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We see in some homes that some ladies, just so that they can get out of their 'single' state pretends to be very handy before the wedding day.

You can see them cook, wash, do the house chores and do many more. But after the ring gets on the finger permanently, the story changes.

Things that they usually do without breaking a sweat before, they see it as a burden on themselves.

But not to generalise too much, is this true or what's your opinion?

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Source: http://www.musictori.com/2020/01/wife-material-vs-after-wedding-is-this.html

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Na from clap dance dey start!

In some cases....


Charity begins at home!

Check if she does those chores cheerfully at home, ur finding should determine your you know na

space booked

My cousin is going through this situation in his marriage currently.

MrBachelor:
My cousin is going through this situation in his marriage currently.

Marriage is a gamble bro, you can't really predict what your partner will turn to after the wedding...

Only God can help us

sparog:
Marriage is a gamble bro, you can't really predict what your partner will turn to after the wedding...

Only God can help us

sure

no be lie

Kinda true

Some ladies tend to relax in home chores after getting married.

Michelle55:
Kinda true

See dem

eni4real:
See dem

Wetin I do you Sir?

Michelle55:
Wetin I do you Sir?

You are doing well

eni4real:
You are doing well

Thank you sir

Michelle55:
Thank you sir

I didn't know you are a good Christian..
Wow!! Keep doing well!!!

Honestly, both genders are guilty of this. Lol Husband stop showing care, make demands he wouldn't have made during courtship, start looking outside for next catch. Wife stop cleaning every dust in the house every seconds, ties wrapper all day, stop looking beautiful, stop looking for recipes online etc. Lol. The thing is most times couples no longer find impressing one another necessary once the knot is tied.But believe me that little thing they overlook (impressing each other) is the cause of many marital problems we have these days.

Ariza:
Honestly, both genders are guilty of this. Lol Husband stop showing care, make demands he wouldn't have made during courtship, start looking outside for next. Wife stop cleaning every dust in the house every seconds, ties wrapper all day, stop looking beautiful, stop looking for recipes online etc. Lol. The thing is most times couples no longer find impressing one another necessary once the knot is tied.But believe me that little thing they overlook (impressing each other) is the cause of many marital problems we have these days.

Exactly ...I hate when a narrative is one-sided.

Michellekabod2:
Exactly ...I hate when a narrative is one-sided.

Lol On a forum like Nairaland, that is unavoidable.

But if you are yet to put a ring on it, she won't stop just soon,,, you grab

A nigga once said:This life na politics, when you need something from parent,brother,uncle or even aunty you go loyal. But once you get am all man face him front. I believe say na so e be for marriage, both the man and woman..



After all them no dey campaign after election..

eni4real:
I didn't know you are a good Christian..
Wow!! Keep doing well!!!

I know you're teasing me but continue.. You no fit wash my head with hypo

Normal level, but not in all cases. Buh las las marriage nor be for person lyk me.

That's why it is good to marry more than one wife. When madam starts misbehaving, doing whatever she likes and doesn't have time for you.
It is highly recommended to look for a younger fresh wife to start competition.
You'll see how each one of them will be fighting for your attention and doing their best to please you most. You will be spoilt of choices .

Michelle55:
I know you're teasing me but continue.. You no fit wash my head with hypo

Someone cannot play with you?

lol,,so true for african home

eni4real:
Someone cannot play with you?

Lol... Player Ronaldo ... No worry, na me be Var

Politicians dont campaign after winning election for a reason

Patriarchy princesses know that Nigerian men like house girls, so they show you what you want to see until they don't have to. That's why "my wife no longer cleans my anus" threads exist.

Who campaigns again after election? Or did Buhari campaign again after winning last year election.

Those single girls do all those to impress or tie a guy down once they are successful with thier mission it back to thier default character.

Me77:
That's why it is good to marry more than one wife. When madam starts misbehaving, doing whatever she likes and doesn't have time for you.
It is highly recommended to look for a younger fresh wife to start competition.
You'll see how each one of them will be fighting for your attention and doing their best to please you most. You will be spoilt of choices .

In this era of stabbing? Maybe you haven't heard
Marry the younger "beautiful "wife and I will use both of you as my driver and maid respectively. Who come suffer !!!!!!!
The only time it pains a woman that her husband is cheating or getting married is when she is so much in love with the man or overly dependent on the man. Presently, people just marry for the comfort and with the illusion of love. To some women, you can kill yaself for all they care.