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binarymachine:
We all have a past, some of us have nothing to worry of our past while some of us are not too proud of it. You may have done or involved in some reckless or silly acts in time past, it may be because you were younger and naive, it may be Youthful exuberance, it may be a wild sense of adventure, you might just been plain stupid or you may have been a victim of other’s wickedness. Whatever is it, you seem to be struggling with its memory and scars.

It called past because it has happened and there is nothing you can do about it. Understandably, some things interfere with our normal psychic and affects the way we think. Your past may be a traumatic event, you may have been used in a way unimaginable, abused, assaulted, violated, maltreated, debased or put through hell and the world made it look like it was your fault. Now you are depressed, feel rejected, probably tired of life and thinking you should just end it all. You wish to let go but it’s difficult and you don’t even know how to start. You are actually stronger than you think and that is why you are still alive.

However your past is, either it was something you did or something done to you. You have a whole life in front of you. No matter the weight of your past, or the gravity of sin committed against you, you can pull through it. Realise that you may not be the first to have gone through that, others have been there, they survived and are living thier best life. Realise also that you are not alone, a lot of people may be going through same problem as you right now.

Forgive

Forgive yourself for all the things that has happened, this is the first step to gaining your freedom. It was not your fault, there is little you could have done about it. Let go of the anger you feel towards yourself, you have punished yourself enough. Cry, grieve, breathe and let go.

Forgive the people that have put you in your present state. They put you through misery, made you feel worthless and kept taunting you until they almost broke you. Its is hard and you want your revenge. Sometimes the best revenge is forgiveness, forgive them! They probably may not know what you are passing through because of them but trust me, karma has kept records and will visit them in due time. Just let your anger towards them go and you will see how lighter you have become.

Pick Up And Move On

Finally, pickup what is left of you, rearrange your self, seek further counselling, speak to a trusted family or friend about it. Just pour your heart out to them and let them help you feel better. Get busy, get a job, try hanging out, make new friends, meet new people and give life another chance. Never be a prisoner of your past, yesterday is gone, today is fresh and tomorrow is beckoning. Forgive yourself, forgive the world, let go and let God deal with it.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2019/10/27/let-go-of-your-past/

Otherwise you will soon end up past tense!

Forgive and forget

ijewejones:
Nice one op..good teaching as a take home lesson this December


Forgiveness can be considered but not for the likes of some zombies.. especially the dead rotten meat griller on this forum.


Stay off my post rotten zombie meat griller

Hahaha wetin e do you na

Sorrento:
Hahaha wetin e do you na

That guy is sick in his brain..

Gave him a gentleman offer on this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/5592647/fadhil-aridunnu-femi-adebayo-celebrates

But he wants to display his stupidity,so I'm gonna serve him with his choice

Nice one. Meanwhile to avoid regretting your today's actions and inactions which will become your past starting from tomorrow, start living life on the periphery of conventionalism, doing so conscientiously.

post=85101876:
Bye Bye Past....

Welcome tomorrow.

Ignore foolish, negative people and haters to enjoy a good life God has in store for you.

Cheers everyone

Are you even human?

Is it not possible this handle belongs to a posting script.

it's impossible to forget the past... even God will use it to judge us...

binarymachine:
We all have a past, some of us have nothing to worry of our past while some of us are not too proud of it. You may have done or involved in some reckless or silly acts in time past, it may be because you were younger and naive, it may be Youthful exuberance, it may be a wild sense of adventure, you might just been plain stupid or you may have been a victim of other’s wickedness. Whatever is it, you seem to be struggling with its memory and scars.

It called past because it has happened and there is nothing you can do about it. Understandably, some things interfere with our normal psychic and affects the way we think. Your past may be a traumatic event, you may have been used in a way unimaginable, abused, assaulted, violated, maltreated, debased or put through hell and the world made it look like it was your fault. Now you are depressed, feel rejected, probably tired of life and thinking you should just end it all. You wish to let go but it’s difficult and you don’t even know how to start. You are actually stronger than you think and that is why you are still alive.

However your past is, either it was something you did or something done to you. You have a whole life in front of you. No matter the weight of your past, or the gravity of sin committed against you, you can pull through it. Realise that you may not be the first to have gone through that, others have been there, they survived and are living thier best life. Realise also that you are not alone, a lot of people may be going through same problem as you right now.

Forgive

Forgive yourself for all the things that has happened, this is the first step to gaining your freedom. It was not your fault, there is little you could have done about it. Let go of the anger you feel towards yourself, you have punished yourself enough. Cry, grieve, breathe and let go.

Forgive the people that have put you in your present state. They put you through misery, made you feel worthless and kept taunting you until they almost broke you. Its is hard and you want your revenge. Sometimes the best revenge is forgiveness, forgive them! They probably may not know what you are passing through because of them but trust me, karma has kept records and will visit them in due time. Just let your anger towards them go and you will see how lighter you have become.

