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Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by faithfull18(f): 8:24pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
goodnewscliff:Nah, you are the one who needs to, I speak based on facts, I didn't say 'all' , most if you are being truthful to yourself. |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by slimmaintenance(m): 8:26pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
If it's possible, I could have given you 1000000 likes. You too sabi You don't go direct when you want a woman to contribute financially to something. You go Tactically[Not imposing, but asking how and where she can take care of, she'll choose, no matter the percentage of her choice, you lock up, keep the planning going, pretend like you are cool and then sketch out a personal plan of how to act worried and restless before her, she'll wanna know the problem, act like you wanna hide it from her, she'll be worried and pissed that you are hiding things from her, then you'll come up with a story and open up that you are facing financial crisis and don't know how to sort some things out concerning the wedding, she'll willingly help with pity without seeing you as a stingy or mean person] No be everything dem dey form mancho, you go dey use your head. You've spent on traditional wedding and for that not to be a total waste, kindly go and meet her, reason with her and go tactical, not directly with authority. Happy married life in advance![/quote] |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by goodnewscliff(m): 8:28pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
faithfull18:Average aint fair and factful enough!!!! |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by victorian(f): 8:31pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Promomarlie: For me? I don't have issues with white wedding. Traditional and court Is OK by me. People looking at spending millions or lots of thousands of naira on their wedding day, are just wasting money. They are not even looking at the bigger picture that's the marriage. Marriage is forever if both parties are not selfish, while wedding is just one day affair. Alot of people getting married have misplaced priorities. For me, a simple quiet court marriage is OK. Any of my friends or fans or family who do not like it, should make their own carnival like. It's their choice. Then with genieve, how do u know she's not happy? Let's assume. How? Because she's single and not married? Maybe tasting different dicks and bodies give her immeasurable joy. You can't say? As some Men love tasting different pussies, also there are women who enjoys tasting different men. It gives them great joy. Not everyone must desire marriage or must marry. That's my view anyways. |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Promomarlie: 8:42pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
sharone21: Is childbearing work? Your type will get paid to get pregnant and born, I laff at your village people. And you skipped the bride price side, I thought as much. If a woman tells me she can't CARRY OUR CHILD like her mother carried her abeg I go find my level. I'm AFRAID that motherly love might soon be lost over worthless nonsense thoughts like yours.. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Promomarlie: 8:50pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
victorian: I don't care about her happiness, she assumed so I decided to counter it. But can you be sincere and say you'll sit your child down to advice them that to Bleep as many men or women as they want, I would never do that and morally I don't think it sounds good. You don't want to get married but you want the fun of marriage and mind you, you'll jumping between married men/women. Well I'm not married maybe because I see it as a beautiful union in my opinion. |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by sharone21(f): 8:51pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Promomarlie: No,..... child bearing is not work or risk to one's life because u just see women carry their babies and enter their houses, what about the many that weren't so lucky? The man go come go marry another babe. If dem REALLY tell u now to born children for your wife, u go start to panic and if at all u born na ONLY 1 pikin and u no go let the child and world hear world again. Please, give it to women ANYDAY....don't EVER impose or debate on gender equality trash/feminism when you know women still do more work in any marriage, small wonder why children NEVER forget their mums..... For my type of dad( not your type of men), he is GOLDEN and we can NEVER forget him too( as his kids).... 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by SweetyMarvel00(m): 8:53pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
donstan18: You are good my guy. |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by walexbiz(m): 8:54pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Pls ops stand your ground, I have seen cases where the groom will cater for everything while the wife will use her money for frivolities while the husband suffers in silence. Tell her your reason for taking such a stand and let her know she too has a responsibility to take up in the house and she shouldn't see your income has our income while her own income is her own income. A bird flies with two wings and not one, also one hand doesn't put load on the head she must be an active contributor in the upkeep of the house since she too will be part of the decision making team. Pls take your stand as a saying goes thus, if you fail to stand for something you will fall for everything, a word is good enough for the wise. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Promomarlie: 8:56pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
slimmaintenance: He didn't impose, read again, he said he asked her to handle a part of the expenses, should he kneel, come on guys this is who you're going to spend the rest of your life with and you still need tactics to ask what will benefit you both?? I don't buy that ideal never. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Ishilove: 8:58pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
MiddleDimension:Who expects this, exactly? The practice of kneeling down to propose probably began during the Romantic Era in the European society, when women were regarded as fragile and chivalry was very much alive. Kneeling is supposed to be a sign of respect and honor, so chivalrous men knelt to propose marriage with the hope that the special woman will do them the honor by accepting. This continued until it became a culture. That is In the European society. In African society kneeling down before a woman is a taboo because you kneel before who has authority over you, so when you kneel before a woman, you have passed your authority to her. We don't have such practices in our culture. Kneeling to propose is an alien culture, just as white wedding, baby shower, bridal showers etc So when you say "it is expected that a man kneels to propose marriage to a woman", I seriously wonder who expects this. Definitely not me. A woman also doesn't propose to a man because she is the one that is going be married into a family, not the other way round. |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by snowblaq(f): 8:58pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
