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What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by modernWays(op): 2:30pm On Sep 19, 2019
The rate of infidelity among married women is so alarming these days, and one keep wondering if there are somethings their husbands dont have that the next man possessed or can we simply call it stupidity or moral decadency. Some are even robbing it on your face by having sex with a next door neighbour or one useless broke guy in the street. Office romance are not left out.


As we all know, a cheating wife is as dangerous as cancer to her husband. Apart from the life of her husband she would put in danger, what about bringing disease or another man's child to your home.

What women should know is that, they have a lot to lose if they're caught. Apart from losing your blessed home, you lose your value and dignity as well as puting yourself in shame especially if your husband is someone who cannot bear the pain alone.

Note: Men are not saint, men could cheat and still be responsible at home, the moment a woman start having sex outside her marriage, she became an endanger specie to her husband.

So what is the best and fastest way to catch such a woman.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by xteve(m): 2:40pm On Sep 19, 2019
Do your personal digging and pretend like you know nothing
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by piroux(f): 2:42pm On Sep 19, 2019
I would have come up with a solution with you if you sounded remotely intelligent in your ridiculous assertions. But you didn't. Especially when you added that men can cheat and women can't.

So I'm done.

It's ironic that you call yourself modern ways though, you should call yourself "Oldstyle" "Yesterday's idea" or "Throwback"

Men can cheat and women can't, yen, yen, yen!

When you come up with ideas on how to make husbands stop cheating, then you will find a way to make wives stop. In the meantime, women will cheat with as much impunity as men have for ages. And everyone will suffer together.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by madridguy(m): 2:58pm On Sep 19, 2019
Nairaland ladies can be so funny. My sister stop dragging position with men.

Men can cheat and women can't :Pkiss the fact my sister.
A man can stand at the midst of his family, friends and say boldly, " that lady going i don chop her " but ladies can't. Why do you think God Almighty put seals on every woman?

My sister, cheating is not a thing to brag about but its easy for a man to gather his family to beg his wife over infidelity than a woman.
Make i stop here first.

piroux:
I would have come up with a solution with you if you sounded remotely intelligent in your ridiculous assertions. But you didn't. Especially when you added that men can cheat and women can't.

So I'm done.

It's ironic that you call yourself modern ways though, you should call yourself "Oldstyle" "Yesterday's idea" or "Throwback"

Men can cheat and women can't, yen, yen, yen!

When you come up with ideas on how to make husbands stop cheating, then you will find a way to make wives stop. In the meantime, women will cheat with as much impunity as men have for ages. And everyone will suffer together.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by modernWays(op): 3:04pm On Sep 19, 2019
piroux:
I would have come up with a solution with you if you sounded remotely intelligent in your ridiculous assertions. But you didn't. Especially when you added that men can cheat and women can't.

So I'm done.

It's ironic that you call yourself modern ways though, you should call yourself "Oldstyle" "Yesterday's idea" or "Throwback"

Men can cheat and women can't, yen, yen, yen!

When you come up with ideas on how to make husbands stop cheating, then you will find a way to make wives stop. In the meantime, women will cheat with as much impunity as men have for ages. And everyone will suffer together.
Read that part very well once again, i'm sure you saw where i said 'men are not saint'. Also "men could cheat" in in that sentence was not an authoritative statement but observation(kindly check back gain).
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by modernWays(op): 3:10pm On Sep 19, 2019
madridguy:
Nairaland ladies can be so funny. My sister stop dragging position with men.

Men can cheat and women can't :Pkiss the fact my sister.
A man can stand at the midst of his family, friends and say boldly, " that lady going i don chop her " but ladies can't. Why do you think God Almighty put seals on every woman?

My sister, cheating is not a thing to brag about but its easy for a man to gather his family to beg his wife over infidelity than a woman.
Make i stop here first.
God bless you sir. Imaging calling me unintelligent person even though she failed to understand or read with wisdom. I dont trade words with women, so i will let that part pass.

Please sir, suggest the way men can quickly catch before they send someone to his early grave. Alot of men could be save from these evil women.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by modernWays(op): 3:21pm On Sep 19, 2019
xteve:
Do your personal digging and pretend like you know nothing
Personal digging like what and what?

