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What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by heniford2: 11:49am On May 01, 2020
I don't know if anybody is really seen the hard knocks of life.

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Geeksamir(m): 12:00pm On May 01, 2020
Sir
What I can say to you is to cry to God for help
Matthew 6:33
God will definitely shine is light on your path
He doesn't perform magic but he's a Miracle worker
My penny to u bro.

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by heniford2: 12:07pm On May 01, 2020
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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Oladayo12(m): 12:16pm On May 01, 2020
heniford2:
I don't know if anybody is really seen the hard knocks of life like me because I'm going to be 30years soon yet no Vision no purpose no money no friends unemployed no anything i still squirt with my uncle in there three rooms flat i find it had to feed my mum and family members are ashamed of me how do i come out of this how do i become somebody it worries me am through with school since yet i have not gone for service since 2017 i graduated i have not collected my result have not done clearance is there someone going through what am going through am really in deep tears this morning somebody should help me...
I'm also passing through same thing with you. though i will be 26 by oct, i stay with my parent. i graduated last year coming out top of my class. all my mate have gone for service but i haven't due to 28k certificate money. I came from a poor home wasn't surprise though, i've searched for any menial job but i couldn't find any. i weep for my life dailly
Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by yomi007k(m): 12:20pm On May 01, 2020
Not every problem is religious. For the guys above, please try and think sometimes.

Why have you not collected your result since you graduated?
Do you know that there are low paying jobs you could have got even without your certificate? E.g teaching , cleaning, driving( keke, okada,)farming etc.

But I doubt your ego will let you stoop so low.

Think and work.

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by ZhiosonWind: 1:04pm On May 01, 2020
heniford2:
Have prayed fasted been active in church activities been kind to people all am asking its there someone going through this same thing seen hardship cause i want to know if am cursed or what i just don't understand who i offended
I am in your shoes bro.... Don't lose hope.

I had to pick a teaching job that pays less than my NYSC 19800 Stipend. Imagine earning 15k and hoping to save enough to buy a 75k laptop because I wanted to learn programing.
The ironic part is, since I started the job I have not been able to save up to 10k. All my shoes and clothes are thorne with no replacement.
Who do I blame? Myself of course.

Being broke is the source of all evil. I pray God makes a better way

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by nams77: 1:21pm On May 01, 2020
yomi007k:
Not every problem is religious. For the guys above, please try and think sometimes.

Why have you not collected your result since you graduated?
Do you know that there are low paying jobs you could have got even without your certificate? E.g teaching , cleaning, driving( keke, okada,)farming etc.

But I doubt your ego will let you stoop so low.

Think and work.


That's the problem with most youth. They want something big right from the very onset. God wont answer that kind of prayer, and like you rightly said, not all problem is spiritual.


Op, here is what you do:
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Look for any job, teaching, driving, office messenger, just start from there.

God asked moses"what do you have in your hand" and he said a staff, then he said throw it down and it will become a snake.

God said i will bless the work of your hands.

My brother, God cannot multiply nothing, empty.
0×200=0.

Start from the possible and before long, you will be doing the impossible.

For the dude who was looking for 28k, you could have gotten busy since and by now. That money for don complete.

When i graduated( before services), i started teaching. Some of my friends laughed at me.
Same friends came to me to borrow money from time to time. Two even ended up squatting in my self contain apartment. An apartment that was rented with the salary from same teacher's job.
I have grown and moved to other endeavors

That was years ago. It will surprise you to know that this same dudes are yet to settle down or do any tangible thing. They are waiting for one big connect to make them blow
Cc: oladayo12

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by heniford2: 1:28pm On May 01, 2020
yomi007k:
Not every problem is religious. For the guys above, please try and think sometimes.

Why have you not collected your result since you graduated?
Do you know that there are low paying jobs you could have got even without your certificate? E.g teaching , cleaning, driving( keke, okada,)farming etc.

But I doubt your ego will let you stoop so low.

