom I kinda feel bad I wish she knew what divorce was in 1996 after marriage .............

EmptyCoconutHead:

sharone21:
In my family, as much as we have more ladies, I have never heard my dad utter such rubbish like what u said before. I guess u are referring to daughters from your OWN bowel.....I'm also sure u are not so enlightened as a man.....

bluebay:
You pained? Ode

bluefilm:
This is the summary of what their useless feminism movement is all about.

Nonsense.

Fountainofyouth:
Empty coconut head, you are cancelling all my comments, but you went ahead to follow me and send me a DM, why are you empty like this

OgaBuhari:
post a screenshot of the DM he sent u let's believe u.

that's how u hoes accuse people wrongly of rape.

Fountainofyouth:
Okay.

MedicH:
OK case closed. I mentioned u in another thread can u check that pls

KanuSE:
Who typed this for you?

Ivebeenbanned:
That you exist? Yes. Trash

sweetiliciouz:
mr, you don't expect a 20 year old lady of that time to know everything ,year 1995 is different from year 2019 where women' take in criterias ,how would she had known he did not go to school or so ....will you want your sister to marry someone who did not go to school or someone who lied just for her to find out ,am sure u alone will pull her out cus you wouldn't want her to suffer ? haven't you seen a marriage where lies are built ,Biko don't come and say nonsense here ,my mom married him because she loved him but she wasn't aware that men could lie about such things
all the elderly people and friends are in support of my mom's decisions am sure you ain't matured enough ,cus if you are ,you will understand and not say words that have no meaning please do not let me type rubbish out of anger
I have no reason to reply you
it's your thinking
everyone's perspective differs
thank you

Saintmary:
I will not give excuses for women who refuse to do their homework because they want to be the first among their friends to get married. the Nigerian society being the way it is (thanks to people who perpetrate cycles of bad actions and perceptions concerning women throughout every generation), these women just jumped into the fray, without discernment, because they do not want to be the laughing stock, they want to be the ones laughing.
So, here it goes:
Selfishness
Conceit
Ego
Carelessness
Pride
Desire to be the Ultimate Woman, to have it all, at an early age (you people will call her evening newspaper if she doesn't get married early)
etc, etc.

efficiencie:
Does it matter what "you people" call a lady? Does it matter for how long she will last in her marriage? Does it matter whether she will be married at all? I strongly believe one thing. No hardworking, sincere and godly man will put anything but character, purpose and destiny ahead as a criteria for choosing a spouse. Why will I pay bride price, dole out money for wedding and drain my finance on setting up for family all for a lady who will spread her legs for a neighbor who didn't even buy her bottle water as a gift during her wedding... If you are a good thing, an asset, a blessing as a lady, men will fall over themselves to marry you and you would sieve the chaff from the wheat and get into a blissful marriage!

bluebay:
Ah don't take it personal. I can feel your pain. I just even checked your profile, comments and replies. Seems you not getting along well with people... Am not surprised. Psycho. You remind me of one back then in school.

pocohantas:
Lets not deceive ourselves, it is a general problem. Whatever the men have become, the ladies are not any better.

Moral values be dropping everyday. It really doesn't make sense to single out one and leave the other. From what I see, plenty people no just get sense these days.

Breaststroke:
Honestly, that wasn't me


I wait out all bans on my moniker. I don't open a new account.

Romanoff:
We place a high premium on Marriage and shame a woman from 30-40yrs for not being married. This is leading to men getting away with randy, abusive and intolerant behaviour because las las, them go marry any woman wey them want and women will manage them like that just so they won't face the stigmatization of being unmarried.

The ones going through abuse in their marriage can't leave cause of the stigma attached to divorcees.

We need to change our mentality.

24kmagic:
Women are the problem, not the men. Men simply go with the flow. You have the power in your hands to get the man of your dreams all to yourself.

At times when I see a girl and her boyfriend walking down the street, what I usually ask myself is na wetin this guy tell this girl whe make her gri for am?