Cheating wives are very smart these days. Though there is no way a smart person wont know his wife have been cheating on him through her behavioural change, but getting genuine evidence against these women is major issue.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by Lolo24:
modernWays:
The rate of infidelity among married women is so alarming these days, and one keep wondering if there are somethings their husbands dont have that the next man possessed or can we simply call it stupidity or moral decadency. Some are even robbing it on your face by having sex with a next door neighbour or one useless broke guy in the street. Office romance are not left out.


As we all know, a cheating wife is as dangerous as cancer to her husband. Apart from the life of her husband she would put in danger, what about bringing disease or another man's child to your home.

What women should know is that, they have a lot to lose if they're caught. Apart from losing your blessed home, you lose your value and dignity as well as puting yourself in shame especially if your husband is someone who cannot bear the pain alone.

Note: Men are not saint, men could cheat and still be responsible at home, the moment a woman start having sex outside her marriage, she became an endanger specie to her husband.

So what is the best and fastest way to catch such a woman.
Every time woman this, woman that. Una no dey tire? See all the grammatical blunders way full ur content. Go school una no gree. ' She became an endanger specie' olodo!
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by Lolo24: 4:00pm On Sep 19, 2019
Lolo24:
Every time woman this, woman that. Una no dey tire? See all the grammatical blunders ways full ur content. Go school una no gree. ' She became an endanger specie' olodo!
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by yeyeosoronga: 4:06pm On Sep 19, 2019
madridguy:
Nairaland ladies can be so funny. My sister stop dragging position with men.

Men can cheat and women can't :Pkiss the fact my sister.
A man can stand at the midst of his family, friends and say boldly, " that lady going i don chop her " but ladies can't. Why do you think God Almighty put seals on every woman?

My sister, cheating is not a thing to brag about but its easy for a man to gather his family to beg his wife over infidelity than a woman.
Make i stop here first.
Yes o, men can cheat.
But so have women been, since time immemorial. Let the cycle continue.
Everybody na thief, but it's only those who are caught that are called barawo.
If you want to cheat, don't get caught.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by yeyeosoronga: 4:09pm On Sep 19, 2019
modernWays:
Personal digging like what and what?

Cheating wives are very smart these days. Though there is no way a smart person wont know his wife have been cheating on him through her behavioural change, but getting genuine evidence against these women is major issue.
You cannot get any genuine evidence, and only insinuations for the smart ones who don't fall in love with their conquests.
Since the hunter has learned to shoot without missing, the bird has learned to fly without perching.
Enjoy your life jare, nothing do you.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by yazga: 4:14pm On Sep 19, 2019
When you come up with ideas on how to make husbands stop cheating, then you will find a way to make wives stop. In the meantime, women will cheat with as much impunity as men have for ages. And everyone will suffer together-Piroux 2019
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by yemmit90: 4:41pm On Sep 19, 2019
modernWays:
The rate of infidelity among married women is so alarming these days, and one keep wondering if there are somethings their husbands dont have that the next man possessed or can we simply call it stupidity or moral decadency. Some are even robbing it on your face by having sex with a next door neighbour or one useless broke guy in the street. Office romance are not left out.


As we all know, a cheating wife is as dangerous as cancer to her husband. Apart from the life of her husband she would put in danger, what about bringing disease or another man's child to your home.

What women should know is that, they have a lot to lose if they're caught. Apart from losing your blessed home, you lose your value and dignity as well as puting yourself in shame especially if your husband is someone who cannot bear the pain alone.

Note: Men are not saint, men could cheat and still be responsible at home, the moment a woman start having sex outside her marriage, she became an endanger specie to her husband.

So what is the best and fastest way to catch such a woman.
CCTV at home and hacking of her phones. Be smart enough to pick points from her statements and body language.

If you eventually discover the truth, dont ever forgive her, a cheating wife is as deadly as Ebola virus.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by yemmit90: 4:56pm On Sep 19, 2019
piroux:
I would have come up with a solution with you if you sounded remotely intelligent in your ridiculous assertions. But you didn't. Especially when you added that men can cheat and women can't.

So I'm done.

It's ironic that you call yourself modern ways though, you should call yourself "Oldstyle" "Yesterday's idea" or "Throwback"

Men can cheat and women can't, yen, yen, yen!

