I ave a big problem with my junior brother staying with me this boy want to kill me. It happened that this boy dont want to listen to anything I tell him , he is 19 years very stubborn and lazy , all he does is eating and sleeping , he never help me with my 2 small children 3 and 2 at a time i had enough of his wahala i send him parking sometime last year the boy cried his eyes out begging for my forgiveness , i forgive on one condition he had to prove to me he is now a change person , the boy said ok aunty i will behave , from that time in june till now i have seen some great change in him , he started helping me with my boys because i work and my husband stays in different states , he only comes home once in 3 months , his also has been helping around the house also his stubbornness become less than before.


Las month he told me he got a job at this building sites he will be working mon to Saturday i was happy for him to have something doing even taught i knew things will be a bit harder for me with the kids , i had to look for someone to be staying with my children while i am at work , i ask some friends at work to help me look for a help aged 18 above , i told them no small girls and a friend of mine brought this 11 years old girl for me , i refuse becsuse she was small i see it as child abuse but she said thats the only one she has found for now and when she narrated to me the girl story how her aunty abused her , i was in tears and dcd to help her.

The girl is been staying with us for just a month , i like her a lot very polite she is doing really well , a great sister to my boys and my boys adore her a lot , with this covid19 everybody is home including my brother and yesterday i had to rush to the hospital with my second son because he had convulsions, on getting back home i met my girl crying her eyes out i got worried brcsuse ever since she is been here it was my frist time seeing her crying in that state , i asked her wetin happens, she was still crying holding her stomach, i ask and ask no response from her , i went inside my brother was lying on the sofa watching television, i asked him why is grace crying , he said he dont know , he saw her coming from the bedroom crying and when he asks her she said nothing , i call my girl asking her again the girl has refused talking at that moment i got angry and send her to the room to go and cry more so when she finish she can come and tell me the problem even she has made me angry but i was still worrying about her but she wasn’t cooperating with me and the way that girl cried frustrated me , it made me more angry that i gave her 2 hot slaps and send her out of the house still my heart bled because i knew what i did to her was wrong but her refusal to talk has caused it and the girl stopped crying but did not tell me the causes of her cry.


The rest of day went well, we ate , gist and we all went to bed , me , the girl and my sons both sleep in the same bedroom while my brother sleep in the parlour , at the middle of the night my girl woke me up that she has something to tell me , i checked the time , it was 3 something am , i was like grace go to sleep and tell me tommorow , she said aunty please i want to tell you , i told her to go ahead and this was when my girl opened up and told me everything my brother did to her when i was away in the hospital , she said my brother forced himself on her , he rape her both vaginal and anal i was shocked felt like my heart came out .

i asked her if she is really sure of what she is saying , i gave her a slap to make sure she is was conscious of what she is saying , she said yes aunty and when she removed her panties to show me her private areas , i could see it open , i almost collapsed , i taught maybe it is a dream and i will wake up from it but it was true , the poor girl has been crying for the pain she been throught being rape both vaginal and anal, got angry that i went to wake up my brother hitting him with a broom, he try denying everything calling grace a liar , i ask him what will a small girl of 11 will gain about lying that he has rape her and i started talking sense to him , why would he rape an orphan like i and him .

we are also orphan he knows all the sorrows we had passed through after loosing our mum and why did he choose to destroy a poor girl who went trough a serie of lots of abuse in their hand of her aunty the same eay we did too, after being rescued , she felt secure in my house now he did this wicked acts to her , why did he no go and sleep with prostitues instead of raping the poor girl.

he was crying begging me and grace for forgiveness that he didn’t mean to harm her it was the devil, he cried but i
told him he will be punished for what he did , i will get him arrested he was still pleading i ignored and went to my room locked the door , myself and grace were crying i felt her pain , i told grace to forgive me and my brother i will not send her away , i will protect and take care of her and i told her to keep this as a secret , the poor girl agreed and said she has forgiven him too.

I hate my brother so much that i dont even want to see his face right mow but at the same time , i feel sorry for him because we are orphans he dont have anywhere else to go and i dont want to arrest him but for him to do this evil acts that means even my children are not safe with him. I am in dilemma my head will explode soon because i dont know which is the best way to do, this boy has made me miserable , i cant stop crying , i am writing this with tears , i dont even want my husband to hear this because he will send him packing immediately. Please i beg i only want matured advice because this is not a joking matter please advice me like a sisters please no insult.

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I think I will need my glasses to read this. It will make one hell of a read with the grammar and punctuations.
Get a proofreader fast!

first thing is to get her some medication, pregancy and infection. Then pain killer can also help reduce the pains she's passing through...
As for your bro, get him a place to learn work or trade, it should be a place he can live with his Boss. Keeping him in that house will expose that girl to more danger

Pls,arrest him or report him to someone or any punishment of sort..you know the truth can't hide forever.
My bit though...

I don't know if this is true but I cried reading this....

Grace can't forget and forgive once your brother is still around moving freely, he's old enough to know that every evil deed comes with consequences, the funny thing is that even if you don't do anything,KARMA will surely visit, that your brother is an orphan doesn't in anyway justify his actions.You need to accept the fact that your brother is evil, wicked and a pervert.

I will just leave you to your conscience because I strongly believe that you know the right thing to do.

