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She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by webizone(m): 10:19am On Mar 09, 2020
Hi guys,
It's been awhile since I posted a new topic, but this hit me very close to the heart.
I am confused now. I need your help to get my clarity.
I met a girl I really liked and was contemplating the idea of marrying her. So one day I took her out on a date and told her that I would want us to move into an intimate friendship. Then, she asked me some questions and I did the same. When it got to educational qualifications, and I told her I don't have a masters she was visibly uncomfortable. She told me about it, and I asked why. She told me that she would even do her doctorate. She says that usually, guys who have lesser qualifications than their wives would feel intimidated and not let her get to achieve her dreams. I said I wouldn't be like that. Besides, I said, I have a sister who's very ambitious and an overachiever. But, she wasn't buying it. Then, I told her my story on how I didn't do a masters course.
My history goes like this:
Back in secondary school, I had a friend whose parents lived in the US. When we were about to graduate, he got sent a lot of offers from universities out there (probably courtesy of family). I asked and he gave two forms which I filled and enclosed an application letter. I got replied by both schools with encouraging remarks. Infact, I got scholarships into both schools that would be renewed annually depending on my results. All I had to do was to fill a dossier. But my family wouldn't let me go. They said I was too young to travel. All efforts I made to explain that the courses I would have taken can't be found here proved abortive. They were like if I left, I would want to remain there and not come back. And for the fact that I was the first child, I should stay here in Nigeria and grow, probably, after my first degree, I can travel for masters. So, I stayed. Jamb held me for 3 years and I did an Electronics and Computer Engineering course for 5 years, served and by the time I was through, I had become disillusioned about school and anything concerning chasing papers. I just wanted to settle down. That was back in 2012. Now I have my own business and I am running my own research (at my own pace, outside institutional pressure). The only thing missing is a life partner. So here we are. I have been trying to date different girls but I have never been so much in love with anyone other than her. I don't know what to do.
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by NextD18: 10:20am On Mar 09, 2020
She has told you what she want, if you can't meet up, find you way in peace and allow her wait for a professor that will marry her.

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Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by webizone(m): 10:29am On Mar 09, 2020
I forgot to add, I asked her why do I really need a masters? I wasn't going for academics. She replied that there are contracts I wouldn't get without a masters. I don't know if that's remotely true. I wonder.
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by Skmoda360(m): 10:34am On Mar 09, 2020
see condition.....if na me na japa.....bro, which kin woman be that one telling me I must have my master before anything.....you can have your master even when you are old not compulsory you have it now. undecided
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by Designerdollars: 10:36am On Mar 09, 2020
she is shit testing you grin
Uncle wey mumu.
Instead of you to tell her you aren't interested straight up.
You dey follow am reason grin
You have failed her test I'm sorry.
I doubt if the lady even respects you.

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Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by ecstasy357(m): 10:37am On Mar 09, 2020
NextD18:
She has told you what she want, if you can't meet up, find you way in peace and allow her wait for a professor that will marry.

I just dont understand why he is trying to worse the issue.

If this girl doesn't fancy him, he should move on....more better options are coming.
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by webizone(m): 10:49am On Mar 09, 2020
Designerdollars:
she is shit testing you grin
Uncle wey mumu.
Instead of you to tell her you aren't interested straight up.
You dey follow am reason grin
You have failed her test I'm sorry.
I doubt if the lady even respects you.
I guess. But I have always been weak when it comes to the girls I really liked. Now what?
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by Freestainworld(m): 10:51am On Mar 09, 2020
uncle, how old are you?
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by Designerdollars: 10:53am On Mar 09, 2020
watch this video.
Infact I'd advice you to watch every video on this particular YouTube channel.
You will learn a lot about women
webizone:

I guess. But I have always been weak when it comes to the girls I really liked. Now what?




