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well, I wanted to share my experience on approaching a girl for the first time on sight.
it's not that I do not know how to talk to ladies, because I have my series of babes. most of these girls are girls I met in the bus,on campus or in church. it's not that hard to rapport with a girl if something brought you guys together. last week I wanted to go fix something around my town. but I found out that it cannot be fixed in my town,so the bike man suggested that we go to the other town. so he took me to the other town to get it fixed. after that, we decided to go into the market to get some stuffs, which was not in my agende. so we were moving from point to point looking for the right price. as we got to one point, we saw what we wanted. as I was about to alight, then I saw this lady , I was stunned by her beauty. natural beauty no make form of make up at all. since I have never approached a girl directly before on sight. I figured this was my only chance, because this is a market and we might never meet again. without thinking, i just said "Hello", then she look at me and greeted me. she then went to the other side to buy some things. I was looking at her from my own side, then I discovered she was also looking at me too from her own side. Thought were running through my mind on what to do. Thoughts like, (should I go and meet her where she is? ). But as I was there thinking, she left the place and I did not see her again. well, I just moved on in my mind immediately. So, i was supposed to have left the place and go back home, but the man I was buying things from delayed me, and I was not happy because I wanted to get back home. as I was still standing there waiting for the man, then she emerged again from no where. So, she was passing by me again to access other part of the marked, I actually did not think what to say. A word just came out of my mouth: "Sister" then she looked at me again and stopped. then without knowing what next to say sha, I asked her to come. I still didn't know what to say , but I was a bit confident someone. let me make this clear, that I am a private person. I don't like people seeing me doing things. especially wooing a girl in public. but at this point ,I didn't care about the people in the market looking at me. so when she came to me, what I said to her even made me laugh every time I remember it. I am like who tells a girl such a thing in this era.
well I just told her " I would like to know you" then she looked at me amazingly. then I asked of her place. but she just pointed the direction. then I remembered I was not with my phone, so I told her I was not with my phone. she brought out her phone immediately. I was surprised though, so I called out my number and she typed it in. So she wanted to leave, then I asked her to calm down and flash me there. So she did and showed me the screen for me to see. then I left. I did not even ask her for her name, neither did I tell her mine. it was funny to me when I thought about the whole thing.
a lot was just going through my mind after the incident. like ,why did I go to that market? because I never planned to go there.
whey is it that she was passing directly in front of me as I was just getting to that point? because if the bike man carrying me had delayed one bit, I would have missed her.
why was she calm with me?
though I have contacted her and she is making sense.
I don't know where this would lead. but I think there is something about this meet.

All the best bro... Remember to come back and give us the chronicles of how it ended in heartbreak or marriage

Your village people don send Corona to you.

I no read everything but from the little way I grab,

E fit make sense....just no dull for a moment.

Funny one

Come and update us later

the part 1 is released, come and grab your copy, as we await part 2

Egungun be careful. Village people might have advanced

You are already tripping. Ode!!

No one wan can tell..all d best

Op, your approach was straightforward and on point.
Sometimes, too much talks ruin things.
I hope it all works out well for you.

Just to collect girl number, you wrote all this epistle

stupidity:
Egungun be careful. Village people might have advanced

You are already tripping. Ode!!

oponu

Katier00:
Just to collect girl number, you wrote all this epistle

never begged you to read though.

hmm.. so u don give us part 1, i pray part 2 wont be " i got her pregnant buh she is nt my spec" bla bla bla

lekzytaker:
never begged you to read though.

chill, no be fight

Katier00:
chill, no be fight

but I know sey if na you I approach like that. you go do too much shakara.

Katier00:
chill, no be fight

but I know sey if na you I approach like that. you go do too much shakara.

lekzytaker:
;Dbut I know sey if na you I approach like that. you go do too much shakara. ;Dbut I know sey if na you I approach like that. you go do too much shakara.

of cos na, why will I give you my number in a market square

Let me share mine!

This one happened when I was in school.

I saw her in bank, she was in front of few people in front of me. She got her money, spoke with a woman I know before going out. While my mind was contemplating, I just left the queue and followed.

I greeted her, introduced myself, asked for her name, asked how she knew the woman she was talking to. The conversation was flowing, a friend of mine interrupted with greetings and she waited till the guy left.

Then I had to leave and I told her I liked her, if she goes now I might never see her again, so I'd like to have her number so we could stay in touch.
Unfortunately for me, she was this spiritual type and told me to come to her church if I wanted her number.

I told then shook her and said "nice to meet you" and I left. I was 400l then while she was in 300l and till I left the school I never saw her again.

Lmao..this was funny to read.

It's been a long time, ages even, since I felt this kind of excitement over getting the contact details of a chic, talking/planning to meet her.

I still get to meet new ladies, but this kind of excitement, I just can't fake it even to save my life.

Good one Lekzytaker
Enjoy the feeling, roll with it and quit thinking or trying to predict where this will lead to.
Just let it flow seamlessly - don't be weird, don't talk too much, and most importantly, don't try too hard to impress her.

crackkhaus:
Lmao..this was funny to read.

It's been a long time, ages even, since I felt this kind of excitement over getting the contact details of a chic, talking/planning to meet her.

I still get to meet new ladies, but this kind of excitement, I just can't fake it even to save my life.

Good one Lekzytaker
Enjoy the feeling, roll with it and quit thinking or trying to predict where this will lead to.
Just let it flow seamlessly - don't be weird, don't talk too much, and most importantly, don't try too hard to impress her.

thanks bro

Karleb:
Let me share mine!

This one happened when I was in school.

I saw her in bank, she was in front of few people in front of me. She got her money, spoke with a woman I know before going out. While my mind was contemplating, I just left the queue and followed.

I greeted her, introduced myself, asked for her name, asked how she knew the woman she was talking to. The conversation was flowing, a friend of mine interrupted with greetings and she waited till the guy left.

Then I had to leave and I told her I liked her, if she goes now I might never see her again, so I'd like to have her number so we could stay in touch.
Unfortunately for me, she was this spiritual type and told me to come to her church if I wanted her number.

I told then shook her and said "nice to meet you" and I left. I was 400l then while she was in 300l and till I left the school I never saw her again.

that is life for you. a lot of them have missed good people because of claiming sanctimonious

Your approach wasn't bad.... She was calm cause she likes your look or your stature... something about you must have made her answer you...

OP has met his wife.

It actually sounds like a cute love story rather than cringeworthy. Call her.