Some Women are wicked sha. If Grace was your daughter, would you still keep that your rapist brother at home till now? Because Grace no get who go fight for her, you can have mind to think about the welfare your evil brother. Its OK.

never protect a rapist of any sort for any reason, whether age, or status, if he can rape he can do worse and remember it will find it's way back to you somehow.

some women have hidden their rapist husbands to save face and he ended up on their daughters. you cant save a rapist by protecting them.

this one even does anal, your sons aren't safe

If you don't give your brother a strong punishment that is deep enough for him to feel it his whole life, he'll repeat the evil with absolute certainly. Your daughter may be the next victim.

Send the petulant boy away! Can you imagine? D small girl pussy no do him scatter her butt too... No no that's unacceptable plssssss.. The guy is simply a pervert and shouldn't b shielded

Bad behavior shouldn't be rewarded. Not punishing him is as good as rewarding him for what he did.

Tell your husband,let's start from there .
If I'm your husband and I get to find out myself I will push you and your rapist brother out of my house immediately.

And if you seriously need my advice, report the rapist to the police.Thats if you're a good woman.But if you're as wicked as the devil you call your brother, forgive him and forget.

Your brother raped an 11 years old girl both ways and you want advice on how to deal with him?bia nwanyi akpa si na ndi mmadi Iwo here.

Please hand that guy over to the police, whether he is your brother or not!

I can't believe the rubbish I just read.
Madam if you know what's good for you, you better have that boy arrested.
I can promise you that if you try to bury this crime, you'll go to jail for obstruction of justice and abetting a crime.
Stupid woman.
God will punish you if that small girl doesn't get justice. Idiot.

Rush that girl to the hospital immediately, as for your brother he has to face the law

I read this to the end to see if the brother is in police custody but as usual the young girl is asked to "forgive" her rapist meanwhile the rapist goes on raping.

How will evil like this not flourish when we cover the crime and the criminals.

Lalasticlala,
Come see evil in broad daylight asking for advice.

OP, you are an enabler by having your younger brother who is a pervert and the minor he abused still under the same roof, keep on rationalizing why your brother should not face the law nor your husband not knowing about it but know you will pay for it dearly sometime in the future. You home is a crime scene and you choose to ignore the fact that poor girl is certainly having intrusive thoughts and re-experiencing the traumatic experience by the mere sight of him.

Start with informing your husband, he has a right to know what is happening in his home even in his absence and also know that Grace has not forgiven your brother, she is only forcing her mind to repress the trauma because of the authoritative figure you represent but know that someday and somehow that suppression will no longer be a coping mechanism for her and something must give way.

Madam, if you don't report this issue to your husband and to the police, you will live to regret this wickedness.

Mercy will be far from you when it comes.

This is very bad... Please he has to start his own life at 19 biko. Get him a job and a one bedroom apartment. That your brother will land you in deeper hot oil in the future if you do not act fast.

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This is very bad... Please he has to start his own life at 19 biko. [s]Get him a job and a one bedroom apartment.[/s] That your brother will land you in deeper hot oil in the future if you do not act fast.

That guy need to be in jail for now.
At 19,if he can rape both ways, I assure you the guy can kill without mercy in no distant time.He rape her vaginally which is painful and then he went behind as well!
Jesus Christ!

He is a wicked and heartless waste of a human being.If he was my brother (God forbid) by now , I don turn him face Chinese first before I drag am go police station.

Your brother deserve this...

You want to protect rapist? My sister get that boy arrested before he starts doing your daughter same way he did to your girl. If his mind could be that stupid to rape a minor , then he should be ready to bear what ever the consequence is.

Once a rapist , always a rapist. Oremi !!!! Ji ma su .

Your brother need to be punished for his actions. He's evil. Tell your husband

He should sleep in the army’s guardroom for a few days before handing him to the police for proper legal punishment.
See that the poor girl gets proper medical attention.
Don’t forget to inform your husband as well.

Pls madam rush that girl to hospital for treatment first, and let your husband know the truth from you cos nothing is hidden under the sun, secondly he has to know the truth inorder to take decision on this matter, cos it will not be easy for u to arrest your brother to go and face the law for what he purposely did to that innocent girl.

But if you chose to keep quiet, u will have yourself to be blame in the future, that is the gospel truth. And try and let us know the outtcome of the whole matter. Let the spirit of God guide u, amen..

Report your brother. He must be a) punished for his actions and b) removed from your home for good.

If this story is true then I really pity that girl cos she "haf" suffer! Abi, she's just a "maid" and have no choice than to forgive because her oga had begged her.
First, you really need to work on your anger... Why slapping her twice because she refused to tell you why she was crying? And slapping her again after saying the truth aba.

OK, if Grace is your sister or daughter and was raped by your houseboy, will u have protect the guy and ask your daughter or sister to forgive the guy and after, still let him to live in the same house with you? Its sad "she's Just a maid after all,but remember she have parents, the girl is already suffering,biko don't add to it by not reporting your brother to the police.
Now, do you know that, for the fact that, that your stupid brother to raped that girl anally , your sons are not safe either, I just pity your life.
I will advice you to get that idiot arrested before its too late. What do you think will happen when you are not around and the girl have to be at home with your kids and that idiot?. Pls this girl is still young don't kill her future.
I don talk my own

Op good thing you told the girl to forgive him.
Since he's done with her, he won't go near her again.
You are a good Christian woman.


Please come back and update us when the animal rapes your children both the boys and girls.
And don't say god forbid because it will and must happen.

There must be no family bond in crime. Who must be punished must be punished. Your bro might hate you for it but bleep him 100x. Boy dint know the consequences?
Forget you being orphans. Boy needs to be taught a lesson.