₦airaland Forum

Good evening everyone
The issue of relationship has caused many issues and causing more harm presently than good.. relationship now look more like prison to people than amusement parks which it is supposed to be.......

From surveys carried out I noticed that most relationship issues starts from inexperienced spouses......


Here are 10 reasons why a lady needs to be older and more matured before tying the knot to make it last longer......


1. Emotional maturity: maturity for ladies comes with age and the older they go the more emotional stable they become. That’s y people see ladies in late 20s as humbler.
2. Financial maturity: in the late 20s a lady would have learnt a skill or finished from school. She will be working and knows marriage is shared responsibilities.
3. Homely nature: homely and motherly as she has fewer friends that want to take her time away from family
4. Want to invest more time in the growth of the family
5. Knows wen to caution the husband when he is taking decision that will harm the family.
6: she understand the difference between fear and respect... she respects the husband but counters decisions that will jeopardize the family... this is what the alpha male call rudeness
7. Because she is experienced, the only thing she wants to see is for the relationship to work out.
8. Parties will mean less to her and that’s the kind of woman a man wants in the marriage...... someone that will be available...
9.because her dreams has been worked on, she understands how to align it with ur aspirations to move you forward as the man......
10. She will love you with her totality..... she’s not interested in any other person if she has chosen you......


Feel free to add yours or counter the points....


Next series will be on 10 reasons y men should not marry until they cross over 30


Thanks for reading

FarFromAverage:

Are you a lady?

Maturity comes at different ages for people.
Some persons infact never attain maturity... going by the way they carry on.

In Nigeria, we don't conduct surveys... But we often give statistics to make wrong facts about serious issues that often mislead the people..



You can't categorize every Nigerian girl on late 20s to cover your false observation of things..

Girls Must marry before 24.

The things a woman gains by growing older, like financial maturity, higher education, good career etc mean VERY LITTLE to high value men who have everything in life and just need a wife. Many women have listened to advices like OP's have reached 30,educated and financially mature, only to see the men at their age group date younger women in their early 20s.

Who wants a 30yr old woman who's career obsessed and with her own money? Broke and Struggling guys. Not men with money.

The younger and fresher a woman is the higher her value and the higher quality of man she'll get.

A woman at her 30s is just a mess. Too many heartbreaks have made her bitter. Too many dicks have made her numb. Too many abortions have made her cold-hearted. But a 19 yr old girl.... She's still fresh and still believes in love and everything.

ubunja:
Girls Must marry before 24.

The things a woman gains by growing older, like financial maturity, higher education, good career etc mean VERY LITTLE to high value men who have everything in life and just need a wife. Many women have listened to advices like OP's have reached 30,educated and financially mature, only to see the men at their age group date younger women in their early 20s.

Who wants a 30yr old woman who's career obsessed and with her own money? Broke and Struggling guys. Not men with money.

The younger and fresher a woman is the higher her value and the higher quality of man she'll get.

A woman at her 30s is just a mess. Too many heartbreaks have made her bitter. Too many dicks have made her numb. Too many abortions have made her cold-hearted. But a 19 yr old girl.... She's still fresh and still believes in love and everything.

thats true.. But some of them in their 20ths are love peddlers and premoscious

I did not say every Nigerian lady sir

yanabasee:
In Nigeria, we don't conduct surveys... But we often give statistics to make wrong facts about serious issues that often mislead the people..



You can't categorize every Nigerian girl on late 20s to cover your false observation of things..

U said the truth however being promiscuous is highly concentrated among late teens and early twenties

Alfather:
thats true.. But some of them in their 20ths are love peddlers and premoscious

Good comment from you
However do u know that real men don’t make all things before they decide to marry.....
Only low self esteem men make money and marry people far less than them


Wen you get to a certain level try to marry ur level in intelligence not someone that can not compliment you

ubunja:
Girls Must marry before 24.

The things a woman gains by growing older, like financial maturity, higher education, good career etc mean VERY LITTLE to high value men who have everything in life and just need a wife. Many women have listened to advices like OP's have reached 30,educated and financially mature, only to see the men at their age group date younger women in their early 20s.

Who wants a 30yr old woman who's career obsessed and with her own money? Broke and Struggling guys. Not men with money.

The younger and fresher a woman is the higher her value and the higher quality of man she'll get.

