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Hey NL, something have been bothering me ever since last year, sorry don’t mind my English and typo...

Their is this girl I have been dating, I fell in love with her and we started dating I love her so much but she is older than me with 2yrs I don’t have any problem with that but my mum and dad re against it. And my mum love that girl because she is an Harding and prayerful girl. But that age she doesn’t like it. And the girl is too matured in the face that maybe if I stand with her people might think that she is my elder sister lol or whatever . But I love her. If I break up with her now I will really feel the pain. This girl has all the qualities. When I say all I mean all. The only thing is that she is not romantic.

She don’t like talking about sex but she is learning it now with me now. But she is not damn romantic... sometimes I insult her call her names even to the extend to telling her that she is in my life for my money yet she never give up on me. I don’t know what to do.
She is not even supporting me in anyway I have been the one spending. Her family is poor and my family is average. What do you guy think. I am the only son and first son of my family. And I want a relationship that will lead to marriage. I am from abia state. And right now

Lol. I am ready to mingle with a serious girl of 22 23 24 . Who is matured and understandable thanks

EDDYBABA01:
Hey NL, something have been bothering me ever since last year, sorry don’t mind my English and typo...

Their is this girl I have been dating, I fell in love with her and we started dating I love her so much but she is older than me with 2yrs I don’t have any problem with that but my mum and dad re against it. And my mum love that girl because she is an Harding and prayerful girl. But that age she doesn’t like it. And the girl is too matured in the face that maybe if I stand with her people might think that she is my elder sister lol or whatever . But I love her. If I break up with her now I will really feel the pain. This girl has all the qualities. When I say all I mean all. The only thing is that she is not romantic.

She don’t like talking about sex but she is learning it now with me now. But she is not damn romantic... sometimes I insult her call her names even to the extend to telling her that she is in my life for my money yet she never give up on me. I don’t know what to do.
She is not even supporting me in anyway I have been the one spending. Her family is poor and my family is average. What do you guy think. I am the only son and first son of my family. And I want a relationship that will lead to marriage. I am from abia state. And right now

Lol. I am ready to mingle with a serious girl of 22 23 24 . Who is matured and understandable thanks

Who told you that being romantic is about sex.

She is definitely more mature than you, so talking to you about such things may feel like talking to a child.

You insult a lady older than you? Haba, that is worse. In her mind she may be accepting it because she feels she is poor and has low self esteem.... But for doing such, she may never love you or show you her true self.


Pls move on and find someone else, you are not ready for marriage. You are just after some girl that will be loyal to you and accept everything you throw at her and still give u wild sex.... That is NOT Love.

Go for younger girls who have time. To waste.