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Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by cRobo: 11:42am On Mar 12, 2020
shocked
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by Lovelyn451(f): 11:42am On Mar 12, 2020
Ontop NEPA pole...tchew

If u wantu marry somebody, u marry somebody, which one is proposal
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by DaddyMorenike: 11:42am On Mar 12, 2020
None. Just marry.
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by cRobo: 11:43am On Mar 12, 2020
catwalq:
Any f**king where..
Like in the moon?
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by Ologundudu2020: 11:44am On Mar 12, 2020
Open
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by uncleck: 11:44am On Mar 12, 2020
There's only one girl I would have done public proposal to. But since I broke up with her, any girl that is really lucky will get a private proposal; that's if at all she will get any.

I may only tell her one day like that: "I will like to go see your parents, if you're OK with it, discuss with them and give me date."
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by adaminor: 11:44am On Mar 12, 2020
Private
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by MrSensor(m): 11:44am On Mar 12, 2020
Private any day. In private you can propose while it's inside during penetration and I promise you that there will be no rejection

Meanwhile see the biggest coconut seed in the world.

Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by xynerise: 11:45am On Mar 12, 2020
None...straight to ya papa house for introduction.

Public Proposal is just for Show-off
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by Maccarthy(m): 11:45am On Mar 12, 2020
I don't fancy public display of affection.. After such displays they end up with a breakup it's gonna go VIRAL.
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by Nobody: 11:46am On Mar 12, 2020
people are getting married everyday without all these useless proposals
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by xynerise: 11:47am On Mar 12, 2020
Lostz:
people are getting married everyday without all these useless proposals
I tell you. We Sabi copy rubbish
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by TheGreatIYANU: 11:47am On Mar 12, 2020
SweetPreeq:
...because ladies of nowadays, you never can tell.
How can you be in a relationship where destination is UNKNOWN?

How can you not know the reaction of your 'spouse to be' when you propose?

So many questions, I don't understand the quoted statement.
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by Mac12(f): 11:48am On Mar 12, 2020
For me, private would do.

But my hubby no propose o, lol. He just use him hand fix date; two weeks notice. I called dad to reason with him but he said there was nothing to prepare for since he would settle everything with money. Na so I go sew clothe sharp sharp. Two weeks came, bros settled kinsmen with money. Naso I take do my trad o. Lol
No ashoebi, no decoration, no MC, no crowd. Just food for family, few friends not more than 40 and then in-laws.
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by biotechshola(m): 11:48am On Mar 12, 2020
I see no sense in proposing to a lady you've been dating and having sexual affairs with for years, so does it mean you've been testing each other all along?? The relationship wasn't properly defined from the unset?? Absolute Nonsense if you ask me!!
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by EmekaBlue(m): 11:48am On Mar 12, 2020
privately public
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by Romanoff(f): 11:48am On Mar 12, 2020
If you want to do a public proposal, make syfe you've asked ypur partner long term questions that will lead you to the conclusion that you are heading in the same direction and you won't get turned down publicly.
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by Winneygirl(f): 11:49am On Mar 12, 2020
Nice simple and private.
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 11:50am On Mar 12, 2020
Onyekachi419:
Who public relationship help this days.

Private life is the best grin

That's how I roll grin
I understand, you don't want all those our brothers that you have dealt with to know you said yes cheesy.
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by ishitinyourmouf: 11:51am On Mar 12, 2020
public proposal is fr idiot. soon we will start fucking in public to give her belle after wedding.
i swear if i am a girl, any guy that proposes to me in public, i go look for the nearest bottle and break him head
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by Nobody: 11:51am On Mar 12, 2020
xynerise:
I tell you. We Sabi copy rubbish
most couples start planning marriage immediately the relationship is getting serious. before you know it introduction, traditional wedding and foreign wedding for those who fancy them
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by jaymichael(m): 11:51am On Mar 12, 2020
I did not do any yeye proposal. I just tell her one day 'take one of the spare keys to my apartment in case you need to rest or cook or eat anything before I come back' na pidgin I take talk am o, no be English.
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by xynerise: 11:52am On Mar 12, 2020
Lostz:
most couples start planning marriage immediately the relationship is getting serious. before you know it introduction, traditional wedding and foreign wedding for those who fancy them
Na so e suppose be before Slay Queen begin disturb person with Public Proposal.
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by BrightJay: 11:52am On Mar 12, 2020
Private of course. Never liked those unnecessary public shows anyway.
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by dreality: 11:52am On Mar 12, 2020
This post is not worth being on the front page. Public proposal is bullshit and only happens in whiteman's films.
When marriage proposals were done privately during the olden days and thîngs done the traditional way, were divorces many then like now? So we should now that something is just not right with copying everything the whiteman does
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by Juliearth(f): 11:53am On Mar 12, 2020
SweetPreeq:
As for me, I'd rather propose at a private area, maybe my crib or hers because ladies of nowadays, you never can tell.

So where would you rather propose and ladies, where would you like to be proposed to?
I don't even fancy the whole idea of proposing. When you are ready, go and see my people and afterwards, we'd plan for a private ceremony. Maybe I am wired weirdly, but I love this kind of weird.
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by Juliearth(f): 11:54am On Mar 12, 2020
iammo:
cool


Private.. if I am dating you, common sense should tell you I plan to marry you, or you think am wasting my sperm and money on you just to hand you over to another man


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Chaiiii! God bless you. This whole proposal thing is a waste of time and effort.
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by seunmohmoh(f): 11:54am On Mar 12, 2020
Private
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by JayPeeOham: 11:55am On Mar 12, 2020
In my opinion, I'ld suggest private if you're not sure what the girl's response would be to avoid embarrassment!! wink





Personally, I can go for any of the two because I already know what my girl's response would be should I pop the question, even today tongue grin
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by AfroKnight: 11:55am On Mar 12, 2020
These days, girls are moving mad.

Better ask her quietly in front of her house around 8pm then collect your no and head home or collect your yes and start planning wedding.
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by Juliearth(f): 11:55am On Mar 12, 2020
Tadwears2050:
If you have money you can propose any where..

However a poor man will like private...not all rich man will like public
This isn't about wealth, but individual difference.
Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by seunmohmoh(f): 11:56am On Mar 12, 2020
iammo:
cool


Private.. if I am dating you, common sense should tell you I plan to marry you, or you think am wasting my sperm and money on you just to hand you over to another man


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We never can tell what's on you guys mind.
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