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God created a man before a woman. Since then, it has been the duty of a man to ask a woman out.
Nowadays, there have been cases where a girl will see a guy she loves but can't approach him because of fear of being termed 'cheap' by the guy or lack of confidence.

But the question is that:
Is it abnormal for a girl to ask a boy out? Is there anything bad in it?

like 3 girls have asked me out before, so nothing special about that but it is flattering and all of them asked their friends to collect my number, they were so shy to approach me.

in my opinion, it is not abnormal but can be weird

I'm a guy and I like it when a lady takes bold steps..I don't see you as being cheap also

It's not abnormal but it's a normal thing

Notin dey there....ladies have been doing it nowadays

bad bawo ? U like sumbody.Approach him/her.Allow pipu to say whatever dey like. U do good/bad,dem go talk Never be ashame,be BOLD

Not normal in Naija.

It has been an odd experience for me so far, cos most of the ladies were once on my radar but I lost interest before they “manned-up” and asked me out. I dated the first one and it was a beautiful brief relationship before she cheated (she was still in her hoè-phase). I turned down the rest. One even threatened me. A whole me o. She hates me now (like sh!t) even though she’s married to a guy that cheated on her.

Women are not good at handling rejection like us. They have huge egos and you’d better not make them feel “unbeautiful” by rejecting their advances. Strange creatures.

Yes its abnormal, unnatural. Anybody that tells you otherwise is simply delusional. Even our most civilised western men would be embarrassed and taken aback by such alien practice, not to talk of the primitive and ever backward men we have here.

Geminita1:
Yes its abnormal, unnatural. Anybody that tells you otherwise is simply delusional. Even our most civilised western men would be embarrassed and taken aback by such alien practice, not to talk of the primitive and ever backward men we have here.

but isnt this the dumbest statement of the century, you need an award

Geminita1:
Yes its abnormal, unnatural. Anybody that tells you otherwise is simply delusional. Even our most civilised western men would be embarrassed and taken aback by such alien practice, not to talk of the primitive and ever backward men we have here.

Who made it so, why is it abnormal, use your brains women always expect everything to go your way, is there any law saying a lady can't ask a guy out.

lilwetdick:
but isnt this the dumbest statement of the century, you need an award

Yes if you are backward and primitive.

The only thing I can ask out or even force myself on right now is MONEY! BIG MONEY! ,so carry your prick and pussy talk go one side.

Geminita1:
Yes if you are backward and primitive.

Shut up tribal bitch. Am sure you still like the days when women were slaves to their husbands and when forced marriage was accepted.

Lightangel65:
Who made it so, why is it abnormal, use your brains women always expect everything to go your way, is there any law saying a lady can't ask a guy out.

I would not argue common sense stuffs with you, this world is guided by rules and principles whether spoken, written or not. And if you go against them you would only end up in chaos, and would still have to find your way back. So whatever, you can go ahead and break the rules, your life, your consequences.

Lightangel65:
Shut up tribal bitch. Am sure you still like the days when women were slaves to their husbands and when forced marriage was accepted.

Ewww

If you as a lady woo an immature asshole guy, just know you are in for a mess, if you woo a reasonable guy, the only thing you may have to deal with is him turning you down. The fear of the outcome is what won't let them, so they'd rather give you the green light, something to make you buoyant.

I personally like girls who like me naturally...I'm more attracted to them

Geminita1:
Yes if you are backward and primitive.

so according to Geminita1 aka aunty ruckus, in the western world, western women do not approach western men

lilwetdick:
so according to Geminita1 aka aunty ruckus, in the western world, western women do not approach western men

You sound pathetic. There is no need to gaslight the fact, just man up and maybe you will get a girl for once in your life?

Geminita1:
You sound pathetic. There is no need to gaslight the fact, just man up and maybe you will get a girl for once in your life?

i know you are a liitle unexposed girl, sitting all day on her smartphone, you might be using a smart phone but you arent smart

and how do i sound pathetic so western women do not ask out western men

i have a girl already not only is she a girl but a beautiful girl that isnt in your levels,

the question will be, do you have a man? do men even walk up to you do men even ask you out?, even if they do, what type of men are they? this question should be for you.

so i should man up for the dumb stuff you posted..aunty ruckus

Geminita1:
I would not argue common sense stuffs with you, this world is guided by rules and principles whether spoken, written or not. And if you go against them you would only end up in chaos, and would still have to find your way back. So whatever, you can go ahead and break the rules, your life, your consequences.

Women and rules, that's why men use and throw you like tissue paper. Don't come with your useless topics latet

is not bad or new .. she can do it in a mature and responsible way. just pass message to the guy is now left to the guy to display his level of maturity in handling issue like that

have experience this before I was blind. I couldn't pick her message clearly.

she should let her character speak not her mouth

Geminita1:
You sound pathetic. There is no need to gaslight the fact, just man up and maybe you will get a girl for once in your life?

You are just dumb, women approach men everywhere blacks, asains or white, you are one proud bitch it's attention right. I would love to hear your sad story when you get dumped, just don't turn feminist, like some disgusting bitches here