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Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by GboyegaD(m): 5:35am On Mar 28, 2020
sisisioge:
Absolutely! But those unvirgin guys actively seeking virgin girls won't like to hear it grin grin
Until I read about the virgin seeker, never knew people go out in search of Virgins. It is one of the most silly things to do.
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Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by frozen70(f): 7:17am On Mar 28, 2020
sassysure:
That a lady married as a virgin doesn't mean she dont know what she want.
If the spark isn't there, she will look outside for fulfilment.

Women have particular preference to the type of dick they like whether virgin or non virgin. This is one of the reasons women go outside.
Also, it's just a matter of time the virgin wife will lol outside if she isn't fulfilled.
No matter the size of a dick, if you as a guy doesn't know how to use it, then forget it

Some have big dick, doesn't know that fore play is the point to use yet, they use it rough and it ends up painful

Some have small dick, the fore play alone is 99% close to orgasm

Women are not automatic like men, press the necessary buttons and she is already at cloud nine

When she finally gets there, she will never have any justifiable reasons to get it out side

The man becomes her world
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by sisisioge: 7:21am On Mar 28, 2020
GboyegaD:
Until I read about the virgin seeker, never knew people go out in search of Virgins. It is one of the most silly things to do.
grin grin grin

Its his only desire from a woman in marriage. The guy is willing to raise a teenager into adulthood, send to school and even choose her course of study for the hymen...e just pain me that people are being candid with him. They should allow him do so he could wake up 5years from now to a new dawn grin
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by Nobody: 8:17am On Mar 28, 2020
Only men will like this,so in other words premarital sex is good as against what God said concerning it
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by Supergirl19: 10:03am On Mar 28, 2020
God helo us�
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by Supergirl19: 10:04am On Mar 28, 2020
God help us*
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by Deepocean(m): 10:33am On Mar 28, 2020
sisisioge:
grin grin grin grin grin grin

Sorry sis, most of the guys asking you to wait until after you've married them have things to hide. Things like: undersized peepee, errectile dysfunction, incompetence bedroom skills, mismatched libidos and other faults in their hardware that for better for worse won't give you the chance to redress. That's why they want virgin girls who can't tell the difference between their China products and correct German machines as she had no prior experience to juxtapose grin.

As a matter of fact, to reduce untoward disappointments here and there, every man with any hardware issues should do all he could to marry a virgin as they have no reference for comparison while every non virgin girl should ensure she knows what she's getting into before signing the deal. Issue resolved.
A lady wrote this on her wall on Facebook, she's a nurse by profession.

A man's penis remains the same, whether he has sex with different vaginas of different sizes.
He doesn't even need to do kegels to keep his penis in its original state.
It is strange that you find some women trying to compete with their men using their private parts.
A penis does not lose shape, tightness or looks, but when you abuse your vagina, it eventually does.
You'll start noticing that thing that looks like a liver sticking out and no longer retracting.
Then you will start to fill up with air when you have sex.
Then you will no longer feel certain dicks and only feel huge ones.
Then you won't feel any dick at all.
You will then go around saying so and so has a small dick, forgetting that you have a stadium between your legs and one man can never fill up the whole stadium.
A man and a woman are not built the same.
You can compete with him, but you will be the one who will get finished and not him.
Ladies respect yourself.

I rest my case.......
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by sisisioge: 10:52am On Mar 28, 2020
Deepocean:
A lady wrote this on her wall on Facebook, she's a nurse by profession.

A man's penis remains the same, whether he has sex with different vaginas of different sizes.
He doesn't even need to do kegels to keep his penis in its original state.
It is strange that you find some women trying to compete with their men using their private parts.
A penis does not lose shape, tightness or looks, but when you abuse your vagina, it eventually does.
You'll start noticing that thing that looks like a liver sticking out and no longer retracting.
Then you will start to fill up with air when you have sex.
Then you will no longer feel certain dicks and only feel huge ones.
Then you won't feel any dick at all.
You will then go around saying so and so has a small dick, forgetting that you have a stadium between your legs and one man can never fill up the whole stadium.
A man and a woman are not built the same.
You can compete with him, but you will be the one who will get finished and not him.
Ladies respect yourself.