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UIEpEyX3Djs


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rne_xYORmiE

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Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by webizone(m): 10:53am On Mar 09, 2020
Freestainworld:
uncle, how old are you?
Old enough. Buh, really lacking in experience
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by webizone(m): 11:04am On Mar 09, 2020
Designerdollars:
watch this video.
Infact I'd advice you to watch every video on this particular YouTube channel.
You will learn a lot about women





https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UIEpEyX3Djs


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rne_xYORmiE
I know him. Coach Red Pill. It did help. For awhile.
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by Designerdollars: 11:16am On Mar 09, 2020
here is another exclusive video from his patreon.
Watch it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b3s9pblQVpQ
webizone:
I know him. Coach Red Pill. It did help. For awhile.
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by Nobody: 11:19am On Mar 09, 2020
webizone:
I forgot to add, I asked her why do I really need a masters? I wasn't going for academics. She replied that there are contracts I wouldn't get without a masters. I don't know if that's remotely true. I wonder.

Sadly but she is right brother. No jokes.

The way the world works can be funny
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by Unfortunate(m): 11:19am On Mar 09, 2020
webizone:
Hi guys,
It's been awhile since I posted a new topic, but this hit me very close to the heart.
I am confused now. I need your help to get my clarity.
I met a girl I really liked and was contemplating the idea of marrying her. So one day I took her out on a date and told her that I would want us to move into an intimate friendship. Then, she asked me some questions and I did the same. When it got to educational qualifications, and I told her I don't have a masters she was visibly uncomfortable. She told me about it, and I asked why. She told me that she would even do her doctorate. She says that usually, guys who have lesser qualifications than their wives would feel intimidated and not let her get to achieve her dreams. I said I wouldn't be like that. Besides, I said, I have a sister who's very ambitious and an overachiever. But, she wasn't buying it. Then, I told her my story on how I didn't do a masters course.
My history goes like this:
Back in secondary school, I had a friend whose parents lived in the US. When we were about to graduate, he got sent a lot of offers from universities out there (probably courtesy of family). I asked and he gave two forms which I filled and enclosed an application letter. I got replied by both schools with encouraging remarks. Infact, I got scholarships into both schools that would be renewed annually depending on my results. All I had to do was to fill a dossier. But my family wouldn't let me go. They said I was too young to travel. All efforts I made to explain that the courses I would have taken can't be found here proved abortive. They were like if I left, I would want to remain there and not come back. And for the fact that I was the first child, I should stay here in Nigeria and grow, probably, after my first degree, I can travel for masters. So, I stayed. Jamb held me for 3 years and I did an Electronics and Computer Engineering course for 5 years, served and by the time I was through, I had become disillusioned about school and anything concerning chasing papers. I just wanted to settle down. That was back in 2012. Now I have my own business and I am running my own research (at my own pace, outside institutional pressure). The only thing missing is a life partner. So here we are. I have been trying to date different girls but I have never been so much in love with anyone other than her. I don't know what to do.
You don't want to do or u just feel like complaining or u just feel like wanting to read comments?
Ok here is mine.
where I'm from, school is not the answer to a successful stay on Earth. We believe in Business to succeed. Most of us dropped out of school to go into business and we vow to make it. We are not academically sound but we are business minded and we are making it.
What I'm trying to picture here is that according to you, you own a business. why don't you focus on your business, make necessary arrangements to expand and make it boom. She doesn't like your current academic qualification then she should fvck off! Those type of ladies are very unfortunate like me. Don't mind them. She can have her PhD or Harvard papers. Just focus on your business with your Bsc. There are many girls out there. Don't be tied down by this "love" of a thing.

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Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by Nobody: 11:23am On Mar 09, 2020
webizone:
Hi guys,
It's been awhile since I posted a new topic, but this hit me very close to the heart.
I am confused now. I need your help to get my clarity.
I met a girl I really liked and was contemplating the idea of marrying her. So one day I took her out on a date and told her that I would want us to move into an intimate friendship. Then, she asked me some questions and I did the same. When it got to educational qualifications, and I told her I don't have a masters she was visibly uncomfortable. She told me about it, and I asked why. She told me that she would even do her doctorate. She says that usually, guys who have lesser qualifications than their wives would feel intimidated and not let her get to achieve her dreams. I said I wouldn't be like that. Besides, I said, I have a sister who's very ambitious and an overachiever. But, she wasn't buying it. Then, I told her my story on how I didn't do a masters course.
My history goes like this:
Back in secondary school, I had a friend whose parents lived in the US. When we were about to graduate, he got sent a lot of offers from universities out there (probably courtesy of family). I asked and he gave two forms which I filled and enclosed an application letter. I got replied by both schools with encouraging remarks. Infact, I got scholarships into both schools that would be renewed annually depending on my results. All I had to do was to fill a dossier. But my family wouldn't let me go. They said I was too young to travel. All efforts I made to explain that the courses I would have taken can't be found here proved abortive. They were like if I left, I would want to remain there and not come back. And for the fact that I was the first child, I should stay here in Nigeria and grow, probably, after my first degree, I can travel for masters. So, I stayed. Jamb held me for 3 years and I did an Electronics and Computer Engineering course for 5 years, served and by the time I was through, I had become disillusioned about school and anything concerning chasing papers. I just wanted to settle down. That was back in 2012. Now I have my own business and I am running my own research (at my own pace, outside institutional pressure). The only thing missing is a life partner. So here we are. I have been trying to date different girls but I have never been so much in love with anyone other than her. I don't know what to do.


