Congrats bro . More wins...

I hate it when parents send their kids to live with relatives. If you are dead its understandable not when you are alive you push your parental responsibility to another. Like he said,no matter how well you are treated you never feel you belong living with a relative .

I cant even raise a relative's child cos they will never see it as anything,there is always this void you can't fill, punishment is misinterpreted as maltreatment you will hear something like "oh its because they are not my parents", no matter how hard you try to integrate them into your family ,they will never accord you that "parent" love.once their parent comes into the picture in their adult stage,everything you did for them will be erased

In Africa there is nothing like cousins or first cousins etc, what we have is brother and sister, but the west and Arabs introduced cousins to us

Calabar people, una no try o.

Afonja guy conquer una for una domain.

Proudly Afonja!

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OgaBuhari:
Afonja don go conquer Akwa Ibom for there own University

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Congratulations Ayo

generationz:
I hope you get a good scholarship and leave this country.

Except you want to start carrying placard begging for your allowances as a lecturer.

Bad mouth small small Hanti...For where I Grad from, them lecturers Dey smile ooo! Infact, to me government respect lectures pass police!

generationz:
I hope you get a good scholarship and leave this country.

Except you want to start carrying placard begging for your allowances as a lecturer.

Third Class graduate, will you keep quiet? What can you go with the 3rd Class you are carrying around like Dino Melaye?

Ladycewhy:
I hate it when parents send their kids to live with relatives. If you are dead its understandable not when you are alive you push your parental responsibility to another. Like he said,no matter how well you are treated you never feel you belong living with a relative .

I cant even raise a relative's child cos they will never see it as anything,there is always this void you can't feel, punishment is misinterpreted as maltreatment you will hear something like "oh its because they are not my parents", no matter how hard you try to integrate them into your family ,they will never accord you that "parent" love.once their parent comes into the picture in their adult stage,everything you did for them will be erased

that's true and that's why every child should stay with their parents

generationz:



Name the schools under ASUU who don't suffer the same fate?

Their only hope is having a side business.

How can you be so sure....did you graduate with a first-class or as the best student in your school or faculty if you did not then stop assuming

emmachukwu99:


His father didn't dump them. Read the part that says he visits often and take them home at holidays. You don't know the kind of work he does but was still there for them, as this guy has pointed out. Maybe it's hard for you to admit that some women are NOT mother indeed.

Don't mind her. Most ladies have the mindset that women are way more compassionate than men and women are angels that could do no wrong.

You know nothing about university lecturers

generationz:



Name the schools under ASUU who don't suffer the same fate?

Their only hope is having a side business.

Why is he now telling us his family history... Baba use ur head... Anyways congratulations

Iscoalarcon:
dammmnnn nigga if every good person like this guy with potential leave the country who will remain to fix it mess? nonsense

When Buhari and his gangs keep basing everything on religion and ethnicity, which will you blame

mamajj17:


"AM HAPPY" dear

"I am happy" dear

mamajj17:


"AM HAPPY" dear

I am happy ..BTW, Economics dey under Faculty of social sciences na

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VoiceYourStorie:
My Mother Left My Father, My Brother And I - Uniuyo's Best Graduating Student

The best graduating student shares how growing up without the warmth of a mother can be so depressing for a child of a two year old or three.

Ayooluwa Babalola found himself in a situation where he had to cope daily in the arms of his extended family members. Although they were nice, their affection could not fill up the gap of a mother's love for her own child. His childhood perhaps became that of an incomplete world.

In his words "l think what actually stood out in my childhood is that I spent a whole lot of my it living with my uncle's family. From the age of two or three, my dad took me and my brother to Abeokuta to stay with my uncle.

"I remember my dad used to visit often, and during long holidays He would take us home. I don't remember my biological mom ever visiting. She never did. Literally, l was raised by my aunt whom I took as a mom and my uncle as a dad.

"I don't remember the first time I heard the story of my mom's separation from my dad, but I was told somehow somewhere sometime in the past. A better way to put it is that she left my dad, my brother and me. My dad made it clear that it was for our (my bro and I) good that they weren't together. So I had questions as a child, what happened to her, why did she have to leave? So my childhood psyche was a little messed up.