When you come up with ideas on how to make husbands stop cheating, then you will find a way to make wives stop. In the meantime, women will cheat with as much impunity as men have for ages. And everyone will suffer together.
You dont say this madam, it is quite unfortunate that women are not at advantage when talking about cheating, unlike men, you lose everything and the person you are cheating with might not even marry or talk to you again after being caught.

Both men and women should remain loyal and faithful to one another, there is no gain in messing yourself around because of sex or material gain if two persons can become one and works toward their progress. Nothing good can ever come out of cheating but destruction and pains.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by LordKO(m):
The best approach na to make sure say you (the husband) no cheat on her and make sure say you make her know beforehand say you no go ever tolerate cheating or any oda nonsense/toxic act from her - some specific immoral acts do manifest (you should know dem nah) before cheating will take place. Perfection na when you expect her to turn water into wine, not when you expect her to live above moral decadence - so make nobody tell me say nobody dey perfect.

One can easily tolerate some psychological and intellectual deficiencies (not bankruptcies though), including financial deficiency or bankruptcy, but moral deficiency or bankruptcy na no no no.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by Nobody: 5:30pm On Sep 19, 2019
piroux:
I would have come up with a solution with you if you sounded remotely intelligent in your ridiculous assertions. But you didn't. Especially when you added that men can cheat and women can't.

So I'm done.

It's ironic that you call yourself modern ways though, you should call yourself "Oldstyle" "Yesterday's idea" or "Throwback"

Men can cheat and women can't, yen, yen, yen!

When you come up with ideas on how to make husbands stop cheating, then you will find a way to make wives stop. In the meantime, women will cheat with as much impunity as men have for ages. And everyone will suffer together.
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Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by piroux(f): 5:31pm On Sep 19, 2019
yemmit90:
You dont say this madam, it is quite unfortunate that women are not at advantage when talking about cheating, unlike men, you lose everything and the person you are cheating with might not even marry or talk to you again after being caught.

Both men and women should remain loyal and faithful to one another, there is no gain in messing yourself around because of sex or material gain if two persons can become one and works toward their progress. Nothing good can ever come out of cheating but destruction and pains.
The second paragraph made a lot of sense actually. And i agree. I personally don't intend to cheat in marriage and i will not take such from a partner.

However, your first paragraph is totally obsolete. Women who cheat these days have alternatives unfortunately. Men marry them, they move on and have more children, they have jobs and play the field. A lot of them sustain and keep the homes and men cannot cope without them. Infact, why do you think there are more men forgiving cheating spouses? Their wives feed the homes, they provide. The age when cheating was a man only thing was when men alone sustained and provided for their homes. Now, the playing field has been leveled.

If any man considers himself the head of his home, let him set a good example in fidelity and loyalty. A man who cheats deserves a community vagina. If you want faithfulness, lay a good example and give it.

In my opinion, only an unintelligent person excuses infidelity in men and tackles that of women. Marriage is a give and take. No one is an idiot. What you cannot take, don't dish out.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by BigJoe19: 5:31pm On Sep 19, 2019
LordKO:
The best approach na to make sure say you (the husband) no cheat on her and make sure say you make her know beforehand say no you no go ever tolerate cheating or any oda nonsense/toxic act from her. Perfection na when you expect her to turn water to wine, not when you expect her to live above moral decadence - so make nobody tell me say nobody dey perfect.

One can easily tolerate some psychological and intellectual deficiencies (not bankruptcies though), including financial deficiency or bankruptcy, but moral deficiency or bankruptcy na no no no.
LordKO speaking pidgin, wow this is weird!!!
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by Mstick:
Men can cheat but women can't, please tell me who are the men suppose to cheat with? Don't you know that the women you're cheating with is also someone's wife or girlfriend?


Men are polygamous in nature so please allow your wife to help other men. Or do you want the men to cheat nature?


Men expect faithfulness from their spouse meanwhile they go around sleeping with everything that moves forgetting that there's only so much women to go around and one day another man will be "polygamous" with your wife.

You want a faithful wife then be faithful and encourage your fellow men to stick to their partners. Since you guys want to keep eating your cake and having it then forget fidelity from your wife. You can't love someone and cheat on her, that's a BIG LIE. Go and look up the meaning of love. You can't be disgracing and humiliating your wife and claim responsible.

