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Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Nobody: 2:32pm On Apr 07, 2020
GodWrites:
You kids should stop arguing and understand that body systems aren't the same.
you are stupid. You heard me right? I no blame you cuz na faceless forum be this you talk anyhow.
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by GeneralPula: 2:33pm On Apr 07, 2020
Starboytwo:
No smoker alive can be compelled to stop or be forced...

Few persons I asked that stopped smoking did it on their own... No force or anything... He just decided he'd had enough...

You can't force me to stop Arizona, or Loud... Oh my gawd... I need that shit this morning
grin

Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Nobody: 2:41pm On Apr 07, 2020
nizzy153:
My love for w
eed is not of this world
not only you bruv.
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by GeneralPula: 2:42pm On Apr 07, 2020
BenzEne1:
Chewing weed doesn't get anyone high. Heat is always needed to decarboxylate the THC so the user gets high. Maybe you chewed on something else
Nah lie..

There are different forms of taking in weed man:
Smoking
Chewing
By adding weed into various food—Beans,Vegetables and so on.
You can soak weeds into water and after sieving off the weed, you can use it water to drink tea or anything.

Anyhow you treat am, you’ll feel it highness!
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Nobody: 2:42pm On Apr 07, 2020
OKOATA:
Lol �. Am not going to argue with you, you haven’t tried something theoretically and you keep arguing blindly. Here is proof that weeds get you high when you chew it, don’t always think you know all the knowledge in the world.
https://maryjanesdiary.com/can-you-eat-raw-weed-get-high
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by GodWrites: 2:43pm On Apr 07, 2020
Semperty:
you are stupid. You heard me right? I no blame you cuz a faceless forum be this you talk anyhow.
Can you cry me a river? Stop vibrating like a street tout please, it's embarrassing. Oh, I almost forgot that weed can clog the brain.. Sorry for quoting you in the first place.
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Apr 07, 2020
GodWrites:
Can you cry me a river? Stop vibrating like a street tout please, it's embarrassing. Oh, I almost forgot that weed can clog the brain.. Sorry for quoting you in the first place.

Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by GodWrites: 2:50pm On Apr 07, 2020
[quote author=Semperty post=88190760][/quote]E pain am

Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by OKOATA(m): 2:50pm On Apr 07, 2020
Semperty:
ok. But I've tried it.. didn't get me high at all.
You are right, I think it depends on how much the THC is in the weed itself because sometimes when I eat other weed it doesn’t get me high but that particular one I ate that day was so bad.
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Nobody:
OKOATA:
You are right, I think it depends on how much the THC is in the weed itself because sometimes when I eat other weed it doesn’t get me high but that particular one I ate that day was so bad.
but wait that article you showed me even proved my point.. the article said eating weed wouldn't get you high unless you ingest(raw) a large amount of high quality weed(1/8 bud!!) So you wan tell me say you chop a whole 1/8 bud of weed at once? shocked

And the article also said it's a waste because you can use the 1/8 to smoke multiple sessions (1/8 bud high quality weed is like 12 wraps of loud bruv)
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by OKOATA(m): 3:05pm On Apr 07, 2020
Semperty:
but wait that article you showed me even proved my point.. the article said eating weed wouldn't get you high unless you ingest a large amount of high quality weed(1/8 bud!!) So you wan tell me say you chop a whole 1/8 bud of weed at once? shocked

And the article also said it's a waste because you can use the 1/8 to smoke multiple sessions (1/8 bud high quality weed is like 12 wraps of loud bruv)
I no chop reach that level bro, you know sometimes if you see a strange stuff on your body and you check google it might tell you that you have HIV so don’t mind what the person wrote, what I ate that day didn’t reach the normal one wrapped in nylon, I ate like half of it, I remember that the weed was very green and here’s how I chew it to get high, I make sure I chew and use my spittle to draw out the THC, I usually chew like 5 mins after am done I will spit out the debris.
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Nobody: 3:07pm On Apr 07, 2020
OKOATA:
I no chop reach that level bro, you know sometimes if you see a strange stuff on your body and you check google it might tell you that you have HIV so don’t mind what the person wrote, what I ate that day didn’t reach the normal one wrapped in nylon, I ate like half of it, I remember that the weed was very green and here’s how I chew it to get high, I make sure I chew and use my spittle to draw out the THC, I usually chew like 5 mins after am done I will spit out the debris.
Alright bruv.
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by MMElliot: 3:17pm On Apr 07, 2020
Random browsing brought me here, but let me put in my 2 cents.

