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Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Nobody: 9:17am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Belafonte:you are a dunce. When did I say I have an issue with a man or woman leading?my stance has always being that who leads is the couples mutual decision,it doesn't concern me. If the woman wants to lead,fine,if the man wants to lead,fine....as long both are comfy with it and they are treated with love,care and respect. |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Belafonte(m): 9:54am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Michellekabod2: Your stance is irrelevant to the fact that you think the patriarchy is wrong. If you truly believe couples should do what they want you’d show respect to all possible decisions You’re an intellectual rabbit. Picking and choosing what you find convenient, when you find it convenient. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Nobody: 11:02am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Belafonte:my stance still remains that you are a m0r0n As I feminist, I am against female oppression (infact oppression of any human) and subjugation, how husband's and wives run their homes is not my business. Let women have rights as men(go to school,take part in politics, equal work pay etc),anything aside that such as how couples live in their matrimonial home doesn't concern me. I love chivalry from men and I love femininity from women. I love Masculinity and I love femininity. People should be free to decide how they want to live and roles to play in their own marriage. Your pitiful self can't provide proof where I had a problem with a woman or man leading the home. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by budaatum: 11:05am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:Karma is not "threat and curses". We all reap whatever we sow. And I thought you might like being advised to not create false images of buda like we small knowledge religious folks often do with our Gods. |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Omar09(m): 11:08am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Belafonte: Word! 2 Likes |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Nobody: 11:46am On Feb 08, 2020 |
budaatum:lol... |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by budaatum: 12:04pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
ZIMDRILL:Useless good for nothing "type of women and men" you mean, the sorts we all pray we never have in our homes. A man who marries a seat at home woman is like a person tying one hand behind his back because he does not want to use two hands. A woman who wants to seat at home is a slave (hope you note the irony), who would be replaced once the man has done with her. And smart intelligent people would curse themselves with neither! |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by budaatum: 12:15pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Belafonte:Have you not heard of meeting halfway, where we both contribute to the bills? You should read up more about about patriarchy. [url=https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Purple_Hibiscus_%28novel%29?wprov=sfla1]Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie[/url] wrote a fantastic book explaining what it can be in a family unit. And there's lots out there about how it destroys society, examples being ₦50 olosho and the need to feed herslf with her tits.
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Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by crackkhaus: 12:32pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Belafonte: This should be framed and hung up in the National Assembly if possible. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by bukatyne(f): 12:41pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Belafonte: crackkhaus: Then what happens when the bill paying man loses his source of income and the wife steps into his shoes? They start matriachy in the family? Or the man still wants to claim been the head while he can't foot the bills when money was what defined his status in the relationship? I like this type of thoughts and life has a way of turning round. With the above, Nairaland males should stop whinning when they lose earning power and their wives no longer want to reckon with them. That will be now be 'having your cake and eating it.' 2 Likes |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by crackkhaus: 1:13pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
bukatyne:You're asking questions pretending as if women don't already misbehave once they start paying ALL the bills in the house. Was it not on this same section someone asked his wife to pay her own children's fees, and he received the insult of his life? What about the one that was considering running away to live with his mother after he lost money? Or just yesterday, one asked his fiancée to purchase her own wedding gown, what she will wear on her own body, and she's not picking his call again? See ehn, any man that loses his financial standing and is unfortunate enough to be married to a woman who will start bossing him around, he better avoid her as much as he can and make sure he is trying very hard to get his finances back in order...not forming head of house all over the place. He should even temporarily move away for a while on his own accord, if it comes to that. The only woman who will take care of a grown man who is not contributing a dime without complaining after sometime, is his own mother - there's no Nigerian wife or girlfriend like that.. You can quote me anywhere, I will defend my statement. NONE whatsoever! Sometimes when I see women wondering why a lot of men don't joke with their mothers, I am always beside myself with laughter - they must be blind or stvpid, or both. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Belafonte(m): 4:38pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
bukatyne: I am old enough to know that the man immediately loses his respect. He is head in nothing but name and title. Every idiot knows that women only respect money. How many times have men on here been advised to forget women and go make money so they can qualify for a woman’s love? Have you yourself not read it, at least, twenty times on nairaland? Forget all this scaremongering, we done wise. We sabi as e dey go. Men must make money or suffer disrespect. Shikena 2 Likes |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Belafonte(m): 4:43pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
