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Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by ogododo: 9:00pm On Apr 04, 2020
Even though marriage is regarded as the answer to loneliness, times like this can also make marriage an affliction for couples who have long lost emotional connection and now confined together in the same space all day either working from home or staying at home.

This period of isolation can either make or break your marriage. But the good news is it can also serve as a time to put all your differences aside and become mindful of each other’s well-being.

Recconect with simple moments

This is also a time to go back to basics and reconnect with the simple moments in life by which you can both rediscover peace and happiness together. You can take the chance and fill your lives with enchanting moments that you never had the time to discover. Instances as simply as taking a walk together if you like the outdoors for at least an hour a day in peace and harmony if restrictions permits. After all, the physical health is also connected with mental health.

If you prefer, make the most of your balcony or outdoor space if you have one and sit together to enjoy the unusual tranquillity that has come to stay for now, great for your health and welcome the fresh air into your mind, body and soul.

Be in the present together

A period like this can create different reasons to engage in self-reflections which can yield positive or negative results. It can bring some undesirable flashbacks from the past when you begin to remember all the rejections and failures coupled with the anxiety of being isolated and worrying about what might happen in future.

It is therefore essential to start living in the moment and take each day as it come, focusing on the present moment and appreciating the reason why you are still here and together in your marriage in the first place. When you learn to live in the present, you will both begin to notice the simple things you once took for granted and let go of many of the bitterness and traumas and start to handle things better on a day-to-day basis.

Do not overthink the situation

It is common to start overthinking the situation especially when you are constantly being bombarded with different interpretations that bring nothing but apprehension into your marriage. It is important to pay attention to your thoughts and feelings and how the information coming through are affecting your own emotional well-being.

Remain certain that this period will certainly come to pass irrespective of your mindsets, and it is important that you are well prepared to go back to living your lives to the fullest again and the only way that can be made possible is if you learn to safeguard your own mental health by staying sensible and thoughtful together.

Connect with others

Positive things can also come out of a negative situation, its amazing how many online groups have been created to support couples struggling to cope with self-isolation. This is not the time to keep your feelings to yourselves alone especially if you are finding it extremely difficult to manage the situation due to prolonged disagreements. It is important to share your feelings with other couples especially now.

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by ogododo: 9:05pm On Apr 04, 2020
Na for married people

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by dawnomike(m): 9:07pm On Apr 04, 2020
You are right... For the unmarried, take this time to put your relationship into the right perspective

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by 1johnjohn(m): 9:11pm On Apr 04, 2020
What's if I am not in love anymore

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by ojun50(m): 9:15pm On Apr 04, 2020
1johnjohn:
What's if I am not in love anymore
Then you can be out of love

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by ogododo: 10:27pm On Apr 04, 2020
People go born plenty babies after coronavirus

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by ogododo: 10:32pm On Apr 04, 2020
Warri dey mourn soldiers caused havoc
Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by ogododo: 9:14am On Apr 05, 2020
dawnomike:
You are right... For the unmarried, take this time to put your telationship into the right perspective

Na so we want am
Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by Slawormir: 4:00pm On Apr 05, 2020
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Good admonition for them married niggarrrz

For now am married to my WeChat whether tencent like it or not
Bunch of fuckerrs with their strict rules
Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by UncleSege75(m): 4:00pm On Apr 05, 2020
Indeed this lockdown get some advantage

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by YorubaKinging: 4:00pm On Apr 05, 2020
The new norms

Things won't be the same again after coronaVirus
Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by whytediamond(m): 4:01pm On Apr 05, 2020
What if husband and wife combined no fit boast of 10k.

See 3 children for house?

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by slimanyd: 4:01pm On Apr 05, 2020
Make Aisha hurridly Take Back Jubril Alsudan who is nicknamed Buhari now o since covik 1-9 don already settle her scores with Kyari .

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by TallPck1(m): 4:01pm On Apr 05, 2020
What about that the heartbroken who is trying to heal?
Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by Yankee101: 4:01pm On Apr 05, 2020
Or divorce abi?

This Is the first time some couples will really know each other

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by soberdrunk(m): 4:01pm On Apr 05, 2020
So unfair how OP wants to break the happy relationships of so many sidechics..... angry
Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by Risentouch(m): 4:01pm On Apr 05, 2020
dawnomike:
You are right... For the unmarried, take this time to put your telationship into the right perspective
Abeg how because I dey Ebonyi my gf dey Rivers

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by sapientia(m): 4:02pm On Apr 05, 2020
Two sides to it.

Many broken marriages will be repaired.

Many marriages will be broken.

While divorce cases may increase, existing divorces cases will be withdrawn.

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by slimanyd: 4:02pm On Apr 05, 2020
kem6268:
fpuvbz98as

So, covik 1-9 don finally connect you Laslas . Omashe o.

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by Risingblue008(m): 4:02pm On Apr 05, 2020
It is real (according to dj xclusive)
Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by Olalan(m): 4:02pm On Apr 05, 2020
Side chicks won't like this...
You begin to wonder how a beautiful young lady who has lots of young single admirers would choose to be a clog in the wheel to a happy family

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by PureGoldh(m): 4:02pm On Apr 05, 2020
Na now wey cheating spouse go dey frown face from morning till night.It's time to posses your possession.

Just Incase you need Pure Original Honey.. kindly call/Whatsapp 081 0166 6771 Now...Let's talk about it.... CoronaVirus no go see us atall

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by ZombiePUNISHER: 4:02pm On Apr 05, 2020
marriage is bliss only if you have separate rooms....


this lockdown will destroy alot of marriages

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by Haymaykar(m): 4:02pm On Apr 05, 2020
True it time to put your relationship in other and to know why you are in such relationship... And for those planning to have an abortion... It time to be a parent.. I can't wait to start perceiving party rice in my street as from December and January.. grin
Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by emirateprince: 4:03pm On Apr 05, 2020
It not easy as the op wrote but we can practice it .










Please hit like for corona share for buhari
Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by Frankyboy1(m): 4:03pm On Apr 05, 2020
If most women knw how tired and bored of them their husband is, they will thank God for work

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Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by GreatResearcher: 4:03pm On Apr 05, 2020
What of those who are separated?
Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by iCauseTrouble: 4:03pm On Apr 05, 2020
shocked
Re: Take Back Your Marriage During Lockdown by momodub: 4:04pm On Apr 05, 2020
Ok good idea

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