Think and work.


brother i have looked for job no way even looked for Keke or bus to drive yet no way have worked in bet9ja and all that the little i saved i used to pay off my school fees
Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by nams77: 1:33pm On May 01, 2020
heniford2:
brother i have looked for job no way even looked for Keke or bus to drive yet no way have worked in bet9ja and all that the little i saved i used to pay off my school fees
Thank God you were able to eke out something to clear school fees. E no easy my Broda. Na small small, dem dey take lick hot soup.
I know you know that Proverbs.
Years later, u will look back and smile if u faint not

If u can change location, kindly do

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by benzion72(m): 1:34pm On May 01, 2020
Me I dont understand this kind thing
1. Will I go and do clearance for you
2. Did your school ask you not to come for clearance
3. Did you get your self cleared and NYSC refused to mobilized you for service
4. Dont you have to whom it may concern from your school to do jumping jumping before you go and and serve


VERDICT

Your Uncle is indulging you, he need to throw you out so that some sense will fall upon you

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by hinere(m): 1:42pm On May 01, 2020
Hello. I feel your pain. Believe me. Just remember, when there is life, there is hope.
First things first...Try collecting your school results. Try and do your clearance. This is not the time to start looking at your school colleagues or friends and their achievements becos that can put you into total depression. Face your own present life situation at it is.
Try and register for NYSC...that if it's still possible and possibly go for it now that you have the chance to. If it's not possible, get your NYSC Excemption Certificate and move on.
All these are not for now but for the unknown future of yours
Then swallow your pride and learn a good skill.
**I can't believe I'm saying this. It took me months to accept my own fate now am encouraging someone else**
At least with the NYSC allawee, it can do something for a year...I heard it's now N31K or so...
2) Stop looking at your age. Once God makes you look younger in the face of men, you are God to go.
3) If you are lucky to get a job that pays well, good...if not, just keep trying. It's hard. This country is hard even me I don tire. I'm just trying my very best because I am resilient. That is a trait you need to develop please.
"The race is not for the swift nor the battle for the strong but TIME and CHANCE happeneth to them all"
It is well with you

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Nobody: 1:47pm On May 01, 2020
At least you are healthy and not plagued with a physical health issue. Count yourself lucky my man. Health is the hard part, wealth is the easier one. Hustle and do anything you can to earn an income.

Teach, run errands, wash cars etc. People feed their families with such jobs. Only a lazy man who is healthy will complain of hunger. You may not make it immediately, but surely things will improve with time.

Improve on your self esteem because right now it stinks. Keep telling yourself you are great and you will make it in life. Positive mindset is free and you have nothing to lose by being positive.

Personally, I'm not sympathetic towards healthy people who complain of poverty. Most successful people around the world were once poor. Everyone has potentials to be great when the right mindset, hardwork and God's grace is there.

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Oladayo12(m): 3:19pm On May 01, 2020
Gaggi:
At least you are healthy and not plagued with a physical health issue. Count yourself lucky my man. Health is the hard part, wealth is the easier one. Hustle and do anything you can to earn an income.

Teach, run errands, wash cars etc. People feed their families with such jobs. Only a lazy man who is healthy will complain of hunger. You may not make it immediately, but surely things will improve with time.

Improve on your self esteem because right now it stinks. Keep telling yourself you are great and you will make it in life. Positive mindset is free and you have nothing to lose by being positive.

Personally, I'm not sympathetic towards healthy people who complain of poverty. Most successful people around the world were once poor. Everyone has potentials to be great when the right mindset, hardwork and God's grace is there.
I love your input bro
Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Oladayo12(m): 3:22pm On May 01, 2020
Gaggi:
At least you are healthy and not plagued with a physical health issue. Count yourself lucky my man. Health is the hard part, wealth is the easier one. Hustle and do anything you can to earn an income.

Teach, run errands, wash cars etc. People feed their families with such jobs. Only a lazy man who is healthy will complain of hunger. You may not make it immediately, but surely things will improve with time.

Improve on your self esteem because right now it stinks. Keep telling yourself you are great and you will make it in life. Positive mindset is free and you have nothing to lose by being positive.

