I have been staying with my paternal grandmother for my national diploma programme, my uncle who stays with us never supported me financially for once, all he does is to eat my grandmother's food, complain about my hairstyles (he is not pay for my cut) tell me all sort of silly things...I knew the reason behind this was because my father is doing better than him . I'm 22 already and I want to explore life,I don't want to lean on anybody for financial support..ever since I've been into laundry, he complains alot, he doest this because I don't ask money from him.... staying with relative has it own headache and I guess that's my share.... pls nairalanders, what should I do?

Keep Doing You Thing,He IsNT Your Dad, Bro Face Your HusTLe, If You CanT Take It Again You Can Go Get A New Place For Yourself

Tell your father that is doing better than him to give you money so you can rent your own apartment or since you can rent it by yourself.

You cannot go tell a man he eats his mother food anyhow.

You are being chidish and disrespectful and because your father is doing better than him, does not give you the right mock him indirectly.

His time will soon come.

By the order of the Peaky blinders.

What if your own father or mother was a nagging type, will you disown them or throw them into the river. Shebi u said you're ready to explore life, that's part of life. It's not a bed of roses.

One of the day I was most humbled in my life was when I paid my doctor friend a visit at Yaba psychiatric hospital. He was a corper there. A young girl(about ur age in look) brought her mother there alone. Right there the mentally ill mother started accusing her of doing juju against her health and that she's d one behind her case and started raining curses on her. She ran out d door crying. Some young nurses were laffing until a matron came and shunned them very strongly renouncing them seriously that what if they had such a mother, would they deny her. Some people talked to d girl and she stopped crying. Only God knows how long her mother has been like that.

Your own is just ur uncle and you're already getting tired and u said u want to explore life. Keep respecting ur uncle and focus on your own duties or studies or whatever. If you have the means to leave there, fine, leave to avoid what you cannot bear. But while you're there, prepare your mind for whatever life brings ur way there.

Oluromantic:
What if your own father or mother was a nagging type, will you disown them or throw them into the river. Shebi u said you're ready to explore life, that's part of life. It's not a bed of roses.

One of the day I was most humbled in my life was when I paid my doctor friend a visit at Yaba psychiatric hospital. He was a corper there. A young girl(about ur age in look) brought her mother there alone. Right there the mentally ill mother started accusing her of doing juju against her health and that she's d one behind her case and started raining curses on her. She ran out d door crying. Some young nurses were laffing until a matron came and shunned them very strongly renouncing them seriously that what if they had such a mother, would they deny her. Some people talked to d girl and she stopped crying. Only God knows how long her mother has been like that.

Your own is just ur uncle and you're already getting tired and u said u want to explore life. Keep respecting ur uncle and focus on your own duties or studies or whatever. If you have the means to leave there, fine, leave to avoid what you cannot bear. But while you're there, prepare your mind for whatever life brings ur way there.

His just been childish dat all i can say..time will tell

You and your uncle live with your paternal grandmother? How old is your uncle?

Acidosis:


You and your uncle live with your paternal grandmother? How old is your uncle?

Economy hard bros.

Strange things are really happening.shouldnt you and your brother be living somewhere else...