₦airaland Forum

IamD18:
[s]An unmarried pregnant lady is to blamed for getting pregnant because it's her BODY. No reasonable man should be held responsible for financial contributions to it.

When you contest on the decision of ladies keeping a pregnancy, they'll say it's their body and will do whatever deem fit with it.

When you want them to keep it, they can decide to abort it because it's their body and they can do whatever that pleases them with it.


Why then do they find it difficult to take all the blames when pregnant because it's their body?

Abi na men body when things begin hard?[/s]

ImaIma1:
Why would a woman open her legs and allow someone have unprotected sex with her. Is he her husband?

Why should a lady try to pin pregnancy on a guy that has not even made any commitment to her. Something that protection or using "morning after" pill would have sorted out

Roycemadeit:
Shebi they said raw is sweeter

ImaIma1:
Ok o. Let the memories of the raw sweetness give them strength to take care of the child that comes out of it.

ImaIma1:
Why would a woman open her legs and allow someone have unprotected sex with her. Is he her husband?

Why should a lady try to pin pregnancy on a guy that has not even made any commitment to her. Something that protection or using "morning after" pill would have sorted out

Ardar:
Why would a man put his carrot into a woman without wrapping it with waterproof.

Men should stop allowing their carrot to possess them into mindless zombies.

That's how one wanted to slot his unpackaged okra inside but I kick him off and made him tie his vegetable.

Assuming say I be wicked person wey carry STD na so him for collect one.

ImaIma1:
My point is (why I quoted the comment I quoted) that both the guy and the girl are equally responsible here. Except it's rape, both of them are to take responsibility.

Ardar:
Nope that's not what you said.

crackkhaus:
Bear the consequences by marrying someone you don't want to for a lifetime?

Come on, even you can't be this biased.

ImaIma1:
Maybe you should read the comment I quoted and read mine again. She seemed to be blaming the man like the lady wasn't part of the sex.

But if you didn't get it, I am only responsible for what I write and not how you choose to interpret it

Charisec:
It's WRONG to impregnate a lady outside WEDLOCK or get yourself impregnated via sexual intercourse outside WEDLOCK.

I mean we are not even to have sex outside marriage, talk less impregnate anyone.

It's WORSE to make a marriage decision based on that wrong!

You cannot build a future on a mistake!

Except you decide in yourself that this lady is actually who you want as a wife and she also decides same.

Then the decision is beyond the mistake, the mistake just revealed the decision you would have made.

I hope you get the twist.

But it's real foolishness to marry someone you have no deep emotions for, someone you have not proven his or her character, someone you would never respect or honour, someone who has no spiritual strength nor mental fervency, ALL BECAUSE YOU ARE PREGNANT FOR HIM OR YOU IMPREGNATED HER.

You can't build life on MISTAKES.

My one cent!