budaatum: There is no such thing as meeting halfway. Do feminist women not desire and even expect their men to buy expensive rings to commemorate and engagement? Do they not expect the man to use his muscle and brawn in protecting them and defending their lives when it comes down to it? Are men still not expected to be men? If such dichotomies exist, I’m sorry there’s no such thing as 50-50. |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Belafonte(m): 4:48pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Michellekabod2: The Bible said the fool thinks himself wise. In light, of Solomon’s wisdom your opinion is irrelevant. Just because you think something doesn’t make it the truth. However, you are a sophist or, at best, a chaparral feminist. The mere mention of your belief in chivalry puts you as a fraud or again, at best, an ignoramus of the most sinister order. Your beliefs and the feminist you claim to be are naturally at variance. In the words of Frank Underwood, “you want a man to be an equal when it suits you and you want a man to take charge when it suits you.” Madam, you are a lying, manipulative dingbat. 1 Like |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Belafonte(m): 4:50pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
crackkhaus: For real bro . The wenches think they’re smart. |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Belafonte(m): 4:58pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Gbayi 1 Like |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Nobody: 5:08pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Belafonte:All you put up are a pile of horse p00(just as you are) Don't quote scriptures for me,am an atheist. By the way,the scripture applies to your pitiful self. Now let me lecture your airhead, feminism doesn't have anything to do with eschewing masculinity or femininity ,it creates a system where men and women can enjoy rights despite having a penis or vagina. I don't have to be a misandrist before am a feminist. Now listen to me oaf, you are in no position to determine how couples live their lives,neither am I. Don't shove principles from a fictional book down the throats of all humans,you can apply it to the worthless cadaver you call your life but not others. One more thing M0r0n, what makes you feel Frank underwood quote applies to me? Did I tell you I abscond from responsibilities? Now scurry into the rabbit hole you wriggled out from with your tail between your legs like the dum.b coward that you are. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Nobody: 5:12pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Beautifully written post. Riele jaubdu pocohantas |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by ogawisdom(m): 5:38pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
adexpa: Nonsense write up The Bible is the reference point Man is the provider but women the helper so it could be 70 : 30 Times have changed we are not living in 1905 This is 2020 any woman who does not have a source of income which she will use to contribute in supporting her home should not think of marriage. The man will only lead in shouldering responsibilities. Women are just naturally selfish that's why most of them see their money as theirs and the man's money as ours. Rubbish. If we both work and earn then home expenses is our joint responsibility I will only handle more as the man chikena 1 Like |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by crackkhaus: 5:51pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Belafonte:I used to think the text in bold was common knowledge too, until I realized there are some men who exist permanently on a unique spectrum of idiocy which is responsible for making them believe there is still an angel of a woman out there, the kind of woman that will cater to their whims and financial needs with gleefulnes and joy peradventure their fortunes dwindle. Some idiots are yet to wake up bro, still in sleep mode. 1 Like |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by crackkhaus: 5:56pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Belafonte:Lmao 100% |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Belafonte(m): 6:13pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Dem go wake up by force. Person wey oversleep go still wake up whether for this side or for the other side. |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Belafonte(m): 6:14pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Bruh, I never see dis kain tin before. Dem wan keep one leg for patriarchy and the other for feminism. Even giraffes will have a hard time doing that. 1 Like |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by crackkhaus: 6:23pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Belafonte:I asked one yesterday if the intense stretching does not pain them in their yansh - one leg in 1780 and the other in 2020. Lol 1 Like |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by crackkhaus: 6:23pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Belafonte: |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Belafonte(m): 7:37pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Lol. I saw your poser. Got a good chuckle out of me. But I suspect you’re just a misogynist. Everybody knows real men always please their women |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by pocohantas(f): 10:26pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
I don't care if he labours till he drops dead, because he wants to retain his alfa-male-ship. In fact, such men were put on this earth to make life easier for women and every smart woman should use them for that. Fûck equal rights, activate your feminine wiles, submit and USE them. 8 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by crackkhaus: 12:20pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Belafonte:Music to my ears, lol.. |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Omar09(m): 12:39pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Belafonte: Yup. I suspected that line. Have you actually seen a real man, and if you have, what is your qualification of a real man? |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:40pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
crackkhaus:.. Exactly. |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by crackkhaus: 1:25pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Omar09:Lol, sarcasm it was. |
Re: Man Must Take All Financial Responsibilities In Their Marriage by Belafonte(m): 1:52pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Hehehe |
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