I rest my case.......
Sure, that's an unstoppable wear and tear that eventually happens to all vaginal regardless of body counts as a woman ages. Just like erectile dysfunction, impotency, Premature ejaculation, low libido, etc that happen to men as wear and tear starts hitting their phallus. This is not to say your guys don't suffer from these at very young age, abi how do we account for the booming business of male sexual enhancement drugs?

It is well bro.
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by crackkhaus: 11:06am On Mar 28, 2020
At the end of the day and no matter how much we try to rationalize our morally decadent psyche using what-ifs and what-nots, what is good & true remains good & true for all eternity.
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by Jman06(m): 12:29pm On Mar 28, 2020
sisisioge:
grin grin grin grin grin grin

Sorry sis, most of the guys asking you to wait until after you've married them have things to hide. Things like: undersized peepee, errectile dysfunction, incompetence bedroom skills, mismatched libidos and other faults in their hardware that for better for worse won't give you the chance to redress. That's why they want virgin girls who can't tell the difference between their China products and correct German machines as she had no prior experience to juxtapose grin.

As a matter of fact, to reduce untoward disappointments here and there, every man with any hardware issues should do all he could to marry a virgin as they have no reference for comparison while every non virgin girl should ensure she knows what she's getting into before signing the deal. Issue resolved.
No problem!

Leave us alone with our virgins...


No decent guy will be attracted to an overused HOE...only thirsty manwhores will wish to have your likes!
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by sisisioge: 12:34pm On Mar 28, 2020
Jman06:
No problem!

Leave us alone with our virgins...


No decent guy will be attracted to an overused HOE...only thirsty manwhores will wish to have your likes!
Why the insults nau...I clearly agreed that the guys that are afraid of being compared should pursue the virgins with their might to keep their secrets/fears/whatever. Should we now say because you aren't a virgin you are a manhoe? No nau...dont get too emotional biko grin
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by Jman06(m): 12:40pm On Mar 28, 2020
sisisioge:
grin grin grin

Its his only desire from a woman in marriage. The guy is willing to raise a teenager into adulthood, send to school and even choose her course of study for the hymen...e just pain me that people are being candid with him. They should allow him do so he could wake up 5years from now to a new dawn grin
Ehn, it is non of your business what a guy makes a priority in choosing a partner!

Worry for your overstretched hole and pity the unfortunate man that will eventually "swim" in it.

My priority in a lady is her intact hymen! e concern youhuh
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by Jman06(m): 12:43pm On Mar 28, 2020
sisisioge:
Why the insults nau...I clearly agreed that the guys that are afraid of being compared should pursue the virgins with their might to keep their secrets/fears/whatever. Should we now say because you aren't a virgin you are a manhoe? No nau...dont get too emotional biko grin
I am a virgin and proud!
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by sisisioge: 12:47pm On Mar 28, 2020
Jman06:
I am a virgin and proud!
Hallelujah! Then you are fair to expect to settle with a virgin! EOD.
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by sisisioge: 12:51pm On Mar 28, 2020
Jman06:
Ehn, it is non of your business what a guy makes a priority in choosing a partner!

Worry for your overstretched hole and pity the unfortunate man that will eventually "swim" in it.

My priority in a lady is her intact hymen! e concern youhuh
I agree with your first line, same way I think some guys shouldn't label the choices of other women.

Now I frown at your apparent WORRY about what MY privates in your second line..something that has no bearing on you.

Lastly, may that priced hymen locate you fa...good luck vicar!
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by CsRockefeller(m): 2:07pm On Mar 28, 2020
Supergirl19:
God help us*
Saw a mail from this handle.
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by bukatyne(f): 2:26pm On Mar 28, 2020
crackkhaus:
At the end of the day and no matter how much we try to rationalize our morally decadent psyche using what-ifs and what-nots, what is good & true remains good & true for all eternity.
I hope everyone read this and realize that what is good and true is so for BOTH parties.

