₦airaland Forum

Blu03:
why do i feel like a duff?

Pat081:
ole , thief if they invite u to Reception na ur voice go dey go high that u never see food on ur table since and u come from far place ooo

danigbo:
I was at the wedding and it was wonderful.

Froshloaded:
A duff??

Blu03:
wrong word. More like groundnut after a hangover.

Froshloaded:
Don't invite me to your party if its gonna be like this
BTW
This wife get nose oo

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Froshloaded:

I don't understand oo Anyways, how is your day going??

Blyzz:
Yeah, easy and stress free. At a time I aid I'll only do traditional marriage, but as I see this one so. I think it a welcome step!

KingSatan:



If she is from the South South, South West and South East and her only proof of education is a university degree, please forget it.


The way those regions are going about marriage and marital rites, I fear for the future.


Just as Imo State, most especially Owerri ladies are living with a stereotype now.

You see their ladies, old and unmarried. Better still, they switch to cohabition[b][/b][/size][size=8pt][/size][size=8pt][/size][size=8pt]. All because of cultural modifications.

Parents see their female children as goods to be sold to the highest bidder.

Ever wonder why parents in those regions give their children out to ritualists (Don wanny the militant), kidnappers (Evans the kidnapper), armed robbers (EMONEY the armed robber) without hesitation?

You cannot find that in the North.

PS I am not a Northerner but living with them for over a decade, I see that they have utmost respect for their marital institution.

Aboki can marry without having so much money. As long as he has a verifiable means of income.

On the day of Nikah, the bride's parents will settle her according to their financial strength. The Nikah is all about the young lady. Infact most of the expenses are footed by her parents. They celebrate her for finding a man and settle her to go build her family.

The most annoying thing is couples living separately and still making reference to their union as "fiancee's" despite being married traditionally.

This is very bad and condemnable

Blu03:
its not that important.
Its great, yours?

GOVERNMENTBOY20:
I admire your succinct descriptive approach

Notasaints:
The bride's teeth tho.

starbuck:
As shared by Father Kelvin Ugwu:



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2676569419126096&id=2149201088529601

Or11:
What's that on the brides face? Is that a nose or a finger?

starbuck:
As shared by Father Kelvin Ugwu:



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2676569419126096&id=2149201088529601

starbuck:
As shared by Father Kelvin Ugwu:



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2676569419126096&id=2149201088529601

KingSatan:
Humans are extremists but this is where culture, education and civilization plays a big role.

The woman without "Formal" education stays married because she has been groomed and tutored from a young age about the institution of Marriage. She knows her fate from a young age and has been trained by her parents and community on her to get married and stay married.

For women stabbing their husbands, sometimes it's due to forced marriage or loveless marriages. I have also seen one as a result of jealousy. The woman knows that in islam, the man can marry more than one wife. But she felt she has him all to herself. So when she discovered that he was habouring thoughts of bringing another wife, she confronted him and during that process, she stabbed him. This scenario can happen anywhere mind you. No woman wants to share her man.


For the marriage to cultists, Yahoo boys, kidnappers etc.

Please read up about DON WANNY AND HIS BEAUTIFUL BRIDE.

ALSO READ UP ABOUT EMONEY THE KIDNAPPER WHO WAS KILLED AND HIS WEDDING CARDS DISCOVERED IN THE TRUNK OF HIS CAR.

cRobo:
You definitely don't know me a bit

safarigirl:
the guy that said reception is meant for kids, did he respect people's choice? Or what did he mean by such statement?

You should have quoted him first, if you are so concerned with respecting other people's choices. Na the one wey hit you, you go see

Reception is for people that can afford it and people who want it, not for kids. There is no shame in it

Froshloaded:
Don't invite me to your party if its gonna be like this
BTW
This wife get nose oo

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ivolt:
If you followed your own advice, you won't call other people kids for
choosing differently.

Pat081:
yes now, person that will ask for food in party this what he or she will say too

toprealman:
Congrats to your future husband......I'm sure yours must be held in Jupiter, cos the earth will be too cheap for your grand reception I suppose.