Pick Up And Move On

Finally, pickup what is left of you, rearrange your self, seek further counselling, speak to a trusted family or friend about it. Just pour your heart out to them and let them help you feel better. Get busy, get a job, try hanging out, make new friends, meet new people and give life another chance. Never be a prisoner of your past, yesterday is gone, today is fresh and tomorrow is beckoning. Forgive yourself, forgive the world, let go and let God deal with it.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2019/10/27/let-go-of-your-past/

Of course

ijewejones:
Nice one op..good teaching as a take home lesson this December


Forgiveness can be considered but not for the likes of some zombies.. especially the dead rotten meat griller on this forum.


Stay off my post rotten zombie meat griller

Trouble dey sleep yanga go wake am. He dey in own now, you go dey call am.

naijaschoolguru:
Trouble dey sleep yanga go wake am. He dey in own now, you go dey call am.

Guy gbagbe..he ain't shet & won't do more than shet..


Fear no dey catch belly,na why e dey front

binarymachine:
We all have a past, some of us have nothing to worry of our past while some of us are not too proud of it. You may have done or involved in some reckless or silly acts in time past, it may be because you were younger and naive, it may be Youthful exuberance, it may be a wild sense of adventure, you might just been plain stupid or you may have been a victim of other’s wickedness. Whatever is it, you seem to be struggling with its memory and scars.

It called past because it has happened and there is nothing you can do about it. Understandably, some things interfere with our normal psychic and affects the way we think. Your past may be a traumatic event, you may have been used in a way unimaginable, abused, assaulted, violated, maltreated, debased or put through hell and the world made it look like it was your fault. Now you are depressed, feel rejected, probably tired of life and thinking you should just end it all. You wish to let go but it’s difficult and you don’t even know how to start. You are actually stronger than you think and that is why you are still alive.

However your past is, either it was something you did or something done to you. You have a whole life in front of you. No matter the weight of your past, or the gravity of sin committed against you, you can pull through it. Realise that you may not be the first to have gone through that, others have been there, they survived and are living thier best life. Realise also that you are not alone, a lot of people may be going through same problem as you right now.

Forgive

Forgive yourself for all the things that has happened, this is the first step to gaining your freedom. It was not your fault, there is little you could have done about it. Let go of the anger you feel towards yourself, you have punished yourself enough. Cry, grieve, breathe and let go.

Forgive the people that have put you in your present state. They put you through misery, made you feel worthless and kept taunting you until they almost broke you. Its is hard and you want your revenge. Sometimes the best revenge is forgiveness, forgive them! They probably may not know what you are passing through because of them but trust me, karma has kept records and will visit them in due time. Just let your anger towards them go and you will see how lighter you have become.

Pick Up And Move On

Finally, pickup what is left of you, rearrange your self, seek further counselling, speak to a trusted family or friend about it. Just pour your heart out to them and let them help you feel better. Get busy, get a job, try hanging out, make new friends, meet new people and give life another chance. Never be a prisoner of your past, yesterday is gone, today is fresh and tomorrow is beckoning. Forgive yourself, forgive the world, let go and let God deal with it.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2019/10/27/let-go-of-your-past/

What a master piece. Personally I made some mistakes that cost me millions years back and also landed me in debt.I struggled for years to let it go,but it was so difficult. In fact I was going into more debt .when I finally let it go that was when everything started changing for good.sincerely mindset controls almost everything.

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post=85101876:
Bye Bye Past....

Welcome tomorrow.

Ignore foolish, negative people and haters to enjoy a good and positive life God has in store for you.

Cheers everyone

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You talk too much

There is something about you that's dark.. at you into voodoo? Did you put your hands into blood rituals?

You need to pray and go for deliverance

Cheers

1kworks:
That's easier said than done.

Mostly the forgiving part.

Imagine someone that escaped with ya money. Chai, e go hard.

Lwkmd o

1kworks:
That's easier said than done.

Mostly the forgiving part.

Imagine someone that escaped with ya money. Chai, e go hard.

Lol

You still have to forgive the person bro.
Another money go come.

1kworks:
That's easier said than done.

Mostly the forgiving part.

Imagine someone that escaped with ya money. Chai, e go hard.

I feel that enlightened people do not hold grudges because they know the truth. But the question is how many people know the truth?

how can one forgive one self?
that statement always ring a bell in my mind

Louisananda7:
I feel that enlightened people do not hold grudges because they know the truth. But the question is how many people know the truth?

enlightened... u mean the educated ones or u mean people with understanding respective of education?

post=85101876:
Bye Bye Past....

Welcome tomorrow.

Ignore foolish, negative people and haters to enjoy a good and positive life God has in store for you.

Cheers everyone

what's with the bashing you're getting on this forum?

Amen.

ecclize:
enlightened... u mean the educated ones or u mean people with understanding respective of education?

understanding

Here..
Hope this helps someone

HOW DO YOU 4GET ABT THE PAST WHEN YOUR PAST IS ALWAYS IN YOUR FACE.

The past hurts ,one can only be encouraged. Sometimes I really think about my mistakes but I think its normal to do that ,you cant undo the past but thinking about it is a way of dealing. Just learn to control how you think.

ijewejones:
Nice one op..good teaching as a take home lesson this December


Forgiveness can be considered but not for the likes of some zombies.. especially the dead rotten meat griller on this forum.


Stay off my post rotten zombie meat griller

no dey take that guy talk to heart bro.. he is better ignored

ohh