SyrusdeHansome:
Have u ever lost someone so dear to u that causes tears to roll down ur eyes each time u remember him or her?

it is good to cry but at the right place and at the right time .... my grandma of 102 and my first cousin of 28 years old . their death are part of my bad memory till date .


i am even sad now . just by remembering them alone send me to sadness mood.

Mexyz:
August 2018 still remains in my memory, Chike Melvin left this sinful world..
We had great plans together, we call each other leader anytime we gist or call, but that day I started seeing several messages from my department WhatsApp page, I thought it was the normal chatting and throwing of jibes, didn't know my Dept mates were mourning my very own Chike.
I ignored the messages and logged in to nairaland, there it was on nairaland's front page about some group of corpers that drown in Taraba while on a picnic, I quickly dialed Chike's number, it was switched off, went on WhatsApp to check the messages on the group,there it was, Chike was no more

I shouted, threw myself up and started hitting the walls, I was uncontrollable, none of our neighbours could console me, my mom also shed tears when she got to know what happened..I cried my eyes out.

Continue to rest in peace leader, I still feel bad anytime I check my gallery and see several of our pictures together.
Rest on Chike

I know him very well,he used to be my neighbor..he finished from uniben,I think banking and finance.i heard he got a job from a bank or a bag company when he died....I remember how choke used to advise me on my education,he always tells me never to give up.i really missed him

My Elder sister... She died in a ghastly car accident when she was headed from Jos to Abuja for work training last year November...No death has ever touched me that much like that of my sis...she died barely one month to my wedding..and to make matters worse ..she died on her birthday November 15th..

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Nah i can't continue to read this thread,damn i'm crying like a baby alone at home.



RIP Dad,Aunty Nne,Aunty Ebere,Hungerbad and to all our loved ones.

I lost my immediate elder brother on the 23rd of march after celebrating his birthday on the 18th of march. He was a Major in the army. He was led into bokoharam ambush leaving three very young children. I feel so empty and I cry every now and then. One of the humblest and kindest soul I have ever come to know. I cherish every moment we spent as siblings. Our fight and our laughs. He was buried so unceremoniously by the Nigerian army because of the lockdown right there in Maiduguri. Rest in peace dearest brother till we meet to part no more

Roozzaay:

Sad
May God give you the strength to carry on and protect the kids she left behind. I can only imagine how hurtful and hard it would be.

Thanks bro... God alone be praise

a. Lost my youngest brother in 25th March, 2000 while he was playing football with some friends and two boys were there learning how to drive. He was the goalkeeper that was how the car came behind him and smashed his death could not make it to the hospital I almost ran mad didn't know the worst was ahead
b. Three months after my only sister put to bed she died after complications from the breast surgery she had that was on the tth January 2012. At that moment I just knew my mom won't last
c. My mom dead exactly a year after her death she just couldn't be consoled. I almost killed myself at that time, I lost many relationships then because I can be smiling now and the next thing am crying. I was already depressed but at that state a word of God dropped into my heart and it has been my strength since then. I still remember them and cry
Sleep on my beejay
Sleep on funkyflay
Sleep on sisimi

Aplaudez:
Nothing is irreplaceable, even nobody, lost my dad 2003, since then I've been the ones fending for my siblings, mum remarried and relocate to meet her hubby, I had to pause school after my diploma cause my imidate was in second year in the uni, all bills on me, to the glory of God he's now serving, we're living better life, now I've commenced my HND!

may God continue to keep you n ur siblings. You will grow old n all ur labour shall not be in vain. You are indeed a brother

Heineken:
please take heart madam. Losing one's mum is the worst o. Pls be strong. She's resting in peace already.

Thanks dear...she was just too young to die without eating the fruit of her labour.

My Dad. He was coming from work trip when he was shot dead along Abuja-Kaduna express way. His death is still a shock to us all. My his soul rest in peace!!!

Nharncygrace:

Thanks dear...she was just too young to die without eating the fruit of her labour.

please be strong. My parents are still alive and I understand fully well losing ones parents especially mother. It's not funny. Please be strong. Mother's death no good at all o. Take heart ma. Pls

Nharncygrace:

I know him very well,he used to be my neighbor..he finished from uniben,I think banking and finance.i heard he got a job from a bank or a bag company when he died....I remember how choke used to advise me on my education,he always tells me never to give up.i really missed him

Are u from Taraba state

My mum. Till forever I no fit stop cry

yes my sweet mother.i can never get over her death.

My dearest mum....may God continue to rest her gentle soul

SyrusdeHansome:
Have u ever lost someone so dear to u that causes tears to roll down ur eyes each time u remember him or her?

Mine was David.
David was my classmate in JS 1. The most handsome, and one of those brilliant students in my class. David was loved by everyone in the class because of his childish nd joyous attitude. Though initially those attitude created enmity among the two of us our frndship started the day he saved me from being flogged by our nasty maths teacher who gave me a maths problem that I couldn't solve. Since that day we became great frnds nd we were always seen sitting next to each other in class nd working together during compound work. Our frndship was so serious that some teachers thought we were siblings. David was brilliant, selfless, handsome nd childish nd I loved him like a brother. In summary, David died the same week our exams was about starting. He was hit by a reckless lorry driver on his way to his dad's provisions shop. He died on the spot nd rumour has it that b4 he gave up the ghost he muttered the following words, "my dream of becoming a doctor has ended". And since then av always wanted to become a doctor 4 David but the Nigerian factor destroyed that dream. Till today I still remember my brilliant nd selfless frnd whose bright future was cut short by a drunk driver.

