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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by superfitsez(m): 4:04pm On Jan 06, 2020
Hamachi:
U are too good for me angel ...am such an unrepentant undeserving unfaithful scum he said that year...!!!and walked away breaking my heart..motherfvcka cry cry cry he married the older rich woman he said was his aunt 2 months later!!!
you ugly nah,
Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by superfitsez(m): 4:12pm On Jan 06, 2020
IyaTola:
I remember when my Ex ended the relationship with me, I was so devastated. I got so much heartbroken, I felt so much betrayed when he hooked up with a new girl immediately, I felt so used, I hated love, I swore never to love again, I fell sick, I skipped eating food for some good days, I reduced in my size, I felt like I wasn't fitting in my friends who were a couple, and I asked myself a lot of questions like, why does it have to be me being heartbroken all the time, why quitting me, why forgetting all what we had gone through in just minutes, why not applying the lessons I had learnt in the past breakups I had experienced and many other related questions. .
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But one morning when I rose up from a sleepless, thoughtful and a tearful night, I asked myself why I was hurting, crying and skipping food for the past days. I realized that there was nothing so big to worry and cry for. He was a just a stranger that I met and he made me develop love feelings and then he had to leave. I had not lost my son, not a brother and not a relative. Just "some guy." I was suffering for nothing.
.
It looked like it was my loss at that jiffy but in real sense it was hes. He had lost someone who truly loved him that he will never find again. . Since then I realized that spending all my time thinking about him, reminiscing about the happy moments we had shared, the future plans we had set, and being miserable was a waste of my precious time. I had to stop my tears and my thoughts and came back to my normal senses. I then diverted that time and my attention to other productive things like my family, my dreams, my school, and my portraits. .
.
That's where my healing process started from. I realized that he was just a page in my book of life. Meaning I only needed the courage to close it and open a new one. It wasn’t easy for me. It took me some time but I made. At first when I used to look at his status, photos and online flirting with his new girl it would hurt me deeply but after a month they could do nothing to me. I could find them in my news feed and don't feel anything at all.
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Yeah, it’s never easy to get over someone you truly loved so much but once you do it. It’s the best decision ever. Never think that you will never heal from that break up. You will. It’s just a matter of time, courage and effort. Never think you won’t love again. You will when the right time comes and you will be the happiest person ever!

hahahah,see this oneoooo...you wrote this up here for guys to see you as loving girl abi,,,your pussy must be wide thats why dumped you,,ndo oh nne

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by Benoxvals(m): 4:15pm On Jan 06, 2020
She said that she cannot live in Onitsha and that I’m not the trendy kinda guy.
My brain come dull,weak,scatter @ the same time.

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by Tajbol4splend(m): 4:43pm On Jan 06, 2020
Remijuice:
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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by Nobody: 5:10pm On Jan 06, 2020
He said I dont know how to cook ewedu like his mom so wasn't possible. Offcourse I was like, you know I'm Igbo ryt undecided

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by donMIG(m): 5:15pm On Jan 06, 2020
U r too good for me
That was like 8yrs ago
My head wan fall from my shoulder
Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by Nobody: 5:50pm On Jan 06, 2020
IyaTola:
I remember when my Ex ended the relationship with me, I was so devastated. I got so much heartbroken, I felt so much betrayed when he hooked up with a new girl immediately, I felt so used, I hated love, I swore never to love again, I fell sick, I skipped eating food for some good days, I reduced in my size, I felt like I wasn't fitting in my friends who were a couple, and I asked myself a lot of questions like, why does it have to be me being heartbroken all the time, why quitting me, why forgetting all what we had gone through in just minutes, why not applying the lessons I had learnt in the past breakups I had experienced and many other related questions. .
.
But one morning when I rose up from a sleepless, thoughtful and a tearful night, I asked myself why I was hurting, crying and skipping food for the past days. I realized that there was nothing so big to worry and cry for. He was a just a stranger that I met and he made me develop love feelings and then he had to leave. I had not lost my son, not a brother and not a relative. Just "some guy." I was suffering for nothing.
.
It looked like it was my loss at that jiffy but in real sense it was hes. He had lost someone who truly loved him that he will never find again. . Since then I realized that spending all my time thinking about him, reminiscing about the happy moments we had shared, the future plans we had set, and being miserable was a waste of my precious time. I had to stop my tears and my thoughts and came back to my normal senses. I then diverted that time and my attention to other productive things like my family, my dreams, my school, and my portraits. .
.
That's where my healing process started from. I realized that he was just a page in my book of life. Meaning I only needed the courage to close it and open a new one. It wasn’t easy for me. It took me some time but I made. At first when I used to look at his status, photos and online flirting with his new girl it would hurt me deeply but after a month they could do nothing to me. I could find them in my news feed and don't feel anything at all.
.
Yeah, it’s never easy to get over someone you truly loved so much but once you do it. It’s the best decision ever. Never think that you will never heal from that break up. You will. It’s just a matter of time, courage and effort. Never think you won’t love again. You will when the right time comes and you will be the happiest person ever!
He is a scum..
You did well to heal properly!!
Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by Gofwane(m): 5:54pm On Jan 06, 2020
She said I looked like a wife beater. But in reality, I am one of the most kind hearted human being to ever grace the surface of the earth.
Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by Nobody: 5:55pm On Jan 06, 2020
AwkaetitiBabe:
He said I dont know how to cook ewedu like his mom so wasn't possible. Offcourse I was like, you know I'm Igbo ryt undecided
Why can't you give him some white soup to reset his brain??

