proO1:

I don't understand this question. All the female loud-mouths who shout about equality in marriage should rather answer the reverse question: Should a Man marry a Lady who is Jobless? I'm sure most people wouldn't see the big deal in that. . . "as long as he loves her". In fact that question would even be seen as ridiculous and needless. Double-standards, right? Go figure.

dayokanu:

So you sef see am?

wassolldas:

no

proO1:

I don't understand this question. All the female loud-mouths who shout about equality in marriage should rather answer the reverse question: Should a Man marry a Lady who is Jobless? I'm sure most people wouldn't see the big deal in that. . . "as long as he loves her". In fact that question would even be seen as ridiculous and needless. Double-standards, right? Go figure.

MAYOWAAK:

Correct me if I am wrong,marriage should not be a priority of a jobless man.

obowunmi:

well said my brother. How wife go take respect am ? No money, no respect.

jennykadry:

you don kolo finish. LMAO @ the one minute silence

Shinatu:


Will the man be ready to take up the role a jobless woman married to a working man wouldnaturaly  take?
Noooooooo! I do not see that happening in this part of the world, she is expected to bring the dough and and still do all the supposedly 'woman' duties
or she becomes a bad wife lording it over her husband
Who you wan kill?   

tatiana009:


Thank you very much my sister, women don't mind being the breadwinner but a lot of men have complex and very soon everything will become is it because you payed for this and that. As long as both parties are comfortable with it its fine but its important to make sure that the man is comfortable with the situation and won't become resentful and the woman should do her best not to lord it over him. It takes grace

busybody20:

If Story story go pay house rent, food, nepa bills, transport fees, school fees etc Why not

proO1:

Well I have to concede that you're both right; a man is nothing without his ego. But the point I was trying to make was that most women like to have their cake and eat it too. Since it is ok to marry a gainfully employed and well-to-do man, then it should be okay to 'submit' to him as the 'head' in the marriage, rather than talk about equality and 50-50 and all that poo that hypocritical feminists often shout about. That's that. Anyways.

To be honest I would rather die a bachelor than enter into marriage without any source of good income. Women will always be women. No matter how 'good' or 'holy' she claims to be, she will definitely disrespect her husband if she's the breadwinner. Worse is that she would expose his[b] 'uselessness' [/b] to all her close friends, sisters, cousins, colleagues, etc. . .making the husband a butt of jokes on account of his supposed 'laziness' (women always equate a man's poverty or unemplyment with laziness). A man is better off dead than putting up with a wife who pays his bills. 

It is not by force to marry. If a man doesn't have up to a certain threshold of regular income or stashed up money, then he should not even contemplate marriage. This is unnegotiable.

Funny thing is that it is even better for a jobless man to marry a jobless woman rather than a woman who earns an income - at least they are better off living on charity. If they are both jobless, at least their mutual joblessness would be a common denominator (lol), and the wife would not disrespect him as much as she would if she were the one paying the bills. It is better for both of them (and the kids, if any) to happily die of hunger (lol), than for the wife to provide food out of her own earnings. You may call this viewpoint extreme, but I tell you it is preferable. A woman who pays the bills and puts food on a man's table would be worse than Lucifer on the day she suffers a 'brain-touch'. She would fling her husband's boxers and singlets out of the window, leaving him unclothed, and daclare with fire in her nostrils - "afterall, I bought every single thing in this house including your boxers" For real.

dayokanu:

Is the wife disabled? or cant she pay for those items?

ifyalways:

Hmmn.
She can ofcourse but I hope the man is ready to change diapers and make amala . . .