A lady ones told me to give up alcohol as a condition to date her.I had to weigh my options&gave up dating her sighting more conditions from her in future. Who has also been in such a situation before?&what was the condition he/she gave you?

She should go to hell

Drinking or smoking isn't ideal but not a yardstick for a girl to condition a guy

He can change the guy with time

favoryte33:
A lady ones told me to give up alcohol as a condition to date her.I had to weigh my options&gave up dating her sighting more conditions from her in future. Who has also been in such a situation before?&what was the condition he/she gave you?

I believe you are not mature enough for dating or relationship. Kindly leave the girl alone.

When a person wants to be your friend but there are things you don't like about the person, don't you give conditions too?

It is sad that many of you enter relationships without having a clue how to be committed to anyone, everything is just sex sex sex to you people.

Guy go and read books on relationship if you want to have peace and if you want a good future. Go and prepare else you will have many heart breaks and break many hearts.

Did school not teach you to LOOk before you LEAP?

Love is unconditional...won't accept any.

Ladylite:


I believe you are not mature enough for dating or relationship. Kindly leave the girl alone.

When a person wants to be your friend but there are things you don't like about the person, don't you give conditions too?

It is sad that many of you enter relationships without having a clue how to be committed to anyone, everything is just sex sex sex to you people.

Guy go and read books on relationship if you want to have peace and if you want a good future. Go and prepare else you will have many heart breaks and break many hearts.

Did school not teach you to LOOk before you LEAP?

What a sad sad reply. Simple question, should conditions for dating be accepted? No. It doesn't matter the gender. I wouldn't ask a girl to date anyone who gives her conditions. Everything doesn't have to be looked at from a feminist view.

If it affects him negatively, i'll accept his conditions.

I prefer to define the relationship from the start.
I don't smoke, you do. Fine! But try not to do it when i'm around. Cos of my health.
Same way a man must respect my privacy and family.

cRobo:
She should go to hell

Drinking or smoking isn't ideal but not a yardstick for a girl to condition a guy

He can change the guy with time

That's to you, obviously not to the lady in question

I think it's a good condition

There's really nothing wrong in what both of you did. She can't tolerate stuff. She told u. U can't take conditions. You left her. Dating should be about compatibility and ability to accommodate. If those aren't there then it's best to walk away. It doesn't make you bad or make her controlling. Like you said, if you agree she could make more demands later and you'd end up being the woman. Or it could just be your bad habits. And you being the dominant male you are can't take such. It's best u go your separate ways and find people you are compatible with.
You've placed your habits above being with her. She's placed being with you less important than your habits.

cRobo:
She should go to hell

Drinking or smoking isn't ideal but not a yardstick for a girl to condition a guy

He can change the guy with time

Nope she can't only the guy can change himself.