Not one party using their body parts/ lack of to justify why or why not they should/can have multiple partners.
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by bukatyne(f): 2:27pm On Mar 28, 2020
Sexytincoll:
Only men will like this,so in other words premarital sex is good as against what God said concerning it
Only men would like what?
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by Nobody: 2:30pm On Mar 28, 2020
bukatyne:
Only men would like what?
the ideas of sex after marriage
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by bukatyne(f): 2:33pm On Mar 28, 2020
@OP:

Lack of pre-marital sex is not the issue: lack of due diligence is.

I know labs where partners who do not what to have sex go for tests of their body parts.

Being a virgin is also not an excuse not to know the basics. There are materials online, books (Christian and otherwise) that you can pick up and read so you know what to expect as a male or female.

Funnily, I have never heard of intending couples breaking up because one person could not perform. Neither have I heard people having sex to test themselves. The only case I know, the guy is a physco so I am not counting that. I believe people just feel attracted, don't have enough self control to keep their hands off themselves and have sex.

If you tell me you can't handle a no sex relationship: fine. The ideal of actually having sex to test compatibility? I find it ludicrous and stupid. What if you both are compatible today and three years down the line, changed tastes and appetites make you incompatible?

What if baby girl has low libido and takes stuff to ginger her before coming to your place? What if she only wants sex once in 2weeks which is great because you see once in 3weeks? What if the guy is into BDSM and saves his madness till you get married? What if the dude or lady is homosexual and they just ensure sex with you till the dotted lines?

Everyone seeks to marry whosoever they want: it is you the other party that defines if the person seeking you is worthy of you or not.

You don't cast your pearls to swine and start lamenting how they are rolling in the mud or not appreciate your worth.

You are to love your neighbor as yourself NOT more than yourself.
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by bukatyne(f): 2:34pm On Mar 28, 2020
Sexytincoll:
the ideas of sex after marriage
I thought men usually complained of women refusing sex until marriage.

Is it now a man's thing?
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by crackkhaus: 2:36pm On Mar 28, 2020
bukatyne:
I hope everyone read this and realize that what is good and true is so for BOTH parties.

Not one party using their body parts/ lack of to justify why or why not they should/can have multiple partners.
Just like sexual abstinence until marriage is good and true, polygamy in marriage is also good and true. cool
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by Nobody: 2:42pm On Mar 28, 2020
bukatyne:
I thought men usually complained of women refusing sex until marriage.

Is it now a man's thing?
Not a man's thing but this womans story has given reasons for the men to buttress their point on the sex before marriage thingy
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by bukatyne(f): 2:43pm On Mar 28, 2020
crackkhaus:
Just like sexual abstinence until marriage is good and true, polygamy in marriage is also good and true. cool
For people who contract marriages under a system that allows polygamy, why not?
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by crackkhaus: 2:45pm On Mar 28, 2020
bukatyne:
For people who contract marriages under a system that allows polygamy, why not?
Fair enough...
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by bukatyne(f): 2:48pm On Mar 28, 2020
Sexytincoll:
Not a man's thing but this womans story has given reasons for the men to buttress their point on the sex before marriage thingy
Sweetheart, I don't get you.

On the average, women request for no sex relationship more than men.

The men that would be excited by the story are men in similar conditions.
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by ibkayee(f): 2:54pm On Mar 28, 2020
Lol that's the thing with no premarital sex, it's definitely a gamble, good thing I'm asexual phew
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by Supergirl19: 3:15pm On Mar 28, 2020
CsRockefeller:
Saw a mail from this handle.
You sent one, didn't know how to open it, so I sent mine
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by CsRockefeller(m): 3:51pm On Mar 28, 2020
Supergirl19:
You sent one, didn't know how to open it, so I sent mine
Okay, I remember.
Re: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by Supergirl19: 3:54pm On Mar 28, 2020
CsRockefeller:
Okay, I remember.
No problem
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