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. by cutegentility(m): 8:07pm On Feb 12, 2020
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Re: . by Bilabong(m): 8:09pm On Feb 12, 2020
Borrow u sense ke....


Pick that one for gutter o.

Pride keeee u there....

Modified:

Ok give us her email let's beg for u.

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Re: . by Vyolet(f): 8:33pm On Feb 12, 2020
Keep begging her, post her pictures all over the internet and recruit people to beg her on your behalf.
Thank me later.

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Re: . by cutegentility(m): 8:34pm On Feb 12, 2020
Bilabong:
Borrow u sense ke....


Pick that one for gutter o.

Pride keeee u there
Oga no vex. I just wan pick some catchy title. I don re-edit the stuff. Advise a brother
grin
Re: . by cutegentility(m): 8:40pm On Feb 12, 2020
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Re: . by yeyeosoronga: 8:44pm On Feb 12, 2020
Move on with your life, and let her be.
She's given up on you, so let it go.

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Re: . by cutegentility(m): 8:47pm On Feb 12, 2020
yeyeosoronga:
Move on with your life, and let her be.
She's given up on you, so let it go.
Thanks a lot sis.
Re: . by Phenomenal16(f): 9:27pm On Feb 12, 2020
cutegentility:
I had this friend and we are both coders. She is into back end technology while I'm into front end development. We happened to meet at the same group but we are of different country. She is based in the UK while I'm a Nigerian. We have been having conversations for close to 5 months but there is a kind of disagreement in the group which made me to accuse her because I felt she was wrong.
I exited the group - but she still come to me, trying to explain things to me but my excessive anger made me to loose my sanity.

In short, we stop communication. At the end of the day; she was innocent but the deeds are done. She blocked me because I never listened to her explanations and she really felt hurt.

I try to reconcile but all to no avail. I called her line, it seems she added my number to voice mail. I mail and text her some apology letter but no response from her.

What should I do? Should I keep apologizing or I should move on with life?

Please advise a brother!!!!!
..m very happy for her
She escaped a tym bomb

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Re: . by Foodqueen(f): 9:51pm On Feb 12, 2020
Give it time.

If it was genuine friendship, u will both find yourselves back again.

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Re: . by Bola146(f): 10:06pm On Feb 12, 2020
Foodqueen:
Give it time.

If it was genuine friendship, u will both find yourselves back again.

Exactly, maybe he did something bad to her that he is hiding from us, well she might come back to her senses one day.
Re: . by BRATISLAVA: 2:00am On Feb 13, 2020
cutegentility:
I had this friend and we are both coders. She is into back end technology while I'm into front end development. We happened to meet at the same group but we are of different country. She is based in the UK while I'm a Nigerian. We have been having conversations for close to 5 months but there is a kind of disagreement in the group which made me to accuse her because I felt she was wrong.
I exited the group - but she still come to me, trying to explain things to me but my excessive anger made me to loose my sanity.

In short, we stop communication. At the end of the day; she was innocent but the deeds are done. She blocked me because I never listened to her explanations and she really felt hurt.

I try to reconcile but all to no avail. I called her line, it seems she added my number to voice mail. I mail and text her some apology letter but no response from her.

What should I do? Should I keep apologizing or I should move on with life?

Please advise a brother!!!!!
u sounds exactly lyk 1 man hu is so lonely. R u lonely or is it d tot of Visa n futur travels dat is worry u?

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Re: . by cutegentility(m): 2:19am On Feb 13, 2020
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Re: . by cutegentility(m): 2:22am On Feb 13, 2020
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Re: . by cutegentility(m): 2:23am On Feb 13, 2020
Foodqueen:
Give it time.

If it was genuine friendship, u will both find yourselves back again.
Thanks a lot, Sister.
Re: . by asapeola(m): 2:36am On Feb 13, 2020
cutegentility:

Lol, I'm not lonely at all.
Lol c as guyman dodge the other question! Ur worried cos u feel u just lost a ticket to the UK

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Re: . by cutegentility(m): 2:42am On Feb 13, 2020
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Re: . by Nobody: 4:19am On Feb 13, 2020
An apology is enough. She is going to come back, give her time, I believe. Next time don't screw up when she does come around. Control your emotions better.
Re: . by Kenoxman(m): 5:27am On Feb 13, 2020
We all make mistakes in life. And u have done the honourable thing by apologizing. Her being uptight is her biz. Move on with ur life. Stop the endless apology cos that makes u needy, desperate and irritating. I bet u one day she would turn around and apologize for being uptight. What is so special about her by the way? Stop making ppl feel more imporant than they really are. Forget that lady.
Re: . by cutegentility(m): 6:37am On Feb 13, 2020
justnock:
An apology is enough. She is going to come back, give her time, I believe. Next time don't screw up when she does come around. Control your emotions better.
Thanks a lot brother.
Re: . by cutegentility(m): 6:38am On Feb 13, 2020
Kenoxman:
We all make mistakes in life. And u have done the honourable thing by apologizing. Her being uptight is her biz. Move on with ur life. Stop the endless apology cos that makes u needy, desperate and irritating. I bet u one day she would turn around and apologize for being uptight. What is so special about her by the way? Stop making ppl feel more imporant than they really are. Forget that lady.
Thanks a lot bros.
Re: . by cutegentility(m): 6:42am On Feb 13, 2020
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Re: . by Nobody: 6:49am On Feb 13, 2020
cutegentility:
I had this friend and we are both coders. She is into back end technology while I'm into front end development. We happened to meet at the same group but we are of different country. She is based in the UK while I'm a Nigerian. We have been having conversations for close to 5 months but there is a kind of disagreement in the group which made me to accuse her because I felt she was wrong.
I exited the group - but she still come to me, trying to explain things to me but my excessive anger made me to loose my sanity.