I stopped Arizona/Marley last year because those things aren't 100% cannabis. That's why they get you high when chewed/swallowed. Try eating loud. Just bone the price and eat it like that, you won't feel shi. Also. Go and do a Drug test on yourself (if you only take weed and not other drugs), and more than THC will show up. All this AZ and Marley is just placed over mdma steam to make it more intense. You think it's strong kush but it's not. In fact, when you stick to only loud, you'll get more productive and be in control the more. Dealers won't tell you this.

OP. If you don't love your bf the way he is, leave him. True stoners can only change from personal experience. Not a pastor, prophet or rehab will change him. He'll have to get tired on his own. The withdrawals he's getting from the few hours of not smoking will soon annoy him, if it's not already.

Try telling him to go on a tolerance break. Two weeks. It'll be hard for a daily smoker, but use the fact that he'll feel more from less hits to encourage him. Trying to make him stop for good is not the option. Even if he doesn't reach two weeks. As long as it's at least 2 days it's okay, it'll increase gradually. Complete control comes from regular T breaks.

It took over a year for me to finally be able to smoke only occasionally. It's been about a month so far for me, and before then, it was just two days I smoked, because I wanted to chill. If you really care for him, you'll find out why he smokes. KNOW him. If truly it's hindering his progress, you'll know when you KNOW him. For some, it's productive, for some it stops being productive and just becomes something they can't stop. KNOW which it is. Don't let stigma affect your opinions. Research it yourself also.
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Yahman1(m): 3:38pm On Apr 07, 2020
Swiitdoll:
Your prophets are lying (as usual with this religion scammers ). My boyfriend smokes weed a lot, we are even both planning to move to Canada where weed is legal since U.K. govt refused to legalise it. Anyway he’s a doctor, about to be a consultant, he’s the most intelligent and sweetest guy I’ve ever met. He’s motivated me to start my Msc in nursing. Your boyfriend is lazy, smoking weed isn’t a deterrent to success, laziness is. And why are you trying to change a man? Why not leave him and find another one who suits your standards? It’s selfish of u not to love him for who he, is but accuse him of not loving you because he won’t quit smoking weed which is obviously a hobby he loves. Stop wasting your time, accept he is lazy and find another man that’s motivated and a goal getter. Or u can use my strategy, I hate that after smoking smell, so I’ve offered to bake him weed brownies instead to compromise for smoking or otherwise, buy a breath spray. Men don’t like being told what to do, they wanna be in charge, they wanna be alpha so I don’t think giving him ultimatums wld really work. Find a new man sis. Best of luck
Kai sad
Where I been dey when God dey allocate this kind Sheema give anoda man sad
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Yahman1(m): 3:43pm On Apr 07, 2020
Semperty:
oga chewing raw weed without heat cannot get you high stop talking trash. For you to even say this thing means you no know wetin be weed.
Weed wen ingested gets u higher than wen smoked, stop saying what you don't know
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Nobody: 3:47pm On Apr 07, 2020
Yahman1:
Weed wen ingested gets u higher than wen smoked, stop saying what you don't know
don't be an ignorant mofo

Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Yahman1(m): 3:55pm On Apr 07, 2020
Semperty:
don't be an ignorant mofo
U are the ignorant one, the screenshot does say that weed can get u high wen consumed raw, so wat are u arguing again
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Nobody: 4:01pm On Apr 07, 2020
Yahman1:
U are the ignorant one, the screenshot does say that weed can get u high wen consumed raw, so wat are u arguing again
gosh! You get sense so? shocked You said ingesting raw gets higher than smoking and the screenshot I showed you proved otherwise. Go school you no gree.

Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Apr 07, 2020
when i was in sch i remember this dude who was a chronic weed smoker.he was so emerciated looking and the weed turned his brain cheesy.we used to call him kolomental.his addiction to weed made him drop out of school.most times the guy would beat up his dad to collect money frm him to buy weed or steal from him.most cases if guys were around they will beat him up or call the police to pick him up cheesy.weed don mess up some ppl life sha cheesy.
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Yahman1(m): 4:16pm On Apr 07, 2020
Semperty:
gosh! You get sense so? shocked You said ingesting raw gets higher than smoking and the screenshot I showed you proved otherwise. Go school you no gree.
Wen I see a senseless person I know, now u my friend is extremely Senseless

Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by mafiano1986: 4:19pm On Apr 07, 2020
Semperty:
oga chewing raw weed without heat cannot get you high stop talking trash. For you to even say this thing means you no know wetin be weed.
No he's right chewing it will get you high, just that it takes up to an hour to kick in and when it kicks in the high its too intense, that most people just end up in a bad trip, it happened to a few guys i know, this one guy chewed it and was behaving really strange, like he was loosing his mind, we had to sadate him with rohypnol and get some food in to him before he finally calmed down and went to sleep.
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Nobody: 4:31pm On Apr 07, 2020
Yahman1:
Wen I see a senseless person I know, now u my friend is extremely Senseless
you're very stupid boy and you're proving that with each quote cheesy
the article you screenshotted didn't mention if it was cooked or raw but if you use your brain (which I doubt you even have) you'd have deduced that the article was talking about heated edibles since edible means something eatable and when weed is heated with food it's edible.. eating raw weed ain't half as edible . But we are talking about eating raw weed and I said smoking or eating edible gets higher than eating raw weed brainless Mr boy

Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Yahman1(m): 4:54pm On Apr 07, 2020
Semperty:
you're very stupid boy and you're proving that with each quote cheesy
the article you screenshotted didn't mention if it was cooked or raw but if you use your brain (which I doubt you even have) you'd have deduced that the article was talking about heated edibles since edible means something eatable and when weed is heated with food it's edible.. eating raw weed ain't half as edible . But we are talking about eating raw weed and I said smoking or eating edible gets higher than eating raw weed brainless Mr boy
Trying to sound like "Mr know All" why don't you carry out an experiment yourself, and who told you raw weed is not edible? In your stupid mind you are a professor of weed abi

Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Nobody: 5:03pm On Apr 07, 2020
Yahman1:
Trying to sound like "Mr know All" why don't you carry out an experiment yourself, and who told you raw weed is not edible? In your stupid mind you are a professor of weed abi
shut up brainless pig. I'm Mr know all but you'r mr know nothing. Before I got into this argument I'd already tried all forms of weed intake and then I researched and got into this conclusion of how each form of intake works. Go school you no gree Now you are Dumbo grin
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Yahman1(m): 5:11pm On Apr 07, 2020
Semperty:
shut up brainless pig. I'm Mr know all but you'r mr know nothing. Before I got into this argument I'd already tried all forms of weed intake and then I researched and got into this conclusion of how each form of intake works. Go school you no gree Now you are Dumbo grin
Only a brainless person engages in arguments with insults, take your � pig attitude out of my mentions
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by Nobody: 5:14pm On Apr 07, 2020
Yahman1:
Only a brainless person engages in arguments with insults, take your � pig attitude out of my mentions
if I come across person wey get sense I go acknowledge, and If i see a brainless human like you better off as a pig I'd also acknowledge.
I'ma straight forward bloke...
Now fvck off dimwit

Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by imarayij(m): 5:23pm On Apr 07, 2020
MrCaesar:
I have a very big problem with my boyfriend. The problem is that he smokes Indian hemp. He smokes so much that any few hours he doesn't smoke, he may fall sick. Meanwhile, we are practicing Christians. He had been told by different prophets that the only reason why he is not growing in life is because he smokes. I hate that habit a lot. I am finding it so hard to cope with it. I have given him several ultimatum to stop smoking, he keeps promising he will stop, but nothing is happening. I don't think he loves me genuinely because...

