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By Sunday Akanni Moshood

The other day, I stumbled on a thread where someone was asking why people have chosen to abstain from premarital sex and all of that. Then, it came to my mind to even write something about my own experience. Don't worry, I will make this one brief (perhaps the long version will come years from now when I will probably write a book about my life).

When I was a little boy, despite that my immediate environment wasn't one that encouraged full blown spirituality (in God), I usually feel the hand of God on me, and I'm usually conscious of His presence. As I approached the adolescence period of my life, as expected, sexual urges started coming, and I was also with the desire to express these emotions. Despite that the devil stationed other young teenage females around, I found myself being hindered continually from defiling myself.

While I was still contemplating, as a very young teenager, if I should taste sex once, or wait until marriage, everything changed after God visited me with His offer.....

The Host of Heaven paid me a visit as a young boy, and the offer was: Walk before Me and be perfect, and in return, I will give you...... In return, I will make you....

After reflecting deeply on which way to go, I decided to go for God's offer, since I discovered it is more beneficial to me. So, it means I have to fight to ensure I won't fall into temptation and displease God.

Interestingly, God made it so easy for me.. When I see young people lamenting that their sexual urges are "driving them insane", I will be like, is this not the same sexual urges that I have? The same sexual urges I have, that I'm fully in control of?

The best decision I made in my life was deciding to embrace God's offer from a very young age and walk with Him. I keep enjoying pleasantness in all regards. I keep enjoying His Grace in awesome ways. I keep getting great things others struggle for, easily.

In fact, one of the rewards was writing to encourage others to embrace purity and chastity. I have been writing since I was a young teenager, and my books and articles are being bought and read in different parts of the world - even in faraway places like India! I became the person that people Google Search his name to know what he offers. And of course, I'm sure God is still taking me to higher grounds.

Because of that decision, I can boldly say it anywhere that I haven't indulged in premarital sex and I'm undefiled. And guess what? I'm very fine! Very healthy. I won't defile myself, and so, my messages will keep touching the world with fire, and bring people to the will of God through Jesus Christ.

Beloved, just as God gave me the offer, He is also giving you the offer to walk before Him and be perfect. If you align yourself with God by accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, and you decided to devote your life to Him, He will give you dominion over sin, the devil, creation (financially, health wise, family wise, etc).

Jesus said: "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28-30)

Like me, you can live an undefiled life. Don't believe the lies of the devil that you can't control these urges. Stop allowing sexual immorality wreck your life. Flee from all appearances of sin.

Jesus wants an eternal communion with you. It is your destiny to serve God in Spirit and in Truth through Jesus Christ His Son, and have dominion over creation. Open yourself to the Lord. Call upon His Name, and He will help you. God bless you.

I reject bad thing IJN

If only I hadn't grown up around those cradle robbing aunties, I for be like you aswear

It is good to share message like this so as to encourage people and strengthened their relationship with God

In as much as God would forgive people for losing their virginity before marriage, it's important to note that Mary wouldn't have been considered by God to be the mother of Jesus if she had done so.

So the decisions that one makes concerning sex at an early age, are yet very important as they could still deprive someone of some spiritual blessings.

God bless.

have you noticed that ugly girls and low confident guys are virgins by lack of opportunity

At least you're better than some sons of God!
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The Nephilim were on the earth in those days--and also afterward--when the sons of God went to the daughters of humans and had children by them. They were the heroes of old, men of renown.
Genesis 6 vs 4

Sons of God get sex organ and sex cell?

Good save us.

Urgently needed!!

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Nonsense and Chastity..

The guy below me biko go and resume your bombing on Hichat.. Leave Nairaland for jobless peep like myself

Next!

Damnnnnn niggarrr

Niggarrr damnnnnn
Like seriously?
No banging?


How niggarrrs live life without smoking weed, banging pussies, drinking alcohol and making dope cash still baffles me

Word

Nice one.

I can't practise it though.

High sex drive won't allow me.

Sorry Papa J!

God be praise. His mercy and love endureth forever.

mumumugu:
have you noticed that ugly girls and low confident guys are virgins by lack of opportunity

Not all. Some made up their minds not to do it.

I have also seen very fine girls who are virgins,by lack of opportunity.

ok

So you are saying because you did not "do pishaun pishaun" that is why you are "successful" Black man sha

The best decision I made in my life was deciding to embrace God's offer from a very young age and walk with Him. I keep enjoying pleasantness in all regards. I keep enjoying His Grace in awesome ways. I keep getting great things others struggle for, easily.

luminouz:
Nice one.
I can't practise it though.
High sex drive won't allow me.
Sorry Papa J!

Hellfire say hii

Cpaul47:
Hellfire say hii

Sure...
We go gather burn together bro.

Congratulations bro!

Perfection is attainable.

"Be ye therefore perfect even as your father who is in heaven is perfect" - Matt. 5:48

Celibacy

AntiChristian:
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Antichristian

What if after all these and you still find yourself in hell? I once had a friend who believed so much in this sex chastity, but she finish school riding on the back exam malpractice. I have an aunt who owns a church and a school. In her church, she is a powerful woman of God, in her school you don't need to "know book" to clear your waec. One of my colleagues during my MSc day is a catholic who runs a prayer ministry, but a simple discussion with her shows that she can go any length to manipulate her thesis to pass her research which she finally did. What's my point? People make it seem as though virginity and chastity shows you are righteous. But the truth is that being righteous goes beyond sex and virginity.

You may want to read:
Matthew 21:31


31 Which of the two did the will of his father?” They said, “The first.” Jesus said to them, “Truly, I say to you, the tax collectors and prostitutes go into the kingdom of God before you


Modified: Whatever you get today without struggling is not because you are a virgin but because of the grace of God. There are very sinful people who still don't struggle to get things.

Waoh
God please let my kids find you early and cause them to grow up in the knowledge of Jesus Christ...

Many worship the creation (sex) above the creator (God). The unquenchable drive for illicit sex we see all around us is purely IDOLATRY in the sight of God.

nice.. Glory to God