What does it take to get married and at what age

Is it alright for a 24 year old guy to get married


how much money is needed

dalaha:

What does it take to get married and at what age
Is it alright for a 24 year old guy to get married
how much money is needed

If you are ready, go for it!
Just do it for the right reason(s)!
_{hope you're not under pressure}

It takes ur pocket
your head and xperience
to build a family.

It takes a lot of balllssssssssssss
A lot of love
A lot oc commitment
A lot sacrfices
Money, depends on how u want it to be, but as a man, u need money, cos once u married, u now have 2 families to "father christmased"

dalaha:

What does it take to get married and at what age

it takes a very big koboko age? its nothing but a number oh if you wish to get married by age 10 years sef carry go

dalaha:



Is it alright for a 24 year old guy to get married

yes its ok !

dalaha:


how much money is needed

it depends on the person getting married , you could either have none(depend solely on your wifey) or strive to have a lot

any which way sha! you can still get married

It takes commitment on both parts
Love and Understanding
Trust
Financial Stability
Sacrifice
Time and patience
You have to marry for the right reasons.
Age doesn't matter.
and many more i cannot think of at the moment,

Common sense.

coolier:

Common sense.

Common sense aint common.

dalaha:

What does it take to get married and at what age

Is it alright for a 24 year old guy to get married


how much money is needed

as long as u are ready, get married

with regards to money, as long as u have couple of cowries to your name, then i guess u can cut your clothes according to your size!

Brash!:

as long as u are ready, get married

with regards to money, as long as u have couple of cowries to your name, then i guess u can cut your clothe according to your size!

That is a very wrong adive, what happened, if you have a square yardage of cloth and the person's size is heavy D? u see, cutting coat according to size dont work anymore, rathre, cut ur coat according to ur material

$$Rhino:

That is a very wrong adive, what happened, if you have a square yardage of cloth and the person's size is heavy D? u see, cutting coat according to size don't work anymore, rathre, cut your coat according to your material

fair enough then!

if cutting it according to material e.g. up-nepa, satin, damask e.t.c. rocks ur boat, then float away!

Brash!:

fair enough then!

if cutting it according to material e.g. up-nepa, satin, damask e.t.c. rocks your boat, then float away!

lol to that

@topic,
Guts and God combined

on a serious note my wedding is coming up in April i am so confused i really want to know what i need to get married, my fiance is a local govt staff,he actually started work late last year,i don't even love him as such just doing it because of my age.

maimota:

on a serious note my wedding is coming up in April i am so confused i really want to know what i need to get married, my fiance is a local govt staff,he actually started work late last year,i don't even love him as such just doing it because of my age.

Wrong reason to get wedded.
There is somebody, somewhere that God has ordained for you. All you need do is to rely on Him.
TOTAL TRUST IN GOD. At the appointed time the right person would show up.

kola oloye:

Wrong reason to get wedded.
There is somebody, somewhere that God has ordained for you. All you need do is to rely on Him.
TOTAL TRUST IN GOD. At the appointed time the right person would show up.

well said.

Thanks alot for your advice, you guys will not understanding
i hardly go out, am always at work from monday 2 saturdays.
i just feel the best thing to do is to get married to the one i ve at my disposal.
a stick at hand save nine" Am trying to see if i can dev a feeling for him.

Hey poster,are you a guy or girl?

maimota:

Thanks alot for your advice, you guys will not understanding
i hardly go out, am always at work from monday 2 saturdays.
i just feel the best thing to do is to get married to the one i ve at my disposal.
a stick at hand save nine" Am trying to see if i can dev a feeling for him.

SERIOSLY DO NOT MARRY YET.  wedding is one day - marraige is a life time. headaches dont come closer than a bad relationship. you have a better chance of stopping this folly now. [b]it is safer to catch up than clean up[/b]. bad relationships eat deep into your soul. [i]i can  see you are getting its ingredient ready. dont go near the kitchen yet please[/i].
listen to the advice below again and probably read it again and again. it will help you and others waiting to jump into relationships because of age, loneliness and other thouand and one wrong reasons people have for jumping into wrong relationships.  

There is somebody, somewhere that God has ordained for you. All you need do is to rely on Him.
TOTAL TRUST IN GOD. At the appointed time the right person would show up

of all mistakes you make i dont think any has power to hurt and cause you nightmares like a rushed bad ill conceived relationship

kola oloye:

Wrong reason to get wedded.
There is somebody, somewhere that God has ordained for you. All you need do is to rely on Him.
TOTAL TRUST IN GOD. At the appointed time the right person would show up.

thank so much i ll think about it. its just that am anxious

maimota:

thank so much i ll think about it. its just that am anxious

Phil. 4: 6-7

6 Be anxious for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.

7 And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

What does it take to get married and at what age

Is it alright for a 24 year old guy to get married


how much money is needed

You sound immature and definitely NOT ready for marriage. sorry, just being honest. what kind of mature person would ask how much a marriage will cost?

I pray always for God's wisdom, its just that i can't give any reason why i want to marry him,if not for age,he even seems to be more anxious than i am.
I deserts late marraige, as a lady,northan and a christian i don't think its ideal to mary late.
I think i will just mary him, and pray for God's guidiance.

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my dear sis, it will really do you a whole lot of good to listen to dis piece of advise now than coming back here to tell Nairalanders another thing in in furure
This is a life contract you know.
As for me, i will be d last person to get married to somebody i do not love, a guy is seriously on my neck too now, but i cannot leave with him from morning till night, just dont no why, he is a good guy though.
And with just dis fact that i do not have feelings for him i can never get married to, to an extent that i told him that i do not have feelings for him he told yes he knows that with time i will love him, but which i know may never be possible lailai

maimota:

I pray always for God's wisdom, its just that i can't give any reason why i want to marry him,if not for age,he even seems to be more anxious than i am.
I deserts late marraige, as a lady,northan and a christian i don't think its ideal to mary late.
I think i will  just mary him, and pray for God's guidiance.

Pahhh!!!

You are too quick, I'd've married you

It seems u can't think dis out urself, unh? Let me 'help'.
U see, don't mind them. Do u know u aint gettin' any younger, d older u become d harder it is 4 u 2 find a man. I even learnt dat a woman can reach menopause at an unbelievable age. So beware.
so how are u preparing 2wards ur marriage? Don't 4get it's next month, so by now every thing must av been put in place. Happy married laif in advance But please be ready 2 face d consequences

For those who av ears (eyes dis tym), MARRIAGE IS NOT SOMETHIN U JUST JUMP INTO. IF D LUV IS NOT STRONG ENOUGH 4RM BOTH SIDES, I BET U, IT'S BETTER U REMAIN SINGLE.

Marriage is bliss. Ignorance is bliss. Ergo . . . . .

Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.

It takes ballzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. . .but as a guy you have only 2 and that may just not be enough.
You will need God's guidance and the following. . .
-Love
-Sacrifice
-Patience
-Understanding
-Maturity
. . .and the lists goes on and on. . .

all you need is maturity. physical, financial and psychological.

others have said it all.