Personally, I'm not sympathetic towards healthy people who complain of poverty. Most successful people around the world were once poor. Everyone has potentials to be great when the right mindset, hardwork and God's grace is there.
Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Oladayo12(m): 3:53pm On May 01, 2020
nams77:

Thank God you were able to eke out something to clear school fees. E no easy my Broda. Na small small, dem dey take lick hot soup.
I know you know that Proverbs.
Years later, u will look back and smile if u faint not

If u can change location, kindly do
Bro i did all odd job save up and bought bike as HP hoping to double the bike and from there get a bus, i left for sch immediately after i bought the bike, but unfortunately the whole money went on paying my family's bill. done with sch but back to square1, feeding is a whole lot of problem 4 us as i couldn't lay hand on any job. At times i do regret why i left my factory work 4 sch, why didn't i enroll for PT and save myself all these mess. i was advised to exempt by adding up my age to 30, but why doing that when i'm not up to that age. when there's no lockdown we practically live from hand to mouth, Now with lockdown we have no choice than to bless God, if not for anything at least for life. It is well!

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by ahnie: 4:35pm On May 01, 2020
Take it easy on yourself

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by heniford2: 4:45pm On May 01, 2020
benzion72:
Me I dont understand this kind thing
1. Will I go and do clearance for you
2. Did your school ask you not to come for clearance
3. Did you get your self cleared and NYSC refused to mobilized you for service
4. Dont you have to whom it may concern from your school to do jumping jumping before you go and and serve


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Your Uncle is indulging you, he need to throw you out so that some sense will fall upon you

dude you feel am lazy i train my self from year one to the end opened a two barbing saloon opened did some mineral jobs sold shoe and slippers sold cloths OK one am a born hustler bro can't raise money to finish up clearance once raise the money my immediate brother needed money to pay his school fees used the whole money to pay his school since then have been eating from hand to mouth no source of income again everything it just upside down all i want to know is Dia someone out here going through more serious situation than me cause am giving up... On myself

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Mariangeles(f): 5:17pm On May 01, 2020
heniford2:
dude you feel am lazy i train my self from year one to the end opened a two barbing saloon opened did some mineral jobs sold shoe and slippers sold cloths OK one am a born hustler bro can't raise money to finish up clearance once raise the money my immediate brother needed money to pay his school fees used the whole money to pay his school since then have been eating from hand to mouth no source of income again everything it just upside down all i want to know is Dia someone out here going through more serious situation than me cause am giving up... On myself

Don't give up on yourself.
This is just a phase in your life which shall pass.
Only the strong survive this phase.
Remember the saying "tough times don't last, but tough people do" motivate yourself with that.
Also, don't underestimate the power of meditation ! It is powerful, renewing and refreshing.
Everyday, take at least 15mins of quiet time to meditate on God's word. ( What is your favourite verse?)

God's word is the best thing to meditate on. NIV: "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by akaahs(m): 9:05pm On May 01, 2020
heniford2:
Have prayed fasted been active in church activities been kind to people all am asking its there someone going through this same thing seen hardship cause i want to know if am cursed or what i just don't understand who i offended
I can understand, I have been there before or still there cause still with my uncle. I'm 33 still feels yet to discover myself but I'm not lamenting. What U need do is get urself busy, start by working ways to get ur certificate follow by laying ur hands on skills that can keep U busy.
Don't just sit down and pity urself. Get ur hands dirty.

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by stcharlesedu: 7:23am On May 02, 2020
I wud hv luv to read what other people has comment, but I stop reading to comment, reason I dnt want there comment to influence what I want to tell u,
at the age of 26 I started feeling I need to b zero serious with life. I hv gone through what u ar going through now, that age is a really difficult age it come with so many feeling of when u plan to b independent financially and stable.

So here is the solution
Stop pitying ur self, gf should b the least of what u should b worry about.
Learn digital skill,
I wil nt mention it here.
the night u used to sleep used it to down video from YouTube at cheaper data rate.

U hv to be very focus, giv it all u,
Send me mail let communicate more on what to do.

