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I'd like to ask if this is true or Nigerians are just been too religious.. and does it really matter where the couple have their first night after wedding..

Where is the appropriate place to spend the first night?

Dear newly married couples... Stop going to hotels to spend your first night with each other... The same bed hired by some men to sleep with prostitutes is where you lay your marital alter... Its not just wrong, its stupid.
Even if you have one room, sleep with your wife in your one room. Sex is spiritual. Don't mess up your "foundation" (Over sabi people will now say
I'm being religious... I'm being spiritual dear)
ARE WE TOGETHER?...

Interesting topic.

This is redundant.

You people need to stop this meddling all the time. It's highly disrespectful of other people's rights when you behave as if you assume they dont have brains.

The best ideal place to spend your first night after wedding is SAMBISA forest.

Go through this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/3841271/wedding-night-house-hotel-which

Which one is marital alter again? Y’all keep coming up with new sh.t everyday

Your "matrimonial altar" is where ever you and your spouse are intimate.

Let me ask. If you move to another house in another state, what happens to your "altar"?

It's like it's a crime for Nigerians to mind their business.small time they will say if you use black pot to cook it will cause your marriage to break

That's how they keep focusing on small, irrelevant matters, while the real marriage stares at them in the face.

Anywhere I choose to sleep is my altar. Crowd mentality will never give you peace and contentment. Design your game, set the rules, play the game ALONE and ensure you ALWAYS win.

LewsTherin:
Your "matrimonial altar" is where ever you and your spouse are intimate.

Let me ask. If you move to another house in another state, what happens to your "altar"?

Hotel is actually meant for the right purpose but children of this world have spoil it plz don't just see hotel with your physical eyes. Hotel is more spiritual than you think.
Many spirit are associated with hotel,negative spirit.

SimSify:
Hotel is actually meant for the right purpose but children of this world have spoil it plz don't just see hotel with your physical eyes. Hotel is more spiritual than you think.
Many spirit are associated with hotel,negative spirit.

All well and good. So if you travel far on business or something, would you avoid staying in hotels because of the "many negative spirits"?