In short, we stop communication. At the end of the day; she was innocent but the deeds are done. She blocked me because I never listened to her explanations and she really felt hurt.

I try to reconcile but all to no avail. I called her line, it seems she added my number to voice mail. I mail and text her some apology letter but no response from her.

What should I do? Should I keep apologizing or I should move on with life?

Please advise a brother!!!!!
excessive anger? Lolz. Anger lies in the bosom of a fool. I hope that your anger will not make you kill someone someday! You need to learn anger management first. When it comes to matters that makes you angry, take it with a pinch of salt, smile and look away. For your friend, leave her alone! first you accuse, she came to you to explain and you blasted her off again, haba!! Just forget it and let it slide, I believe you've learnt your lesson, a simple anger can spoil one's blessings, just don't let it happen again.

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Re: . by Kenoxman(m): 7:20am On Feb 13, 2020
cutegentility:

Thanks you for reply. It really helps a lot.
U are welcome. If it's possible, get back as member of that group. Apologize to them and carry on with the biz of the group without seeking for her attention. If she engages u, flow like nothing really happened. U need to take control of ur emotions. That's how real men do. Allow things to play out naturally, don't force things to happen.
Re: . by cutegentility(m): 7:26am On Feb 13, 2020
Tosinex:
excessive anger? Lolz. Anger lies in the bosom of a fool. I hope that your anger will not make you kill someone someday! You need to learn anger management first. When it comes to matters that makes you angry, take it with a pinch of salt, smile and look away. For your friend, leave her alone! first you accuse, she came to you to explain and you blasted her off again, haba!! Just forget it and let it slide, I believe you've learnt your lesson, a simple anger can spoil one's blessings, just don't let it happen again.
Thanks bros
Re: . by cutegentility(m): 7:27am On Feb 13, 2020
Kenoxman:
U are welcome. If it's possible, get back as member of that group. Apologize to them and carry on with the biz of the group without seeking for her attention. If she engages u, flow like nothing really happened. U need to take control of ur emotions. That's how real men do. Allow things to play out naturally, don't force things to happen.
alright bros

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Re: . by proclinician: 8:04am On Feb 13, 2020
You're based in naija de do like this. If you enter u.s nko anybody way call ur line go die

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Re: . by wickyyolo: 10:03am On Feb 15, 2020
cutegentility:

Thanks a lot bros.

When you break your relationship with a woman don’t ever get back with her.
Even if your friends she will hurt you.
Discard and forget her. God punish her
Re: . by Nobody: 10:35am On Feb 15, 2020
Vyolet:
Keep begging her, post her pictures all over the internet and recruit people to beg her on your behalf.
Thank me later.
Bad idea. All over internet? I can't believe it. Not everyone will appreciate that internet movie scene kind of idea.
@op, send her messages once in a while but give her time to take decision either to come back or move on.
But wait a minute, what kind of anger wouldn't allow you to listen to your friend explaination? Sounds scary

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Re: . by Nobody: 11:18am On Feb 15, 2020
Leave her alone. Your number is going straight to voice mail because she has put it on reject or no longer wishes to talk to you. Work on your explosive anger and next time don't accuse someone when they're innocent.
Re: . by Nobody: 11:43am On Feb 15, 2020
Tosinex:
excessive anger? Lolz. Anger lies in the bosom of a fool. I hope that your anger will not make you kill someone someday! You need to learn anger management first. When it comes to matters that makes you angry, take it with a pinch of salt, smile and look away. For your friend, leave her alone! [b]first you accuse, she came to you to explain and you blasted her off again, haba!! [/b]Just forget it and let it slide, I believe you've learnt your lesson, a simple anger can spoil one's blessings, just don't let it happen again.
Can you imagine. Somebody he didn't know from before, who did nothing wrong, he was just exploding at for no reason. Now that she's blocked his number like she should have done his eyes have cleared.

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Re: . by Vyolet(f): 12:24pm On Feb 15, 2020
Expensiverichyb:
Bad idea. All over internet? I can't believe it. Not everyone will appreciate that internet movie scene kind of idea.
@op, send her messages once in a while but give her time to take decision either to come back or move on.
But wait a minute, what kind of anger wouldn't allow you to listen to your friend explaination? Sounds scary
I'm only being sarcastic.
Re: . by Originalsly: 1:13pm On Feb 15, 2020
cutegentility:


Thanks a lot brother, I'm cool headed guy but I don't just understand what had gone over me on that day.


Snapped.... people do that often....they lose it for little or no reason... many kill... even their own family members. If you snap over disagreement with someone you don't personally know... someone not even physically present... what would prevent you from snapping if in another disagreement with someone present? What will you do?... would you react violently?... this you don't know. Like someone said....you are a time bomb. You need to work on yourself... and that's a project.
Let me ask.... think well before answering..... if she were a guy... would your reaction be the same? I ask because I suspect you are one of those Red Pill followers.... where subconsciously it is an insult... an abomination to be challenged mentally by a woman.... she failed to submit to your pronouncement and that caused you to be blinded by fury. Maybe? Work on yourself bro.... forget about her... she wants no part of you.... in her books.... you are a time bomb.

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