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Its difficult to say this, the girl I want to marry (although I have not proposed to her yet). I showed her picture to my younger brother and he told me he has slept with her. I asked him severely even showed him other pictures of her to make sure it's the girl he slept with and he said it was her..

I love this girl so much that I can't imagine loosing her.( Sometimes you love someone and you can't tell what's so special about them). I have suspended the proposal , and I don't want to disclosed what my brother said to me to her.

Sometimes I ask myself among all the girls in Nigeria why must it be this one that I love that my brother met with..

I would have gone ahead with the decision but what kind of respect will I get from my younger brother by marrying a girl he slept with ? Sincerely if it was my elder brother I wouldn't mind, but being my younger brother it seems to my as a let down ..

Well let me not bore you with long story, what's your thought ?

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If your story is true and you want my advice....







I will surely stab my brother in his sleep. How can he fvck my whorre girlfriend?

Just imagine??

It's hurtful thou.......realising your kid bro had laid your woman. I would advice you let her go and find love elsewhere cause you just might not be able to handle the issues that might prop us in the nearest future

Let me see her pictures.... In case

Let see her pics, my mind is telling me she's that bitch I had 5 Rounds with

You love her , go ahead and marry her .

Who knows how many of your brother's girlfriend you've slept with Unknowingly .

Olawrites:


Let see her pics, my mind is telling me she's that bitch I had 5 Rounds with

this is the pic

You are even lucky your brother told you something like this. Most people won't. it's either they discourage you from marrying her or encourage you so as to continue the act of fvcking under your roof.

But I think you should still ask your brother how it happened. Were they into a relationship before she met you? Did he rape her? etc..You cannot just tell me you had sex with a woman I love without me asking you these questions (esp. when you are my brother)

You should also ask the lady if she knows your brother to see if she will mention what your brother claims to have happened between them. Your brother might have lied for selfish reasons..Maybe the lady didn't accept his advances and he is finding it hard to cope with the unfolding reality of you getting close to being her husband

For your own good:

1. Don't propose to her if they had consensual sex. They will most likely have it again

2. Don't propose to her if it is proven that truly, your brother slept with her(through whichever means)

Ndubuisipaul1:
Its difficult to say this, the girl I want to marry (although I have not proposed to her yet). I showed her picture to my younger brother and he told me he has slept with her. I asked him severely even showed him other pictures of her to make sure it's the girl he slept with and he said it was her..

I love this girl so much that I can't imagine loosing her.( Sometimes you love someone and you can't tell what's so special about them). I have suspended the proposal , and I don't want to disclosed what my brother said to me to her.

Sometimes I ask myself among all the girls in Nigeria why must it be this one that I love that my brother met with..

I would have gone ahead with the decision but what kind of respect will I get from my younger brother by marrying a girl he slept with ? Sincerely if it was my elder brother I wouldn't mind, but being my younger brother it seems to my as a let down ..

Well let me not bore you with long story, what's your thought ?

I would advice you take your question to the marriage secation, trust me there are more matured minds there as compared to the childish and ridiculous remark you are already seeing.

Will be waiting for your post there

Benjaniblinks:
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If your story is true and you want my advice....







I will surely stab my brother in his sleep. How can he fvck my whorre girlfriend?

Just imagine??

See how senseless you're,
@OP, did he sleep with her before or during your relationship with your supposed girlfriend?

Riele:
You love her , go ahead and marry her .

Who knows how many of your boyfriend's girlfriend you've slept with Unknowingly .

Dead on arrival

Sirmuel1:
Let me see her pictures.... In case

me too

Your brother just had sex with her and saw her unclothedness, that's it.
Past tense, let it go and marry who you want to marry .

Riele:
You love her , go ahead and marry her .

Who knows how many of your boyfriend's girlfriend you've slept with Unknowingly .

as if you would allow your son to marry a lady your younger son had smashed.



Why are you ladies hypocrites

oodua1stson:
as if you would allow your son to marry a lady your younger son had smashed.



Why are you ladies hypocrites

Why are you men hypocrite ?

If the reverse was the case here , you would totally advice the lady to stick to a man who slept with her fiancee with some fellas diverting insults on the lady's sister .

AstroG:
Dead on arrival

Who's dead ?
You?.

Nigerians like fvck!!


On the outside we like pope in Vatican!! But a lot of fvcks is being given in the background.

Riele:
Who's dead ?

You?.

Your senses and your careers

Riele:
Why are you men hypocrite ?