Numerous women cheat on their spouse and still run their homes and "love" their husbands. So all this brainwash doesn't work on women anymore, you want a faithful wife? Then be faithful. Threatening to send her back to her father's house as if you met her there is old school.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by LordKO(m): 5:35pm On Sep 19, 2019
BigJoe19:
LordKO speaking pidgin, wow this is weird!!!
lol, I de always speak pidgin. Na when time no dey too much or when one wan recharge ihm de speak something wey no be pidgin.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by piroux(f): 5:39pm On Sep 19, 2019
madridguy:
Nairaland ladies can be so funny. My sister stop dragging position with men.

Men can cheat and women can't :Pkiss the fact my sister.
A man can stand at the midst of his family, friends and say boldly, " that lady going i don chop her " but ladies can't. Why do you think God Almighty put seals on every woman?

My sister, cheating is not a thing to brag about but its easy for a man to gather his family to beg his wife over infidelity than a woman.
Make i stop here first.
Tells you what kind of irresponsible families some people come from. The issue is not about begging or not. Is it not the woman you catch that you will gather people to beg for? A lot of women aren't cheating openly, that's why men will raise other people's children and will not know until their death bed.

Men are open and think they have bragging rights because society makes their actions okay. Women are quiet and deeper, while the whole family is begging her, she smiles and accepts the apology meanwhile she knows already that 2 out of the man's children aren't is. Who do you think has a more lasting smile in the infidelity?

Stop telling yourselves wrong things, let all keep themselves. Stay true to your partner. As long as one sex thinks they have a right to it, it will never stop in the other.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by yemmit90: 5:49pm On Sep 19, 2019
piroux:
The second paragraph made a lot of sense actually. And i agree. I personally don't intend to cheat in marriage and i will not take such from a partner.

However, your first paragraph is totally obsolete. Women who cheat these days have alternatives unfortunately. Men marry them, they move on and have more children, they have jobs and play the field. A lot of them sustain and keep the homes and men cannot cope without them. Infact, why do you think there are more men forgiving cheating spouses? Their wives feed the homes, they provide. The age when cheating was a man only thing was when men alone sustained and provided for their homes. Now, the playing field has been leveled.

If any man considers himself the head of his home, let him set a good example in fidelity and loyalty. A man who cheats deserves a community vagina. If you want faithfulness, lay a good example and give it.

In my opinion, only an unintelligent person excuses infidelity in men and tackles that of women. Marriage is a give and take. No one is an idiot. What you cannot take, don't dish out.
How many women can sustained and provided for their homes in this country for 5 years, probably the percentage would be too low. Besides, why would a woman be taking advantage of her husband and starts cheating because she is a bread winner?

Are you saying for every cheating wife, there must be an unfaithful husband in her life?

Whenever this type of issue is raise, dont you think is more appropriate to address it as it is rather than using another wrong did to justify our points?
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by zeb04(f):
madridguy:
Nairaland ladies can be so funny. My sister stop dragging position with men.

Men can cheat and women can't :Pkiss the fact my sister.
A man can stand at the midst of his family, friends and say boldly, " that lady going i don chop her " but ladies can't. Why do you think God Almighty put seals on every woman?

My sister, cheating is not a thing to brag about but its easy for a man to gather his family to beg his wife over infidelity than a woman.
Make i stop here first.
dum dum.
A man can cheat but a woman can not?
The dumbest thing i have heard.


The man, isn’t he cheating with people’s wives, fiancée and girlfriends?
Half of the married women i know dont even look married except they put on their wedding ring.

Yall men cheat and loose your little change. Your wife will cheat on you, make money of it and feed you with it.

The fact that women can’t brag about cheating, is why they are never caught and why Nigeria is the 2nd largest in paternity fraud.

If you want women to stop cheating, you speak to your gender.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:57pm On Sep 19, 2019
Times have changed.... And there is absolutely nothing men can do about it. Who says a cheating divorced wife cannot remarry, especially if she is beautiful or rich? Hmm. Infact this days, the unfaithful ladies are lucky with men, more than the non-players.

As far as I am concerned, a husband who cheats on his wife without repenting does not deserve her love, respect, body, etc, and where she cheats back, the man should be blamed. Little wonder why many children normally gang up with their mothers to fight their dads, so men end up losing out in old age.

