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I am sorry to disturb the forum with my problem but I think I can get better advice on this platform. I am a graduate from a private university In Nigeria which I have been battling with a problem since wen I turn 17. The person i know as my mum died when i was in secondary school so some of her family took over the little stuff she had and I was told to get out that I was picked from the dust bin , I did not feel bad because my mind set is that they want to take over her possessions. When I turn 17 the matter grew worst and i went to meet someone and aje told me it is true since then i have not been happy. I fake my happy, now that I am now a graduate i feel it high time i know my background but there is no trace to check how she adopted me and the person that knows about does not want to tell me again. Please what can I do about this matter because the born throwaway is also coming to my mind.

Meet the person that was close to her when she was alive

No worry...GOD dey...he will so bless u financially,dat they will come begging u to come back...na so dem talk sey rochas na from north,but wen him hamma...na dem come dey beg am to rule dem.

Gwagone:
Meet the person that was close to her when she was alive

she did not disclose the home to anyone apart from one man and he his not ready to tell me

donbachi:
No worry...GOD dey...he will so bless u financially,dat they will come begging u to come back...na so dem talk sey rochas na from north,but wen him hamma...na dem come dey beg am to rule dem.

Amen thank you the stuff is heating my head

Man!
Why would you call someone s adopted child, born throway and take away his rights..?

Mallamsaka:
Amen thank you the stuff is heating my head

Which private uni did you attend like this?
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/dmbfndd.gif

Don't worry, just keep working hard and put God first. All those who called you 'born troway' will seek your face some day.

I suggest you move on with life at the appropriate time you main family WI locate you.

Since you are now a graduate just focus on yourself and not let the troubled world drown you.
You may later be surprised your actual mother has been checking on you but deliberately didn't want to identify with you for your own good and personal development

crackkhaus:
Which private uni did you attend like this?
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/dmbfndd.gif

Alhikmah

crackkhaus:
Which private uni did you attend like this?
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/dmbfndd.gif

the one you could not afford sir