₦airaland Forum

ZeddyR:
If you can deal with the thoughts and mental images of your brother sleeping with your wife then you can go ahead


As for me I can't marry a man my sister or even a close friend has slept with, I won't have peace of mind whenever I see them together except there are not on talking terms

midolian:
You are even lucky your brother told you something like this. Most people won't. it's either they discourage you from marrying her or encourage you so as to continue the act of fvcking under your roof.

But I think you should still ask your brother how it happened. Were they into a relationship before she met you? Did he rape her? etc..You cannot just tell me you had sex with a woman I love without me asking you these questions (esp. when you are my brother)

You should also ask the lady if she knows your brother to see if she will mention what your brother claims to have happened between them. Your brother might have lied for selfish reasons..Maybe the lady didn't accept his advances and he is finding it hard to cope with the unfolding reality of you getting close to being her husband

For your own good:

1. Don't propose to her if they had consensual sex. They will most likely have it again

2. Don't propose to her if it is proven that truly, your brother slept with her(through whichever means)

Ndubuisipaul1:
Its difficult to say this, the girl I want to marry (although I have not proposed to her yet). I showed her picture to my younger brother and he told me he has slept with her. I asked him severely even showed him other pictures of her to make sure it's the girl he slept with and he said it was her..

I love this girl so much that I can't imagine loosing her.( Sometimes you love someone and you can't tell what's so special about them). I have suspended the proposal , and I don't want to disclosed what my brother said to me to her.

Sometimes I ask myself among all the girls in Nigeria why must it be this one that I love that my brother met with..

I would have gone ahead with the decision but what kind of respect will I get from my younger brother by marrying a girl he slept with ? Sincerely if it was my elder brother I wouldn't mind, but being my younger brother it seems to my as a let down ..

Well let me not bore you with long story, what's your thought ?

Riele:
You love her , go ahead and marry her .

Who knows how many of your brother's girlfriend you've slept with Unknowingly .

stupidity:


Nigerians like fvck!!


On the outside we like pope in Vatican!! But a lot of fvcks is being given in the background.

Sirmuel1:
Let me see her pictures.... In case

Ndubuisipaul1:
Its difficult to say this, the girl I want to marry (although I have not proposed to her yet). I showed her picture to my younger brother and he told me he has slept with her. I asked him severely even showed him other pictures of her to make sure it's the girl he slept with and he said it was her..

I love this girl so much that I can't imagine loosing her.( Sometimes you love someone and you can't tell what's so special about them). I have suspended the proposal , and I don't want to disclosed what my brother said to me to her.

Sometimes I ask myself among all the girls in Nigeria why must it be this one that I love that my brother met with..

I would have gone ahead with the decision but what kind of respect will I get from my younger brother by marrying a girl he slept with ? Sincerely if it was my elder brother I wouldn't mind, but being my younger brother it seems to my as a let down ..

Well let me not bore you with long story, what's your thought ?

Ndubuisipaul1:
Its difficult to say this, the girl I want to marry (although I have not proposed to her yet). I showed her picture to my younger brother and he told me he has slept with her. I asked him severely even showed him other pictures of her to make sure it's the girl he slept with and he said it was her..

I love this girl so much that I can't imagine loosing her.( Sometimes you love someone and you can't tell what's so special about them). I have suspended the proposal , and I don't want to disclosed what my brother said to me to her.

Sometimes I ask myself among all the girls in Nigeria why must it be this one that I love that my brother met with..

I would have gone ahead with the decision but what kind of respect will I get from my younger brother by marrying a girl he slept with ? Sincerely if it was my elder brother I wouldn't mind, but being my younger brother it seems to my as a let down ..

Well let me not bore you with long story, what's your thought ?

Ndubuisipaul1:
Its difficult to say this, the girl I want to marry (although I have not proposed to her yet). I showed her picture to my younger brother and he told me he has slept with her. I asked him severely even showed him other pictures of her to make sure it's the girl he slept with and he said it was her..

I love this girl so much that I can't imagine loosing her.( Sometimes you love someone and you can't tell what's so special about them). I have suspended the proposal , and I don't want to disclosed what my brother said to me to her.

Sometimes I ask myself among all the girls in Nigeria why must it be this one that I love that my brother met with..

I would have gone ahead with the decision but what kind of respect will I get from my younger brother by marrying a girl he slept with ? Sincerely if it was my elder brother I wouldn't mind, but being my younger brother it seems to my as a let down ..

Well let me not bore you with long story, what's your thought ?

Ndubuisipaul1:
He gave me the details, but I didn't want to bore people with long story, I was her supervisor in the company I worked . That was where we met.. but my brother met her even before she applied to work in our company . The relationship didn't last according to him , they left each other bitterly..