If the reverse was the case here , you would totally advice the lady to stick to a man who slept with her fiancee with some fellas diverting insults on the lady's sister .

you're not making any sense

Ndubuisipaul1:
Its difficult to say this, the girl I want to marry (although I have not proposed to her yet). I showed her picture to my younger brother and he told me he has slept with her. I asked him severely even showed him other pictures of her to make sure it's the girl he slept with and he said it was her..

I love this girl so much that I can't imagine loosing her.( Sometimes you love someone and you can't tell what's so special about them). I have suspended the proposal , and I don't want to disclosed what my brother said to me to her.

Sometimes I ask myself among all the girls in Nigeria why must it be this one that I love that my brother met with..

I would have gone ahead with the decision but what kind of respect will I get from my younger brother by marrying a girl he slept with ? Sincerely if it was my elder brother I wouldn't mind, but being my younger brother it seems to my as a let down ..

Well let me not bore you with long story, what's your thought ?

No matter how much I love a girl I can’t wife a girl my own brother beat. My friend I can understand and move past it cos a friend can get cut off but your bro will always be your bro and he hit your wifey first

When I have to break up with the love of my life cos my bro beat

Seriously I can't! The thought will be in my head for ever... Kai! I no fit.... It would been better if it's a random guy that fvcked her.

Riele:
You love her , go ahead and marry her .

Who knows how many of your boyfriend's girlfriend you've slept with Unknowingly .

Did i just understand d sense you made in d second paragraph?

favoryte33:
Did i just understand d sense you made in d second paragraph?

Some Error .

Thanks for pointing it out .

Riele:
Some Error .

Thanks for pointing it out .

You're welcome(iron girl)lol! Hope you enjoyed your holiday.

Ndubuisipaul1:
Its difficult to say this, the girl I want to marry (although I have not proposed to her yet). I showed her picture to my younger brother and he told me he has slept with her. I asked him severely even showed him other pictures of her to make sure it's the girl he slept with and he said it was her..

I love this girl so much that I can't imagine loosing her.( Sometimes you love someone and you can't tell what's so special about them). I have suspended the proposal , and I don't want to disclosed what my brother said to me to her.

Sometimes I ask myself among all the girls in Nigeria why must it be this one that I love that my brother met with..

I would have gone ahead with the decision but what kind of respect will I get from my younger brother by marrying a girl he slept with ? Sincerely if it was my elder brother I wouldn't mind, but being my younger brother it seems to my as a let down ..

Well let me not bore you with long story, what's your thought ?

Once in Mecca, Always an Alhaji.

You would be her Husband, paying children school fees & feeding the family - while your brother would be giving her wheel-barrow & touch-your-toes whenever he's bored.

Out of the 5 children she would bear for you, 3 would be your brother's.

I am telling you, in 10years time - 92% of women in Nigeria will be confirmed, shameless prostitutes.

The parents who brought-up the ladies of this indomie generation did a very shoddy job. Imagine the kinda children that will be brought up in 10, 20years by this indomie kids?

Cultists, Marlians, Serial Rapists, Killers, Homosexuals, Ritualists, Yahoo++xx++x & Bold Prostitutes.

favoryte33:
You're welcome(iron girl)lol! Hope you enjoyed your holiday.

Thanks . I did .

midolian:
You are even lucky your brother told you something like this. Most people won't. it's either they discourage you from marrying her or encourage you so as to continue the act of fvcking under your roof.

But I think you should still ask your brother how it happened. Were they into a relationship before she met you? Did he rape her? etc..You cannot just tell me you had sex with a woman I love without me asking you these questions (esp. when you are my brother)

You should also ask the lady if she knows your brother to see if she will mention what your brother claims to have happened between them. Your brother might have lied for selfish reasons..Maybe the lady didn't accept his advances and he is finding it hard to cope with the unfolding reality of you getting close to being her husband

For your own good:

1. Don't propose to her if they had consensual sex. They will most likely have it again

2. Don't propose to her if it is proven that truly, your brother slept with her(through whichever means)

He gave me the details, but I didn't want to bore people with long story, I was her supervisor in the company I worked . That was where we met.. but my brother met her even before she applied to work in our company . The relationship didn't last according to him , they left each other bitterly..

Women also rape men.

Your advice is excellent. I would have liked u to include this question: did she rape him?
Or do you think it is impossible that a woman can rape a man?



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But I think you should still ask your brother how it happened. Were they into a relationship before she met you? Did he rape her?[/quote]

Benjaniblinks:
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If your story is true and you want my advice....

I will surely stab my brother in his sleep. How can he fvck my whorre girlfriend?

Just imagine??

Over an Olosho? Really?

If you can deal with the thoughts and mental images of your brother sleeping with your wife then you can go ahead


As for me I can't marry a man my sister or even a close friend has slept with, I won't have peace of mind whenever I see them together.