Pls I'm sorry 4 the long post nd some of the errors you'll notice. David died exactly on the 25th of April, that's why I brought up this topic. Pls share ur own.

All these deaths makes one to cry.I lost my room mate in 100Level to crisis in the north .He was shot by a soldier when trying to help someone .He had a very nice heart

Nharncygrace:

I know him very well,he used to be my neighbor..he finished from uniben,I think banking and finance.i heard he got a job from a bank or a bag company when he died....I remember how choke used to advise me on my education,he always tells me never to give up.i really missed him

Yes, we finished from Uniben and Banking and finance together.
Chike was loved by all

Mattyau:
Lost my wife four month after getting married the loved of my life.
I cry everyday for four month .
The greatest gift I got from God he took it back .
Indeed He is God.
Each time I remember her I shade tears.

so painful. This will completely dry me ... but life have to move on. I am shedding tears reading this .

.

Biglittlelois:
My Aunt, she left this world (dec. 2016) without having a child, her husband ran away when we found out he was the one with fertility problem after decades of suffering and torture, making people believe she was the problem, and the funny and annoying thing was, she believed, hoped and prayed her husband will come back to her and they will have kids, but it never happened, she simply slept and didn't wake up,

Rest on Aunt Kemi, we all still miss you terribly

This is so touching.


So many men pushes the blame of infertility to the Ladies they try to cover themselves up.

Even when they try to remarry they will tell the new spouse if you do t get pregnant I will not marry you. This will make the new lady to go extra mile ,even to her old boy friends to get pregnant inorder to meet up with the mans demand.

I can only imagine the trauma she went through in the hand of that idiot called husband

Thats why I always encourage ladies to leave the marriage immediately you find out your husband is sterile because later he will surely make it look as if the problem is from you,
So there's no time wasting your time.

Another reason you should leave immediately is that even though he know he cannot impregnate a woman, there's this feeling that will keep making him want to sleep with almost all categories of women.
He will keep having the impression that you are either posses or you have a bad omen, so he may think he will succeed having a child with other women other than you.
Automatically he will become a CHRONIC ADULTERER WITHOUT CHOICE, which will torment the so called wife as long as she still live with the man.

I sense she went through a lot.

May she find peace over

Sorry for the loss

Heritantrade:
Lost my Adorable Mum yesterday,it wasnt easy at all ,i cried like a baby ,but God knows the best.

Adieu My ever caring and supportive mom.

Rest on Mama!!!!

Till we meet to part no more Iya Folayemi

sorry boss pls take heart. Iya n sun re already. Ejowo e gba gbe e. E ma gbadura fun won. E Pele sir

I loss my father on 1st October 2018 after that i my love mother no 4th January 2020 this year. up to now am still in pain of losing them to death. my their soul in peace.

zedegit:


It's so touching but I wouldn't deny laughing when I saw the part that you wanted to be a doctor to live his dreams but Naija factor played a fast one.

TBH take a census among the science students in my school that year; 80% atleast wanted to be doctors.

Majority had brilliant O level results but JAMB plays a fast one. They are being expected to get 350/400 or thereabout.

Then when you manage to score it. They will expect you to bribe your way inside..

Naija is a place where 100 people will be given admission yet supplementary form will be bought by 50 000 applicants.

You're right bro

Mine na DAGRIN. Thank God I still get papa and mama

May mercy of God onto him.

Oh oh.
My maternal uncle who was our god in the extended family died some years ago at the age of more than eighty years old.
I cried like never, I was walking on the street of tartu that day.

Sometimes till now I still shed tears whenever I remember him.
He was our god. The financial backbone to all.

Hundred billions suratul quraysh to him.
Amin. Amin.

My first cousin Dupe (Balquis). We lived and grew up together. Her memories are still very fresh. She died during childbirth. Child died too. I had never been so broken and shattered.

i am just too emotional to be on this thread. it is surely not for me. ...

Acehart:


I’m sorry. Please be strong.

how did your parents survive this?

I'm going to save the link to this page so I can read anytime I start taking life too seriously. It's a really painful thread. My condolences to everyone that has lost someone special in their life. God will give you the strength to bear the loss and carry on.

Xavfra:
Sophia
She was my secondary school classmate...
She died of bone cancer the year we finished secondary School....
I dunno why.... They could just told us.... At least I could have donated part of my bone......
Because today I still see myself as having no meaning in life..... Life's just boring.... I just wish I died in place of all the good people that died..... It's sad..... .
I just hate ...it......

Stop masturbating and your life would experience a positive turn around.
Check my only thread on my profile. But if it's not masturbation then I apologise. May God cause you to find a meaning to your life

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