https://www.caesarscircuit.com/2020/03/my-boyfriend-smokes-should-i-drop-him.html?m=1
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by KelvinDgemineye: 5:24pm On Apr 07, 2020
donbachi:
My sister,dont kill urself..i dated my wife as a smoker,she kissed me even with d smokes coming out 4rm my mouth.she never allowed my lifestyle to affect wat she felt 4 me then.i smoked for 20yrs,4rm my secondary school(auntie rose warri)it all started at viva mexico.but,today i dont smoke anymore.just love him and 1day he will hate his lifestyle.
snr man ekuruemu boy dae hail...
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by shollish(m): 5:29pm On Apr 07, 2020
I thought as much
What about loud,.. Is it also synthetic?
What pure dope can one smoke, normal weed doesn't get me high again
MMElliot:
Random browsing brought me here, but let me put in my 2 cents.

I stopped Arizona/Marley last year because those things aren't 100% cannabis. That's why they get you high when chewed/swallowed. Try eating loud. Just bone the price and eat it like that, you won't feel shi. Also. Go and do a Drug test on yourself (if you only take weed and not other drugs), and more than THC will show up. All this AZ and Marley is just placed over mdma steam to make it more intense. You think it's strong kush but it's not. In fact, when you stick to only loud, you'll get more productive and be in control the more. Dealers won't tell you this.

OP. If you don't love your bf the way he is, leave him. True stoners can only change from personal experience. Not a pastor, prophet or rehab will change him. He'll have to get tired on his own. The withdrawals he's getting from the few hours of not smoking will soon annoy him, if it's not already.

Try telling him to go on a tolerance break. Two weeks. It'll be hard for a daily smoker, but use the fact that he'll feel more from less hits to encourage him. Trying to make him stop for good is not the option. Even if he doesn't reach two weeks. As long as it's at least 2 days it's okay, it'll increase gradually. Complete control comes from regular T breaks.

It took over a year for me to finally be able to smoke only occasionally. It's been about a month so far for me, and before then, it was just two days I smoked, because I wanted to chill. If you really care for him, you'll find out why he smokes. KNOW him. If truly it's hindering his progress, you'll know when you KNOW him. For some, it's productive, for some it stops being productive and just becomes something they can't stop. KNOW which it is. Don't let stigma affect your opinions. Research it yourself also.
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by donbachi(m): 6:04pm On Apr 07, 2020
KelvinDgemineye:
snr man ekuruemu boy dae hail...
I see u.
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by MMElliot: 6:05pm On Apr 07, 2020
shollish:
I thought as much
What about loud,.. Is it also synthetic?
What pure dope can one smoke, normal weed doesn't get me high again
The best you can do is OG loud. Rest is strain strength. Else, you need a T break.

Loud isn't synthetic. Neither is AZ & Marley, these are just spiked. It's dem Colorado that's synthetic (worse than spiked). They don't even look like buds. Loud looks like pure actual weed buds you Google. Put it under a torch and you'll see very clear trichomes (like hairs). That's how to know good weed. Any other thing, don't collect.

Ask what strain it is. Real loud dealers have different strains or even if it's one strain, google the name when you get home, compare the smell, taste and high to what comes up, if it doesn't match, switch dealer. Most times, it matches with legit dealers. Loud smells good and very different from SK (or spiked SK). No need to dig your nose into it to smell it from outside the bag. Regular peeps don't even know loud smell is kush cause it's not SK smell. I don't know how else to describe OG loud. Also, you definitely don't need to finish one J at a go with loud. If you do, it's not loud, or its weak af loud or you intentionally wasted kush. Shrine loud is weak af loud.

Also, I hope you know white rizla na capital waste of kush. Never put loud in that shit. Na taboo! Invest in RAW. Not any random brown, but RAW!

Good dealers are key, or import your seeds from like RQS, and grow your shi.
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes A Lot, Should I Drop Him? by adexpa(m): 6:57pm On Apr 07, 2020
Lol, you guys turn the thread to something else. It was educative going through but we still have to talk to op.
Many successful people smoke, though it depends on body system most of the time.
Just keep guiding your guy to maintain with what his system can carry in order to stop misbehaving. Stop complaining about it all the time, you can encourage him occasionally. If you can not cope, just leave cus it will be difficult to change him except he is ready.
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