bluefilm: Am I surprised? ...na dem!!! ..... |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Promomarlie: 9:02pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
sharone21: If GOD blessed men with the power to carry children, I'll carry 6 with joy am happy you're talking from your mind set... You're pointlessly beating around the bush, it's better you continue sitting on your fence |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by larryking540: 9:08pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
ndcide: Women are always know to cross boundaries when u give them an inch They them selfs are fully aware of that it's just an in born trait. .. If u know you are cool and okay with it for your authority to be questioned or u are ready to share your position as a man with a woman ,no problem ,but I just pray your kids don't grow up to see u as a weak man who has his authority been questioned in the house , becus of I want my wife to take care of some responsibility ,... If you still don't understand,it's okay , every one with what he or she wants in life ..some men are cool been insulted by a lady while some aren't cool with it Make she use her church mind or Muslim mind do the responsibility to assist you don't ever voice it out ,debt that is waiting for you at the front,you will wish u never made such a statement |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by lovaleenny(f): 9:08pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Promomarlie: E dey sweet to yarn dust carry 6 my ass!!!have you even felt 45 del of pain before. “A human body can bear only up to 45 “DEL” (unit) of pain." “A mother feels up to 57 DEL of pain while giving birth which is equal to 20 bones getting fractured.” |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Promomarlie: 9:08pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
walexbiz: I stand with you fully 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by PreetyAngel4U: 9:08pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
GoodBoi1: She has to. To go and think if it is worth it. To decide if she has enough money left for those bills. To avoid reigning insults or saying things she might regret. Probably why she doesn't want to pick his calls. |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by nwakibe: 9:15pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
My friend just asked his wife to lend him some money to add to the one he has in preparation for their white wedding. That's after he personally sponsored the traditional wedding o. She gave him 300k. Up till now he has not given her the money. Each time she brought up the issue, He will tell her that he will pay. Both of them will laugh it off. The issue is gradually dieing a natural death. You should have used the same method. |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by ndcide(m): 9:16pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
larryking540: I thought women are helpers. Woman she go question your authority go do am, even if you provide 100% |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by larryking540: 9:25pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
ndcide: Yeah ,they are but you don't give them a responsibility ,make they use their mind talk say don't worry I will do dis ,or I will buy the wedding cloths or fill the gas or take care light bill That's y you don't just see a beautiful lady and quickly take her to church for wedding bro na green snake wake go send you to early grace most times we day carry .... There are is also probability that the girl you meet over night and take to the alter might also be good but the chances are very very slim... Take your time to date her well enough that she can confidently tell u "I know they never pay you salary ,don't worry I will take of kids school fees or choices .....Don't impose it on her When you have nothing to loss in a relationship it becomes dangerous ...and that type of relationship is the one that doesn't involve enough courtship .....she didn't invest her time or energy before saying I do ,,,like wise the door is very very open for her to japa 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by TemmyT002(m): 9:26pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Brazenbabe: TRASH in capital letters |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Toks2008(m): 9:38pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
joey150: And where in the bible was church wedding mentioned. Bro abeg let it pass. G night 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by akaahs(m): 9:38pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:Smart babe but I bet you, u don't have the balls to do that |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 9:45pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
akaahs:why? |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 9:48pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Brazenbabe: This one is not a home bill. It is a bill for the wife's extravagance. If she wants big wedding, she should pay for it. Most men consider it a gross waste of funds. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Gokoyer0(m): 9:58pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
You are on point, sir. Annoying as well. creolehunt: |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Gokoyer0(m): 10:04pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Nice one. 12inchess: |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by galadima77(m): 10:04pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Ishilove: Damn it, your savagery join body come 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by galadima77(m): 10:06pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Ishilove: Which one come be your own? |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Sarah20A(f): 10:13pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Belafonte:brother you need jesus more than Sylvester |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by dominique(f): 10:34pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
bukatyne: I know the bride's family sponsors a large chunk of the wedding amongst the Yorubas but poverty has done a number on some people that they now shed the responsibility on the groom and his family. Now for ordinary intro, the lady will request for money from the man to host him and his family. I don't know of I should blame poverty or entitlement mentality for this 1 Like 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by ebby9z(m): 10:53pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Women scream they want equal pay and now they get it. But not equal expenses. But it's that man they want equal pay with that must die of debt. If they don't want to be shouldering responsibilities, then why are they earning same as the man who's to shoulder responsibilities. Men can never have it fair donstan18: |
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