“My uncle’s family were very nice people. They raised me well, taught me Christian values and sorts. I was not maltreated or anything of sort. My mum (aunt) raised me like her own son. Their children became like sisters to me…I regarded them as my sisters. In fact till now, I find it difficult to refer to them as cousins.

“In school when my mates asked about my parents (especially about my mom) I get confused, like who exactly should I talk about, my biological mom or my mum (aunt)? Well, I usually just ward off those questions and sometimes I would lie, but I don’t really recall what I would say.

“Yes at my uncle’s home there were good moments and bad ones. Times when I cried and wished things were a little different. You know when you are staying with people you know are not your immediate family, you begin to interpret so many actions that doesn’t go well with you. And the devil wouldn’t make it easy.

“I really do appreciate all my uncle’s family did. They were and still have been a blessing to me. However, when I was a child I wished my parents had not separated, not because my uncle’s family were not good people, but l guess its human psychology that when u know something isn’t yours, you can’t feel at home. I think I had the best case scenario of living with Uncles.”

Regardless of his parents separation, it did not deter Ayo from dreaming of a great future. He did believe after rain comes sun. His incomparable faith in God and determined spirit must have served him a rolling stroll in which his passion for living outstandingly drove on.

Being the best graduating student in an institution that existed in a ‘strange’ land where he had to learn the dialect while coping with the environment as a preacher’s kid, must have served him a life sentence of confusion.

But as it is said “tough times don’t last but tough people do”, Ayo stood out despite the odds. He went on occupying sensitive positions in church and this must have boosted his self esteem in a way.

He actually gave Voice Your Stories Team an highlight of his journey to being the first class citizen in University of Uyo.

“I wrote jamb twice. The first time l tried gaining admission with a score of 230 but was turned down. The second time l scored 198 in jamb and 264 in post utme. Thank God l finally had admission to study Economics in University of Uyo, this was a dream come true.

“While in school, l had a target of becoming the best graduating student in the Economics department. I wrote the dream down of making a first class with 4.75.

“However my dream was threatened when l was told that my predecessors who were classified with first class honours had less than 4.75. They said l was embarking on a mission impossible.

“In the midst of the discouragement, l was still steadfast that l will still make the dream a reality.

https://www.voiceyourstories.com/2019/12/09/she-left-my-dad-my-brother-and-i-uniuyos-best-graduating-student/

mamajj17:

"AM HAPPY" dear

English professor, it's I'm happy dear not Am.

baby124:
Eyah. Sorry young guy. Sometimes when people walk away it can be for your own good. It could also be that your father prevented her from a relationship with you. Try to reach out and hear her own side of the story. If she says she didn’t want a relationship then leave her alone. Congratulations though.

Now you girls on here are been liberal, having different thoughts. May be the father didn't allow her see him, try hear her side. But if it was a man you lot will go skin head shouting dead beat father. Stating how useless men are forgetting same applies too.

Sunnyobums:

English professor, it's I'm happy dear not Am.

thanks dear

Ireboya:
I am happy ..BTW, Economics dey under Faculty of social sciences na

people don finish me 2day ooo

Congrat Ayo.. Keep it up, and do well to do more

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Deustchemann:

"I am happy" dear

Thanks dear

mamajj17:

thanks dear

you are welcome, don't mind me, I was just adding to the sarcasm.

knicks231:
Till this moment also i don’t know my mother. she abandoned my for my father. she also tried killing me, but i have no ideas the reasons for her action. i thank God for his elevation in my life. from being my father’s favourite to being called to the Nigeria Bar, Masters in the UK and summing it up as a top civil servant. God as always protected me.

Speak up! now that raped women are asked to speak up. So single parent speak up.

mamajj17:


"AM HAPPY" dear

"I'm happy" dear

StacyO:

"I'm happy" dear

Thanks jare

Some women are stone cold.
I am a mother to three angels.
I will leave them.
Never

He ditched all excuses and FOCUSED on his dream.
Honestly, No one cares about your plight until it becomes a building story to your SUCCESS.
We wish him more wins in life.

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GeneralPula:
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Bad mouth small small Hanti...For where I Grad from, them lecturers Dey smile ooo! Infact, to me government respect lectures pass police!

Smile better than those someone with his credentials outside the country?

You must be a jester for this comment.