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What's Should The Man Do? True Life Story by lavylilly: 8:51pm On Feb 17, 2020
Its a true life story. I will like opinions.

A Christian couple married for about 8yrs without issues (children) suddenly had a shake up..
The wife's family arranged a "loaded" Nigerian guy from a Rich family who is in his 50s but a divorcee with 6-kids for their daughter who is already married.
(Although foul-play is suspected here, especially with the speed at which the wife succumbed within days to comply)

One day, wife tells her husband the marriage is over and that they aren't better than EACH OTHER. Husband doesn't take it funny,. He cries and begs but for where Madam no hear ooo. He resorted into counselling and prayers. Her statement was still a NO. Now the lover-man has never seen the arranged wife physically before but via online pictures she posted. A love or lust tango stated. They shared pictures of food cooked, dresses made etc for weeks.
Madam told her husband that she's moving out but ironically she's still leaving with her husband. Collecting feeding money, etc.

Lover-man will soon arrive from abroad and where will he stay? Madam went and withdrew thousands of naira to rent a flat worth over 500k, went for an e-passport, packed her things down getting ready to move out.
She's still with her hubby but has stopped her matrimonial duties except cooking his dishes. He told hubby one day that reason why she hasn't left yet is because she hasn't made up her mind yet.

Hubby works in a bank earns about 70k monthly

Wife works in a private firm earning about 200k with many pecks attached.

My question is what should the guy do?
Re: What's Should The Man Do? True Life Story by healthserve(m): 8:54pm On Feb 17, 2020
RKelly sang a song. " When a woman's fed up "

When a woman has made her mind, only caalmity or God can change it

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Re: What's Should The Man Do? True Life Story by StPete: 9:24pm On Feb 17, 2020
With plenty women roaming the street looking for love, the husband shoulda moved on a long time ago.

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Re: What's Should The Man Do? True Life Story by LadySarah: 10:38pm On Feb 17, 2020
Why bring in how much they earn?
Sad as the situation maybe the guy gotta move on I mean men have been doing it for long and women praying..

Has her husband asked her why she is doing it?

I feel for him though cos it seems he loves her alot.

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Re: What's Should The Man Do? True Life Story by Lamanii22(f): 11:22pm On Feb 17, 2020
healthserve:
RKelly sang a song. " When a woman's fed up "


There ain't nothing you can do about it.. And it is too late to talk about it... Lol
Re: What's Should The Man Do? True Life Story by misreal(m): 11:26pm On Feb 17, 2020
Now the man has to move on....since they dont have a child yet, he has almost nothing to lose.
Re: What's Should The Man Do? True Life Story by healthserve(m): 2:27am On Feb 18, 2020
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Re: What's Should The Man Do? True Life Story by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:13am On Feb 18, 2020

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Re: What's Should The Man Do? True Life Story by Foodqueen(f): 6:07am On Feb 18, 2020
Incomplete story.

Place do a proper follow up, I need to know how it will end.
Re: What's Should The Man Do? True Life Story by Foodqueen(f): 6:07am On Feb 18, 2020
Incomplete story.

Pls do a proper follow up, I need to know how it will end.
Re: What's Should The Man Do? True Life Story by Vyolet(f): 8:30am On Feb 18, 2020
He should move on too, he will find another woman, unless he is the problem .

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Re: What's Should The Man Do? True Life Story by lavylilly: 10:20am On Feb 18, 2020
undecided
Foodqueen:
Incomplete story.

Place do a proper follow up, I need to know how it will end.
Re: What's Should The Man Do? True Life Story by Greatzeus(m): 11:47am On Feb 18, 2020
Hmmm true life no ni undecided no be Nairaland again?

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Re: What's Should The Man Do? True Life Story by Barzinime(m): 1:53pm On Feb 18, 2020
grin grin grin grin
Greatzeus:
Hmmm true life no ni undecided no be Nairaland again?

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