A woman at her 30s is just a mess. Too many heartbreaks have made her bitter. Too many dicks have made her numb. Too many abortions have made her cold-hearted. But a 19 yr old girl.... She's still fresh and still believes in love and everything.

excessmon:
Good comment from you
However do u know that real men don’t make all things before they decide to marry.....
Only low self esteem men make money and marry people far less than them


Wen you get to a certain level try to marry ur level in intelligence not someone that can not compliment you

stop telling women what they want to hear. And tell them what they need to hear. It's 2020 bros.

Alfather:
thats true.. But some of them in their 20ths are love peddlers and premoscious

so you want to marry them after they are done love peddling and promiscuing?

I don’t say what people want to hear I say what people need to know......
However we need to be realistic whenever we are giving out information

ubunja:
stop telling women what they want to hear. And tell them what they need to hear. It's 2020 bros.

Always remember you can never work smart without knowing how to work hard first......
so u prefer them to peddle the love in ur house?

ubunja:
so you want to marry them after they are done love peddling and promiscuing?

excessmon:
Good comment from you
However do u know that real men don’t make all things before they decide to marry.....
Only low self esteem men make money and marry people far less than them


Wen you get to a certain level try to marry ur level in intelligence not someone that can not compliment you

Marry someone at the same level with you at your own peril and watch yourself become less important in your home

excessmon:
Always remember you can never work smart without knowing how to work hard first......
so u prefer them to peddle the love in ur house?

she will be MY lovepeddler.

People should do what they like
Marry when you know you are ready

the best age to marry is 24,25 at most 26 , anyone beyond this age is prone to haste and wrong selections making her relationships more complicated, except she is finacially comfortable may manage to get a guy she could push up.

Good talk however we need to marriage is more of planning

Rukkydelta:
People should do what they like
Marry when you know you are ready

Do u realize material things is the super aim of this age grade

zexy2030:
the best age to marry is 24,25 at most 26 , anyone beyond this age is prone to haste and wrong selections making her relationships more complicated, except she is finacially comfortable may manage to get a guy she could push up.

excessmon:
Do u realize material things is the super aim of this age grade

yea for broke ladies.

Yea I know
However what is the percentage of ladies that are financially sufficient at this age?

zexy2030:
yea for broke ladies.

excessmon:
Yea I know
However what is the percentage of ladies that are financially sufficient at this age?

the quota is increasing by the day. Just be privileged to work in a bank or good organizations, u will meet ladies who are ready for marriage at 25,26.
Your cycles determines ur spouses.

U said bank or good organization?
Do you know how much their take home is.....
Brother check your findings well
Cos people live on loan doesn’t mean they live comfortably

zexy2030:
the quota is increasing by the day. Just be privileged to work in a bank or good organizations, u will meet ladies who are ready for marriage at 25,26.
Your cycles determines ur spouses.

Hmmmm....so much said already....
But if the money and the love is available early, why will one wait that long?
Smh

ubunja:
so you want to marry them after they are done love peddling and promiscuing?

no ooh

excessmon:
U said the truth however being promiscuous is highly concentrated among late teens and early twenties

what to do, we go stil marry them when time reach

ubunja:
Girls Must marry before 24.

The things a woman gains by growing older, like financial maturity, higher education, good career etc mean VERY LITTLE to high value men who have everything in life and just need a wife. Many women have listened to advices like OP's have reached 30,educated and financially mature, only to see the men at their age group date younger women in their early 20s.

Who wants a 30yr old woman who's career obsessed and with her own money? Broke and Struggling guys. Not men with money.

The younger and fresher a woman is the higher her value and the higher quality of man she'll get.

A woman at her 30s is just a mess. Too many heartbreaks have made her bitter. Too many dicks have made her numb. Too many abortions have made her cold-hearted. But a 19 yr old girl.... She's still fresh and still believes in love and everything.

Most successful men need a partner, companion and a friend. Can a girl below 25 in Nigeria gives you that? Again a man that knows what he wants in life won't entangled with a lady who is yet to discover herself. Sex and how tight a woman private part is a least things a real man care about.We are not in stone age.

Jaubdu:
Most successful men need a partner, companion and a friend. Can a girl below 25 in Nigeria gives you that? Again a man that knows what he wants in life won't entangled with a lady who is yet to discover herself. Sex and how tight a woman private part is a least things a real man care about.We are not in stone age.

ask Ned

Hmmm......Ubunja the Miseducationist have spoken...... I hail o