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Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 2:03pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
somehow:this op is manipulating narrative, na wah o |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 2:04pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
theoilguy: When you have kids and one turns out to be the black sheep, just get a knife and delete him/her ok. It's natural for people to do right or wrong and it's not out of the ordinary but our intelligence can help to leverage. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by somehow: 2:05pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Maybe he insulted the father fought him physically became rebellious now his conscience is having him for dinner now that he is about to become a man too |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by DRPAIT123(m): 2:07pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
This thread is by far the most emotional one I have read on this platform, so much hope, despair, sentiments,bitterness all envelope in one hell of a post, although I have a lot on my mind, I choose not too yet. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 2:07pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: You're not even sure...lol state of confusion indeed. Now I know where the problem lies...sorry ehn!
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Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Mac12(f): 2:11pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Dande55: So you'll rather kill an innocent child because of your stupid mistake? |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 2:11pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
DRPAIT123: This was the intention , the beauty is in the diverse emotions and reactions. Don't you appreciate the complexity of humans? |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by somehow: 2:13pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
midnighter: He painted his dad black to feel justified for his rebellion. If the dad was a demon, why then is he apologizing? He must have vowed not to get anything from his dad for that 6 years even though the same dad raised him for 20yrs your conscience has deprived you of peace! He's afraid of karma! |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 2:15pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
KanuSE:lol, you think i will play into your stupid games? You want to know my relationship status, boy you aint that sleek. Go learn more tricks.boy. Actually with way you have been jyrating on this thread one would think you and the other attention seeker shouting in capital letters have mummy issues ,lol freeing themselves from maternal slavery. so you see you are the one with the problems ,whatever bones you have to pick with the women in your life, leave me out of it. 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Nobody: 2:16pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Nairaland. Lol |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 2:17pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
somehow:what i dont appreciate is misleading people with the narrative he painted.very tastless and tacky. 2 Likes |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by somehow: 2:21pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: This is why I hardly respond instantly to a post, I wait for supporting comment from the op or I ask questions! No one ever paint themselves guilty or bad in their own narrative! |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 2:22pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Loool you're a handful seriously. Also, it's kinda easy to hide the fact one has no confidence in their relationship let alone their other half... We Sweet Boys Association are proud of ours and we flaunt it...no sweat! If you smell it and want a bite, please jump on it. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 2:23pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
somehow:i wanted to jump on the train too. Infact my first comment leaned towards that cos i was angry the op was giving a pat on the back to his bead beat father when the rest of the family were not aware or in support. Not knowing it was a different narrative all together. 2 Likes |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Emmanuelcann: 2:24pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA:maybe the tone of your argument? |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 2:25pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
KanuSE:you are so thirsty. Lol OK you have been noticed. Have a great day. 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by somehow: 2:29pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: The thread actually gave us another way to learn in life and how not to tackle issues or judge others |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Nobody: 2:29pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Kindly need advise please My child's father is not present in her life,his family helps in raising her,my problem now is that he neither calls nor ask about his child,even when i was pregnant. I've forgiven him for my own peace of mind and i'm also trying to move on. His sisters are now demanding that i keep mentioning him to my child,i told them that whenever the dad wants a part in his daughters life that i won't hold him back. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by DarkJeddi(m): 2:32pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA:There's ALWAYS two sides to a story and saying his side means NOTHING doesn't convey maturity and appreciation of circumstances.. Before you jump in and judge a case,ALWAYS endeavor to here the two sides,you might just be amazed by the truth that might crawl out.. #MYTWOCENTS 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 2:33pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Lol |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 2:34pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
somehow:True, but the baby daddy commitee where already gyrating and foaming in the mouth one even called it "freeing ones self from maternal slavery" lol what does that even mean? Geez sick dudes with bones to pick with their mothers. 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 2:35pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
DaphneBr: Ladycewhy & BRATISLAVA must not see this o... |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 2:37pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
DaphneBr:i think what you should do is to try and take her to see him, its better kids see their fathers reject them so they don't think you manipulated them. Like my uncle did, that one will insult them and their mother when they go and ask him for school fees,its the kids that used their sense to stay away from him . 3 Likes |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by midnighter(f): 2:38pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
somehow: Lol. We have all bursted it but at least he has apologised, which is the main thing. As far as his conscience is still functional he is okay |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 2:40pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: We're in perfect harmony with our mums coz they're not manipulative and bitter mothers. We Sweet Boys Association just want to make the world a better place for all, including the bitter souls moaning&climaxing on this wonderful thread. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 2:54pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Chai... You're a devil ! So in your obnoxious half sense, the sole purpose of taking the child to her dad is to go and test him, not necessarily to bond - You are a scheming fox! And about your uncle, you have only shown how insensitive you are as it's all about the money (school fees) isn't it? Your uncle must see this walahi - WTF!!! DaphneBr please don't follow this advice o! You will only create more cracks, if you know what I mean. My 2kobo |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Nobody: 2:55pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: He travelled out of the country this year,and the sisters keep making excuses for him whenever i tell them about their brother's actions towards his daughter,they keep saying that he's struggling for money and thats why he doesn't call. (he's 33 yrs old) 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 2:57pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
DaphneBr:if he can call his sisters then he should be able to call his daughter, there is now WhatsApp video call. Let your daughter know its not in your hands, infact take her there to his sister's place let your daughter hear the conversation.The mistakes many women make is they try to shield their kids from the rejection. If he doesn't want to be in his child's life let his child see it themselves,just be ready to be there when your kids need you and fill that void. There is this narrative going on in the society that mothers estranged from the father of their kids are emotional recks so they use their children as weapons and turn the kids against their fathers,is that how you want your kid to perceive you ? You better let her see and feel it herself. If possible ,request for his number from his sisters in your daughters presence. You better be wise lest you raise a child and be labelled a villain in the end, see how the op in his first comment called his mom a nagger and wailer. 5 Likes |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 2:59pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
DaphneBr: Stop listening to the likes of ladycewhy coz they will lead you there and leave you there to fight on your own. My 2kobo |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Amhappy(f): 3:01pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Congratulations OP for reconciling with your dad. It's a great feat. I remember when my dad returned to the east and finally started having a relationship with his family. It was a dream. My advice for men is just be a father. Two parts that made a child is needed to wholly raise the child. Providing is not an excuse to abdicate your responsibility. My own mum was providing 80% our dad 20 but she raised us alone. Things have changed my neighbour is World best dad. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Amhappy(f): 3:14pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
One of my neighbours is world best dad. He bathes, groom,feed, teach,play and provides. Has two children under 2 and his wife is the one struggling to keep up. This one is exceptional. I was once discussing with him when his daughter is ill. He feeds her himself,takes her to hospital, discuss with the doctor,give medication himself. If he doesn't like the treatment, he takes the child to another place. Yet he has and runs a successful business. 3 Likes |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by somehow: 3:18pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: cut both ways |
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