I dont like condoms

Shaking my head! Funny thread! Young married couple with 3 kids already will be looking at the OP with side eye! This is what yoruba people will say : ọmọde ọ mọ ogun, ọ npe ni ẹfọ!

Yes, birth control

This is crap.

otipoju:
Na all these kain stupid questions dey make people think sey christians are stupid.

From the beginning of time, and before the manufacturing of condoms societies have always found a way to do birth control. Wether by neutralizing the sperm with chemicals, withdrawal method or by timing the ovulation cycles.

Sin is rebellion against God and choosing not to impregnate your wife has nothing to do with rebelling against God.

The story of Onan must be understood for what it is. Onan had a duty to perform but did not ...he could have politely refused and let the woman move on with her life, jejely but instead chose cheat the system. He dishonored his brother, and kept stealing from the innocent woman by enjoying her body but failing to fulfill his part of the bargain.

He thought he was smart but God sees everything and executed justice on him for his wickedness.

Fire is neither good nor bad...its just fire but when you deliberately use fire to burn down your neighbours house...then you are the wicked one and not the fire .

Good analysis...

Though slight correction

1.Onan had no choice. He had to get Tamar pregnant, and the first son of that pregnancy would be counted as his brother's heir.(Any other sons would be 'his' so to speak. Strange...but in a society where children were very very important for a host of reasons).

2.But because he hated his brother, he refused to do his duty...

3.God punished him as a result...especially for the hate bit.

You are not even sure of the spirit talking to you, Definitely it is not God speaking to you here, when begin to doubt. So with what you are saying couples should continue to give birth like rats with no means of taking care of them abi? I know some churches that do discipline their workers who gives birth irrationally. How do you want to serve God with a clear head with so many kids responsibilities on you. By the way @op how many kids do you have?

kevoh:
Shaking my head! Funny thread! Young married couple with already 3 kids will be looking at the OP with side eye! This is what yoruba people will say : ọmọde ọ mọ ogun, ọ npe ni ẹfọ!

Abi.. Don't mind them

Who is asking this rubbish question this Sunday?

ursullalinda:
Well as a Christian and a Catholic using any form of sex protection apart from billings method is a sin

Really but they have made changes to it.

OP are you a married man?

If you were, you won't spew all these spiritual jargons you just conjured from the pit of ignorance.

I'm married with one child. As a married man, your sexual prowess will increase. Sex becomes a constant routine for the first few years of marriage. If you were to procreate without any form of family planning, you'd become a father of many nation's even before having grandchildren.

If condom is sin, how does a poor man who have no good income take care of a house full of children because he couldn't keep his urge to himself?

See what lack of wisdom and understand has done to Northern Nigeria (No pun intended) where a man pushes his children to beg on the street because he could not take care of his offspring (I'm not judging). Is that the life you want for society?

You'd be surprised that even your pastor practice family planning. Condom is NOT a sin! Sleeping with a woman other than your wife is what the Bible record as sin! Read your Bible!

jesusjnr:
If you went through the Op, you see that the bolded mirrors my initial response to the Onan question.

To follow the leading of the Spirit is a stupid thing in the sight of the world.

John 3:8 (KJV)

8 The wind bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound thereof, but canst not tell whence it cometh, and whither it goeth: so is every one that is born of the Spirit.

Do you know that till today Yoruba women have a traditional method of removing an unwanted foetus without visiting the doctors office.

I strongly believe that many ancient societies had forms of this to control their population if not women will be having at least 10 children each.

The only way you can prove this is to Die. Na d@ time u go know weda na true or false

otipoju:


Do you know that till today Yoruba women have a traditional method of removing an unwanted foetus without visiting the doctors office.

I strongly believe that many ancient societies had forms of this to control their population if not women will be having at least 10 children each.

In as much as I support any form of family planning, I do not support self induced abortion.

That, my friend... Is sin in the eyes of YHWH

Every thing made by God is natural. Adding artificial against the natural is a sin not crime.

I just wonder at times how some topics gets to front Page both on Friday and Sunday.

GuestLog:
In as much as I support any form of family planning, I do not support self induced abortion.

That, my friend... Is sin in the eyes of YHWH

Im just saying that before Abraham, there were men. I also do not support abortions but my prayer always is that God will not ever put us in a tight corner. We will not see what will pass us.

So i cant judge anyone unless it becomes a habit for the person

otipoju:


Im just saying that before Abraham, there were men. I also do not support abortions but my prayer always is that God will not ever put us in a tight corner. We will not see what will pass us.

So i cant judge anyone unless it becomes a habit for the person

I understand what you are saying now. I agree with you.

Here comes this guy and his meaningless strings of thread.

This question is very unnecessary if you know how birth control works, it saddens the heart that so called Christians of these days are wallowing in fables, old wife tales and unlearned discussions that doesn't edify.

This question is so not it at all.

It is a sin,because it objectifies the Husband and the wife.It turns both into mutual objects of pleasure for themselves and reduces love in the married life. If you have sex with your spouse just because of pleasure, without giving the chance of procreation you objectify your spouse.

https://www.nairaland.com/5582460/spirit-soul-body-mans-tripartite

This question is too contradictory ah swear

Wer is Apostle Suleiman?

ursullalinda:
Well as a Christian and a Catholic using any form of sex protection apart from billings method is a sin

I'm curious because of pregnancy scare, it would mean most Catholics couplea would most likely not be as sexual as they want to be. I've heard about this

Silly question... No doubt!

No

SIN don suffer for una hand! Mtcheew

apologies, but this is nonsense.

OP, Whatever feelings you are having about this topic and whatever conclusion you have made are purely your own borne from your predisposition about it and not from God's holy spirit. Trying to validate your opinion by saying stupid things like you discovered condoms in your pidgin tongues is why Christianity has become a joke.

And before you start spiritualizing idiocy and irresponsibility, OVERPOPULATION IS A REAL PROBLEM AND A THREAT TO OUR PLANET.

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What a dumb question !!!!!

The same bile says "for God has not given us the spirit of fear but he has given unto us the spirit of power, the spirit of love and a SOUND MIND"

Sound minds don't go about having unprotected sex without thinking of the consequences.

Luke 14:28 "Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won't you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it?"

Married couples shouldn't use condoms, the you know how much damage this thinking has caused in northern Nigeria? do you know how much poverty it has caused? Do you know the insecurity it has caused?

God has given every individual the capability to produce countless amount of children but it is our choice to determine how many we want, this decision should be made on the basics of health, economic strength, and time.

These past few days I've seen more people beg for money using their childrens upkeep as excuse, the question I would like to ask them is what we're their plans when they were having sex and bringing these children into the world.