And all the other varieties... shocked shocked shocked

I have never heard of anybody 'rejecting' an Igbo girl because of Soup... Very rare!! shocked shocked
The guy is something else!!

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by Gofwane(m): 5:56pm On Jan 06, 2020
Olamsoh:
I jokenly told her that I have oesophagus....she screamed and said she can't marry someone with oesophagus...I was trying to tell her it's a joke that oesophagus is a part of the inner body..she still no gree....I even heard she shared it as testimony..that God saved her from marrying someone with oesophagus
damn, God saved you from marrying a dumbo grin

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by Frankicent(m): 6:05pm On Jan 06, 2020
One Ibadan girl said she can't date me because I don't like amala and ewedu. I just laughed and move on.

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by Nobody: 6:31pm On Jan 06, 2020
eni4real:
Why can't you give him some white soup to reset his brain??

And all the other varieties... shocked shocked shocked

I have never heard of anybody 'rejecting' an Igbo girl because of Soup... Very rare!! shocked shocked
The guy is something else!!
Lol
Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by vincentjk(m): 7:09pm On Jan 06, 2020
callmemercy:
"I am not ready to be emotionally attached"
undecided

Really? Seems you ain't even thinking of marriage at all
Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by vincentjk(m): 7:11pm On Jan 06, 2020
Jewessgratitude:


Mine was one short man that I wanted to manage.
He commented on his exs photo i now asked him if he still loves her, he then told me to forget about the relationship that he doesn't want somebody that will give him hypertension.

How I handled it.

I bone am life. As in... I didn't even say anything on the other end of the phone. I just cut it and never called him again.
And truly I never felt rejected cos I was still forcing myself to love him as the relationship was just barely a month plus he's too short. Not my spec.

Las las he called after months of blanking him, telling me he lost someone dear to him. I said sorry and blanked him again.

Maybe he dumped you but you'll never say the truth here. Who knows

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by vincentjk(m): 7:13pm On Jan 06, 2020
She asked me to sell my land and buy a better ride to be cruising around town, I said no and she left undecided

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by evy800(f): 7:20pm On Jan 06, 2020
Olamsoh:
I jokenly told her that I have oesophagus....she screamed and said she can't marry someone with oesophagus...I was trying to tell her it's a joke that oesophagus is a part of the inner body..she still no gree....I even heard she shared it as testimony..that God saved her from marrying someone with oesophagus
LOL...this has got to be the funniest thing I've read in a while

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by BitCraftman: 7:24pm On Jan 06, 2020
difference in ethnic group.
Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by jidamsel43(m): 7:45pm On Jan 06, 2020
She said I was too humble and cool. She argued that for about 2 years that we hv been dating, I have not for once fought with her , chide , bullied nor shout on her. She said men like that are pretentious. She said she feared if I became annoyed I might break her head or kill her.

I was traumatized when she left but I later found solace in my gorgeous angel that God sent to me .

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by Yemialade(f): 7:56pm On Jan 06, 2020
He said am tall,and he is short,the height different is too much for him.