As long as men claim to be polygamous in nature, infidelity in marriage/relationships among women will continue to increase, because the women are joining the cheating game in full swing. No cheating husband deserves a faithful wife.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by genq(m):
These stupid NL girls must turn every topic into a gender war.
Zeb04, Lolo24 and co. anything for likes ey wink
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by zeb04(f): 6:19pm On Sep 19, 2019
genq:
These stupid NL girls must turn every topic into a gender war.
Zeb04 and co. anything for likes ey wink
unfortunately, the truth looks like ‘gender wars’to you.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by genq(m): 6:21pm On Sep 19, 2019
piroux:
I would have come up with a solution with you if you sounded remotely intelligent in your ridiculous assertions. But you didn't. Especially when you added that men can cheat and women can't.

So I'm done.

It's ironic that you call yourself modern ways though, you should call yourself "Oldstyle" "Yesterday's idea" or "Throwback"

Men can cheat and women can't, yen, yen, yen!

When you come up with ideas on how to make husbands stop cheating, then you will find a way to make wives stop. In the meantime, women will cheat with as much impunity as men have for ages. And everyone will suffer together.
Another stupid NL feminist.

You're "done" yet went on to post several replies on the same thread.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by genq(m):
zeb04:
unfortunately, the truth looks like ‘gender wars’to you.
You are speaking the truth by calling madridguy "dum dum"? You idiots cannot get your point across without insulting others. Your self esteem is so low that you must belittle others to feel like you've made sense.

Dear wives, continue cheating o, enough free pvssy to go round grin
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by sisisioge: 7:17pm On Sep 19, 2019
grin grin grin grin grin

Well well well...you guys sure know how to drag issues.

To the question: to catch a woman that cheats, all you need to do is to pay attention to her attentiveness to you. We can't honestly love two people at the same time, so one of the duo will suffer attention deficiency.

Then check her phone.

Then check her underwears- women love to change the undies as soon as they plan on showing their bodies to a new guy grin.

Then her schedule- it will definitely change from what it used to be.

Good luck catching her...I hope you're ready for the aftermath.

Meanwhile, cheating is wrong on all accounts for both men and women...Mr and Ms HIV/STDs are real. Hian!
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by elektra(f): 7:33pm On Sep 19, 2019
Don’t search her phone or monitor her movement. You will just find what will make you angry.
If you find out she is cheating then what?
Even if you leave, how are you sure your next wife won’t still cheat on you.
Oga just face your work and your children.
Or do you want to break up your happy home? Also, watch War Room and pray for your wife instead of all this detective work. Shallom.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by modernWays(op): 7:37pm On Sep 19, 2019
sisisioge:
grin grin grin grin grin

Well well well...you guys sure know how to drag issues.

To the question: to catch a woman that cheats, all you need to do is to pay attention to her attentiveness to you. We can't honestly love two people at the same time, so one of the duo will suffer attention deficiency.

Then check her phone.

Then check her underwears- women love to change the undies as soon as they plan on showing their bodies to a new guy grin.

Then her schedule- it will definitely change from what it used to be.

Good luck catching her...I hope you're ready for the aftermath.

Meanwhile, cheating is wrong on all accounts for both men and women...Mr and Ms HIV/STDs are real. Hian!
You know when you see a mature intelligent woman. You earned my respect in this forum henceforh. Unlike some women here, i'm so happy you noticed the different between a cheating wife and a cheating husband.

This was not actually happened to me as my wife is heavily pregnant now, i raised this alarm on behalf of my dear brother and a very close friend.

Cheating only cause shame/regret, and should not be tolerated in the relationship/marriage.
Re: What Is The Best Approach To Catch A Cheating Wife. by desvi: 7:39pm On Sep 19, 2019
zeb04:
dum dum.
A man can cheat but a woman can not?
The dumbest thing i have heard.


The man, isn’t he cheating with people’s wives, fiancée and girlfriends?
Half of the married women i know dont even look married except they put on their wedding ring.

Yall men cheat and loose your little change. Your wife will cheat on you, make money of it and feed you with it.

The fact that women can’t brag about cheating, is why they are never caught and why Nigeria is the 2nd largest in paternity fraud.

If you want women to stop cheating, you speak to your gender.
grin cool cheesy
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