Charliscoat at gmail.com

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Ouchbabe(f): 7:37am On May 02, 2020
Geeksamir:
Sir
What I can say to you is to cry to God for help
Matthew 6:33
God will definitely shine is light on your path
He doesn't perform magic but he's a Miracle worker
My penny to u bro.
I'm a Christian who strongly believe in what God can do but please in a case like this, give a practical solution.
Op no need of crying. Dust yourself up and look for something to do no matter how small. I would have suggested teaching in primary or secondary private school but due to lockdown it won't be possible now. Teaching is one of the easiest ways to make money even though the money might be small. Look for nearby school to avoid transportation fare.
You can get a driving job. If you cannot drive, be the conductor.

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Harfisco(m): 1:15pm On May 02, 2020
Oladayo12:
I'm also passing through same thing with you. though i will be 26 by oct, i stay with my parent. i graduated last year coming out top of my class. all my mate have gone for service but i haven't due to 28k certificate money. I came from a poor home wasn't surprise though, i've searched for any menial job but i couldn't find any. i weep for my life dailly


did you guys finish from a private school, I haven't done my clearance and I am serving already
Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Oladayo12(m): 1:22pm On May 02, 2020
Harfisco:



did you guys finish from a private school, I haven't done my clearance and I am serving already
I finish from public sch., how come you were mobilize without being cleared? then how did you get your cert or testimonial? which sch did you finish from?
Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by heniford2: 1:56pm On May 02, 2020
Please just tell us your situation here lets encourage one another please
Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Katier00(f): 2:09pm On May 02, 2020
Oladayo12:
I'm also passing through same thing with you. though i will be 26 by oct, i stay with my parent. i graduated last year coming out top of my class. all my mate have gone for service but i haven't due to 28k certificate money. I came from a poor home wasn't surprise though, i've searched for any menial job but i couldn't find any. i weep for my life dailly
your location?

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Harfisco(m): 2:50pm On May 02, 2020
Oladayo12:
I finish from public sch., how come you were mobilize without being cleared? then how did you get your cert or testimonial? which sch did you finish from?

I finished from a public school too, a federal uni. I haven't collected my certificate, what I presented in camp was my "statement of result" ,I will get myself cleared after service
Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by kendological(m): 2:56pm On May 02, 2020
benzion72:
Me I dont understand this kind thing
1. Will I go and do clearance for you
2. Did your school ask you not to come for clearance
3. Did you get your self cleared and NYSC refused to mobilized you for service
4. Dont you have to whom it may concern from your school to do jumping jumping before you go and and serve


VERDICT

Your Uncle is indulging you, he need to throw you out so that some sense will fall upon you

Don't be foolish.

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Oladayo12(m): 2:57pm On May 02, 2020
Harfisco:


I finished from a public school too, a federal uni. I haven't collected my certificate, what I presented in camp was my "statement of result" ,I will get myself cleared after service
In my sch you have to be clared before you can proceed for service., thats how most sch i've heard so far does theirs. guy your sch better o no stress at all.
Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Oladayo12(m): 4:18pm On May 02, 2020
Katier00:
your location?
Agbara..please if there's any way you can be of help pls do i beg of you. i'm seriously getting depressed on a daily basis. my family are seriously hungry, i need a job to put food on our table. once again pls help if you can.
Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Katier00(f): 4:32pm On May 02, 2020
Oladayo12:
Agbara..please if there's any way you can be of help pls do i beg of you. i'm seriously getting depressed on a daily basis. my family are seriously hungry, i need a job to put food on our table. once again pls help if you can.
I thought you were in Anambra or Maiduguri, those are the places I can help get small job for you to put mind and body together. I t is well. Everything will be fine okay

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Re: What challenges are you going through know in your age bracket by Oladayo12(m): 4:43pm On May 02, 2020
Katier00:
I thought you were in Anambra or Maiduguri, those are the places I can help get small job for you to put mind and body together. I t is well. Everything will be fine okay
Thanks bro, i do appreciate your concern. i very much look forward for a divine favour. NB: I have places that i can squat with in lagos if hopefully there's any opening. Thanks.

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