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the girl I intend to marry who is 3months pregnant for me just infected me with std.

The pregnancy may not even be yours.

In fact there's nothing about the girl that belongs to you. The STD, the pregnancy, even her heart & body...it all belongs to someone else.

I intend to carry out a DNA test once the baby is born

Are you sure you didn't infect her? How did you know?
Stop giving us half gist abeg

You think DNA is done in a road side lab and at 500 or 100 cost

Both of you must have gotten your infection from unknown source

Get yourself treated and get her treated after delivery because she can't take any antibiotics for now until after nursing the baby

But get yourself treated so that you will be free from the wahala and after that use condom on any other person because you may not be faithful

Yes it's possible

ikemm:
the girl I intend to marry who is 3months pregnant for me just infected me with std.

So you have not been with any other sexual partner in years?

Winneygirl:
So you have not been with any other sexual partner in years?

have been faithful to her all through our relationship

Winneygirl:
So you have not been with any other sexual partner in years?

have been faithful to her throughout our relationship

I am*

Sorry about that, OP. You should go run urine and swab tests with her in a lab to determine the type of STI and then you treat yourself. She can't take antibiotics because of the baby.

Then you guys sot down and talk. There is already a breach of trust, you guys need to iron things out.

I know you're hurt and angry, but please handle this situation in an amicable way.

ikemm:
the girl I intend to marry who is 3months pregnant for me just infected me with std.

Vaginal candida infection is common for pregnant women, I think.
Talk to a doctor.

Saintmary:
Vaginal candida infection is common for pregnant women, I think. Talk to a doctor.

ok

ikemm:
the girl I intend to marry who is 3months pregnant for me just infected me with std.

what kind of std?

baralatie:
what kind of std?

gonorrhea, that's what am being treated for

ikemm:
gonorrhea, that's what am being treated for

treated from a certified doctor and registered hospital?

baralatie:
treated from a certified doctor and registered hospital?

I'm receiving treatment from a private hospital

ikemm:
I'm receiving treatment from a private hospital

OK!
then you might have to speak with her about your treatment you are receiving now.
it will be difficult to argue on how the infection came about.
it will be advisable she also takes a test but it may come out negative if she has taken treatment..

another route will be to have a DNA test to know if the baby is yours.if the DNA test shows it is yours then the infection came during the pregnancy.
all this means you and your fiance and very important people will have a serious talk

baralatie:
OK!
then you might have to speak with her about your treatment you are receiving now.
it will be difficult to argue on how the infection came about.
it will be advisable she also takes a test but it may come out negative if she has taken treatment..

another route will be to have a DNA test to know if the baby is yours.if the DNA test shows it is yours then the infection came during the pregnancy.
all this means you and your fiance and very important people will have a serious talk

thanks for you advice

I hope you have been faithful in the relationship. Whether oral/vaginal/anal sex because you can catch STD’s from all 3. Giving or receiving. Be sure before you accuse her.