There's this guy I know, he managed to finish secondary school only. Since then, he's been at home forming street guy. No job, no skill, no certificate. All what he knows is play bet9ja, smoke and fvck. At at 30 ooo. Funny thing is he got many girls falling for him. The question is why? Even in sch, we all know that the so called classy girls were reserved for the cultists. In the event that these girls end up with such guys, how far do you think that union will last?

Taste = 0

Ask an average lady what she wants in a relationship.

Good preek
Money

Once a guy knows you're with him for any of these two things, you're already his slave. And you know how masters treat slaves.

Take the Babcock girl story as an example. The boy is a drug addict on rehabilitation, but he still has her mumu bottom cos of good preek. Even on a hospital bed, she couldnt miss an oporrunity to taste his preek. Should that pretty girl even be involved with a drug addict in the first place? Do you think a marriage between these two people will last the test of time knowing that good preek was the foundation? Most of the ladies are just confused beings. Expect more devorce cases as time goes on.

So many things to type but let me stop here.

Breaststroke:
Honestly, that wasn't me


I wait out all bans on my moniker. I don't open a new account.

CAPTIVATOR:
Am a man but this points you raised is true. So pathetic

efficiencie:
Does it matter what "you people" call a lady? Does it matter for how long she will last in her marriage? Does it matter whether she will be married at all? I strongly believe one thing. No hardworking, sincere and godly man will put anything but character, purpose and destiny ahead as a criteria for choosing a spouse. Why will I pay bride price, dole out money for wedding and drain my finance on setting up for family all for a lady who will spread her legs for a neighbor who didn't even buy her bottle water as a gift during her wedding... If you are a good thing, an asset, a blessing as a lady, men will fall over themselves to marry you and you would sieve the chaff from the wheat and get into a blissful marriage!

bulbutcher:
women make wrong choices at a young age all the time so give them sm slack. scold support and advise them if necessary we all have sisters.

IyaTola:
I am not one of the divorced women who will NEVER explain jack to anyone.
I am divorced. Full stop.

I’ve noticed how some people here thing every divorced woman owe them an explanation on why she got divorced.
Plus those who always assume that the man divorced the woman.
Those who like to gloat about how her “bad character” made him divorce her.
Pfft!

It’s not our fault that we are happily divorced and still hot even after having kids

pansophist:
As usual, men by default, are monster who are terrorizing women's live, while women are some innocent, incapable of crime creatures that sinless, sugar and spice

Why not mention the reason of the 65% divorce? Dont worry I'll tell you, it's mostly because of money. Money is the major reason for divorce. When the man couldn't earn more or loose his financial foothold, instead of support him, he is divorced. And you still turn around and blame men and called them toxic.

What has happened to introspection? From my experience, it is hard for women to look in the mirror and tell themselves the truth, you need lie than woman-up and admit fault.

Also, policing thoughts never works. Grow up and learn to shrug aggression off. People will always be mean. I constantly receive yabbings here on nairaland by some idiots but you wont see me creating a thread complain about women being toxic. I just shrug it off, as their opinion and impression doesn't reflects me whatsoever.

merahki:
And as usual, driven by hypocrisy
Many people would not want to be the type of partner they want for their relatives and loved ones
Personally I would love a man to provide for me like silly, but for my brothers I would want their partners to be helpers, sharers, bringers to the table

Gender wars are silly to me
I don’t do it at all, I just live life, my own way. If I am in any union where I feel trapped or dehumanised? I bounce, no stories.
(Well I may be slightly too wild and free? Who knows? I might be lying my head off, so that what now? Who knows?)

amliftedhigher:
My own may soon come. Because my wife is unappreciative, greedy, selfish and self centered. She doesn't want anybody around me especially my family members except hers. She is always nagging and conspired with a stranger to humiliate me and my siblings. She lacks nothing and my siblings love her very very very much but she hates them with passion without a reason. Women hmmmmmm