Try and apply for it in unilag. Trust me bro, you will be glad you did. Part time is easier to get. I support your relationship with the girl na why i dey offer my two cents. If she is worth it, then go for the masters.

I initially thought i did not need masters until i started. There is always room to learn some more. Relationship involves sacrifices too. No listen to these boys wey dey talk rubbish bro
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by Designerdollars: 11:28am On Mar 09, 2020
op don't take this advice.
That girl is making you jump through hoops.
If she doesn't like you the way you are, dump her!!.
Never be afraid to leave any woman.
I can assure you, there is always a better one around the corner.
There are 7 billion people on this planet for Christ sake undecided.
I don't know why guys always have this scarcity mindset when it comes to women.
mikezuruki:



Try and apply for it in unilag. Trust me bro, you will be glad you did. Part time is easier to get. I support your relationship with the girl na why i dey offer my two cents. If she is worth it, then go for the masters.

I initially thought i did not need masters until i started. There is always room to learn some more. Relationship involves sacrifices too. No listen to these boys wey dey talk rubbish bro

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Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by proclinician: 11:29am On Mar 09, 2020
Designerdollars:
she is shit testing you grin
Uncle wey mumu.
Instead of you to tell her you aren't interested straight up.
You dey follow am reason grin
You have failed her test I'm sorry.
I doubt if the lady even respects you.

You got the drill bro. he couldn't give her cogent reasons why he doesn't need an MSc to be successful.
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by webizone(m): 12:01pm On Mar 09, 2020
mikezuruki:



Try and apply for it in unilag. Trust me bro, you will be glad you did. Part time is easier to get. I support your relationship with the girl na why i dey offer my two cents. If she is worth it, then go for the masters.

I initially thought i did not need masters until i started. There is always room to learn some more. Relationship involves sacrifices too. No listen to these boys wey dey talk rubbish bro
I am not even in Lagos. Unilag is far. I reside and do business in the north. I told her that if I had wanted to do a masters course, I would like to do that outside Nigeria. Well, my thoughts are, she has to be my girl first, then we can build upon educational qualifications together, if possible. But I am bothered because my dad had been saying I should do my masters, and about what she said about contracts (that part, I told her on the spot it wasn't true, but I still went back and wondered.)
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by Freestainworld(m): 1:03pm On Mar 09, 2020
webizone:

Old enough. Buh, really lacking in experience
at 23 you wouldnt want to marry a lady of 28, your best match is the 20 yrs old girl in school but give her some time till 200l or 300l to be sure you want to end up with her, if there is something fishy about her, you would have known before then. goodluck but dont look at a girls big back next time grin
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by webizone(m): 1:19pm On Mar 09, 2020
Freestainworld:
at 23 you wouldnt want to marry a lady of 28, your best match is the 20 yrs old girl in school but give her some time till 200l or 300l to be sure you want to end up with her, if there is something fishy about her, you would have known before then. goodluck but dont look at a girls big back next time grin
I am older than 30. The girl I was in contact with is 27. My guess is that you are still in your twenties. Now you can understand why I don't feel like just going back for masters. Can't be running around again.
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by Nobody: 2:24pm On Mar 09, 2020
webizone:
I forgot to add, I asked her why do I really need a masters? I wasn't going for academics. She replied that there are contracts I wouldn't get without a masters. I don't know if that's remotely true. I wonder.

Says who? Since when did getting contracts require a Masters degree? And you're there sounding like a novice because of one stupid Love.
Sit there and be "mumuing" yourself. The girl is just fooling you cos she knows you love her.