BigSarah:
Your brother just had sex with her and saw her unclothedness, that's it.
Past tense, let it go and marry who you want to marry .

midolian:
You are even lucky your brother told you something like this. Most people won't. it's either they discourage you from marrying her or encourage you so as to continue the act of fvcking under your roof.

But I think you should still ask your brother how it happened. Were they into a relationship before she met you? Did he rape her? etc..You cannot just tell me you had sex with a woman I love without me asking you these questions (esp. when you are my brother)

You should also ask the lady if she knows your brother to see if she will mention what your brother claims to have happened between them. Your brother might have lied for selfish reasons..Maybe the lady didn't accept his advances and he is finding it hard to cope with the unfolding reality of you getting close to being her husband

For your own good:

1. Don't propose to her if they had consensual sex. They will most likely have it again

2. Don't propose to her if it is proven that truly, your brother slept with her(through whichever means)

Zoharariel:
Once in Mecca, Always an Alhaji.

You would be her Husband, paying children school fees & feeding the family - while your brother would be giving her wheel-barrow & touch-your-toes whenever he's bored.

Out of the 5 children she would bear for you, 3 would be your brother's.

I am telling you, in 10years time - 92% of women in Nigeria will be confirmed, shameless prostitutes.

The parents who brought-up the ladies of this indomie generation did a very shoddy job. Imagine the kinda children that will be brought up in 10, 20years by this indomie kids?

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Riele:
You love her , go ahead and marry her .

Who knows how many of your brother's girlfriend you've slept with Unknowingly .

Ndubuisipaul1:
Its difficult to say this, the girl I want to marry (although I have not proposed to her yet). I showed her picture to my younger brother and he told me he has slept with her. I asked him severely even showed him other pictures of her to make sure it's the girl he slept with and he said it was her..

I love this girl so much that I can't imagine loosing her.( Sometimes you love someone and you can't tell what's so special about them). I have suspended the proposal , and I don't want to disclosed what my brother said to me to her.

Sometimes I ask myself among all the girls in Nigeria why must it be this one that I love that my brother met with..

I would have gone ahead with the decision but what kind of respect will I get from my younger brother by marrying a girl he slept with ? Sincerely if it was my elder brother I wouldn't mind, but being my younger brother it seems to my as a let down ..

Well let me not bore you with long story, what's your thought ?

tchidi066:
This is serious... I don't even know what to say

Riele:
You love her , go ahead and marry her .

Who knows how many of your brother's girlfriend you've slept with Unknowingly .

Olawrites:


Let see her pics, my mind is telling me she's that bitch I had 5 Rounds with

Ndubuisipaul1:
Its difficult to say this, the girl I want to marry (although I have not proposed to her yet). I showed her picture to my younger brother and he told me he has slept with her. I asked him severely even showed him other pictures of her to make sure it's the girl he slept with and he said it was her..

I love this girl so much that I can't imagine loosing her.( Sometimes you love someone and you can't tell what's so special about them). I have suspended the proposal , and I don't want to disclosed what my brother said to me to her.

Sometimes I ask myself among all the girls in Nigeria why must it be this one that I love that my brother met with..

I would have gone ahead with the decision but what kind of respect will I get from my younger brother by marrying a girl he slept with ? Sincerely if it was my elder brother I wouldn't mind, but being my younger brother it seems to my as a let down ..

Well let me not bore you with long story, what's your thought ?

Iloveu2:

This life and it's too many ironies. Just yesterday, we were discussing with friends and I got my mind BLOWN AWAY when a married man, (now divorced) was sharing his story about his divorced wife. Guess what?!!! HE MARRIED HER AS A VIRGIN. After about 3 years, he caught her red handed sleeping with a very young boy of around 16 years old, their male servant. Do you know what she told her husband?! I JUST WANT TO HAVE A FEELING OF ANOTHER PEN!S IN MY LIFE, JUST TO SEE THE DIFFERENCE . She was the one who lured or have been luring the poor boy to have sex with her.

My point is, even if you dey brag say you marry VIRGIN anything still fit happen.

Zoharariel:
Once in Mecca, Always an Alhaji.

You would be her Husband, paying children school fees & feeding the family - while your brother would be giving her wheel-barrow & touch-your-toes whenever he's bored.

Out of the 5 children she would bear for you, 3 would be your brother's.

I am telling you, in 10years time - 92% of women in Nigeria will be confirmed, shameless prostitutes.

The parents who brought-up the ladies of this indomie generation did a very shoddy job. Imagine the kinda children that will be brought up in 10, 20years by this indomie kids?

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