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Mizwisdom:
Hmmm I used to respect you for your contributions but you have highly disappointed me with this one

Shut up bitçh. Madridguy doesn't live to earn your approval. Your approval is worthless; it doesn't pay his bills or swell his account balance. Madridguy owes you nothing.

Mizwisdom:
There are some bitter guys that will soon take over this thread of yours. You don't need people's advice as an adult, it should be your full decision. That her child will become yours if you keep an open mind and accept her as yours wholeheartedly.

Acct2, this is a dangerous advice. It takes a cold-hearted individual give such advice. Women are cold-hearted.

I am an advocate of marriage but not with a baby mama...anyone who does not like my comment should pray their children finds such a woman.

In fact,most of them can't be trusted...80% for sure.

And if must go ahead, on behalf of nairaland I say congratulations but don't come back to regrets ur decision.

Wish u the best.

Mizwisdom:
There are some bitter guys that will soon take over this thread of yours. You don't need people's advice as an adult, it should be your full decision. That her child will become yours if you keep an open mind and accept her as yours wholeheartedly.

This Lady is a very bittered single mother. Why are u pained?...abi them call ur name for this topic.

Ibechris2:
I am an advocate of marriage but not with a baby mama...anyone who does not like my comment should pray their children finds such a woman.

In fact,most of them can't be trusted...80% for sure.

And if must go ahead, on behalf of nairaland I say congratulations but don't come back to regrets ur decision.

Wish u the best.

can't be trusted in terms of what sir? Remember she got that child as a result of past dating not dat she has been married b4.

The latest now is that my people has been informed abt the child by me, Everyone has agreed that I should move ahead with marriage plans except my Dad who is the head of the family. And we need his consent b4 anytin can be done. So their can be peace.

Plz what suggestions do u hv for me at this point in time?

There's a spirit in nairaland. There's this sexiest hatred and stereotypical wave of comments. This is not the true reflection of the mind of the Nigerian people.

But they've dominated this platform. If you're still sane, please stay sane.

Acct2:
can't be trusted in terms of what sir? Remember she got that child as a result of past dating not dat she has been married b4.

I am a married man,never u start ur marriage on a bad footing...marriage is a very serious business. It is not a place u profess love to a woman but an institution where u work out the love in real time.

U cannot love that woman as u claimed. Because if reality sets in u will remember this day. Baby mama's cannot be trusted,all what they want is just for somebody to father their child while still have serious contact with their ex.

In fact,they are like second wives always trying to protect the interest of their away child and this could spell a doom to the entire family.

Young man,go ahead with ur decision as this is just my opinion.

Wish u well in ur pursuit.

Ibechris2:
I am a married man,never u start ur marriage on a bad footing...marriage is a very serious business. It is not a place u profess love to a woman but an institution where u work out the love in real time.

U cannot love that woman as u claimed. Because if reality sets in u will remember this day. Baby mama's cannot be trusted,all what they want is just for somebody to father their child while still have serious contact with their ex.

In fact,they are like second wives always trying to protect the interest of their away child and this could spell a doom to the entire family.

Young man,go ahead with ur decision as this is just my opinion.

Wish u well in ur pursuit.

Its Okay sir, That is why I needed people suggestions especially those that are married, ... Thank God for my family too. This thing they call love is serious ooo. I pray for God's decision to take place. As I can't afford to have a broken home or marry twice, God forbid.