Im guessing she doesn't really love you so she looking for ways to get rid of you but you have been blinded by love you fail to see it.

A woman who loves you, will not be giving all these excuses.

Mr..... Take a bow from that relationship. She's not into you.
No time to check time.

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Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by Freestainworld(m): 2:44pm On Mar 09, 2020
webizone:
I am older than 30. The girl I was in contact with is 27. My guess is that you are still in your twenties. Now you can understand why I don't feel like just going back for masters. Can't be running around again.
uncle Methuselah, sorry for misquoting your age, I maybe older than you, not too sure but am above thirties too, since you are above 30, settle for the more mature lady who is already working and allow the one studying to concentrate, it may hurt her now but she will thank you in the future.
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by apiski(m): 2:47pm On Mar 09, 2020
webizone:

I guess. But I have always been weak when it comes to the girls I really liked. Now what?
And you want to marry. Bia, take your time.
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by SweetCunt97(f): 2:53pm On Mar 09, 2020
webizone:

I guess. But I have always been weak when it comes to the girls I really liked. Now what?
ladies don't like weak mean. Simply state yiur truth and lock up... If she brings it up, tell her whatever, suit yourself... Bet me she'll drop it.
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by SweetCunt97(f): 2:55pm On Mar 09, 2020
Freestainworld:
uncle Methuselah, sorry for misquoting your age, I maybe older than you, not too sure but am above thirties too, since you are above 30, settle for the more mature lady who is already working and allow the one studying to concentrate, it may hurt her now but she will thank you in the future.
So are u taken?
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by frozen70(f): 2:59pm On Mar 09, 2020
webizone:
Hi guys,
It's been awhile since I posted a new topic, but this hit me very close to the heart.
I am confused now. I need your help to get my clarity.
I met a girl I really liked and was contemplating the idea of marrying her. So one day I took her out on a date and told her that I would want us to move into an intimate friendship. Then, she asked me some questions and I did the same. When it got to educational qualifications, and I told her I don't have a masters she was visibly uncomfortable. She told me about it, and I asked why. She told me that she would even do her doctorate. She says that usually, guys who have lesser qualifications than their wives would feel intimidated and not let her get to achieve her dreams. I said I wouldn't be like that. Besides, I said, I have a sister who's very ambitious and an overachiever. But, she wasn't buying it. Then, I told her my story on how I didn't do a masters course.
My history goes like this:
Back in secondary school, I had a friend whose parents lived in the US. When we were about to graduate, he got sent a lot of offers from universities out there (probably courtesy of family). I asked and he gave two forms which I filled and enclosed an application letter. I got replied by both schools with encouraging remarks. Infact, I got scholarships into both schools that would be renewed annually depending on my results. All I had to do was to fill a dossier. But my family wouldn't let me go. They said I was too young to travel. All efforts I made to explain that the courses I would have taken can't be found here proved abortive. They were like if I left, I would want to remain there and not come back. And for the fact that I was the first child, I should stay here in Nigeria and grow, probably, after my first degree, I can travel for masters. So, I stayed. Jamb held me for 3 years and I did an Electronics and Computer Engineering course for 5 years, served and by the time I was through, I had become disillusioned about school and anything concerning chasing papers. I just wanted to settle down. That was back in 2012. Now I have my own business and I am running my own research (at my own pace, outside institutional pressure). The only thing missing is a life partner. So here we are. I have been trying to date different girls but I have never been so much in love with anyone other than her. I don't know what to do.

If you are done with further education, let her know and don't control her or get intimidated when she acquire more
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by webizone(m): 4:04pm On Mar 09, 2020
Freestainworld:
uncle Methuselah, sorry for misquoting your age, I maybe older than you, not too sure but am above thirties too, since you are above 30, settle for the more mature lady who is already working and allow the one studying to concentrate, it may hurt her now but she will thank you in the future.
She's working
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by Freestainworld(m): 3:53am On Mar 10, 2020
SweetCunt97:
So are u taken?
sure, am happily married.
Re: She Wants Me To Have A Masters Degree! by Freestainworld(m): 3:54am On Mar 10, 2020
webizone:

She's working
you them both more than I do, God will help you make the right choice like I did.

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