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by Auxigen(m): 8:13pm On Jan 06, 2020
callmemercy:
"I am not ready to be emotionally attached"
undecided
You're beautiful!

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by Nobody: 8:36pm On Jan 06, 2020
I once fell for a Yoruba girl, Ogun state to be precise that loves me so much. The babe loved me so much that she denied me sex just to lure me into marriage. She loved me so much citing her reason for my gentle nature and eloquence.
In fact one of the reason why I stayed in that relationship for almost a year was because of her cooking prowess.
I knew I can never marry her because she is not that intelligent and she rarely reads .
The only reason I could give just to end the relationship was the difference in our ethnic group.

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by Brunicekid(m): 9:47pm On Jan 06, 2020
vincentjk:
She asked me to sell my land and buy a better ride to be cruising around town, I said no and she left undecided
You are WISE. Thank God for people like you on this forum. I have seen my type. God bless you in Jesus Name.

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by mitakemi2427(f): 9:47pm On Jan 06, 2020
LINTUNE:
so why this article ..why cant u just answer the OP's question without telling us ur biography
Guy u harsh o
Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by vincentjk(m): 9:54pm On Jan 06, 2020
Brunicekid:
You are WISE. Thank God for people like you on this forum. I have seen my type. God bless you in Jesus Name.

Amen and you too
Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by LINTUNE(m): 9:58pm On Jan 06, 2020
mitakemi2427:

Guy u harsh o
Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by IyaTola: 10:16pm On Jan 06, 2020
BitCraftman:
difference in ethnic group.
eyah
Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by callmemercy(f): 10:22pm On Jan 06, 2020
Auxigen:

You're beautiful!

Thank you smiley
Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by callmemercy(f): 10:24pm On Jan 06, 2020
vincentjk:


Really? Seems you ain't even thinking of marriage at all

Lol... You mean the guy isn't thinking about marriage?
Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by rossovu: 10:27pm On Jan 06, 2020
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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by Nobody: 11:17pm On Jan 06, 2020
IyaTola:
I remember when my Ex ended the relationship with me, I was so devastated. I got so much heartbroken, I felt so much betrayed when he hooked up with a new girl immediately, I felt so used, I hated love, I swore never to love again, I fell sick, I skipped eating food for some good days, I reduced in my size, I felt like I wasn't fitting in my friends who were a couple, and I asked myself a lot of questions like, why does it have to be me being heartbroken all the time, why quitting me, why forgetting all what we had gone through in just minutes, why not applying the lessons I had learnt in the past breakups I had experienced and many other related questions. .
.
But one morning when I rose up from a sleepless, thoughtful and a tearful night, I asked myself why I was hurting, crying and skipping food for the past days. I realized that there was nothing so big to worry and cry for. He was a just a stranger that I met and he made me develop love feelings and then he had to leave. I had not lost my son, not a brother and not a relative. Just "some guy." I was suffering for nothing.
.
It looked like it was my loss at that jiffy but in real sense it was hes. He had lost someone who truly loved him that he will never find again. . Since then I realized that spending all my time thinking about him, reminiscing about the happy moments we had shared, the future plans we had set, and being miserable was a waste of my precious time. I had to stop my tears and my thoughts and came back to my normal senses. I then diverted that time and my attention to other productive things like my family, my dreams, my school, and my portraits. .
.
That's where my healing process started from. I realized that he was just a page in my book of life. Meaning I only needed the courage to close it and open a new one. It wasn’t easy for me. It took me some time but I made. At first when I used to look at his status, photos and online flirting with his new girl it would hurt me deeply but after a month they could do nothing to me. I could find them in my news feed and don't feel anything at all.
.
Yeah, it’s never easy to get over someone you truly loved so much but once you do it. It’s the best decision ever. Never think that you will never heal from that break up. You will. It’s just a matter of time, courage and effort. Never think you won’t love again. You will when the right time comes and you will be the happiest person ever!
This can make a quitter consider trying to find love again. You're a strong woman.

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by FromZeroToHero(m): 12:35am On Jan 07, 2020
You are like a brother to me.

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Re: What's The Most Stupid Reason Someone Ever Gave You As An Excuse Not To Date by vincentjk(m): 3:52am On Jan 07, 2020
callmemercy:


Lol... You mean the guy isn't thinking about marriage?

You said you ain't ready to be emotionally attached meaning you've no time for love hence my question

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