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I remember some years back when I was in secondary school, there was this girl I had a huge crush on. She is one the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. We got so intimate that we would chat for long hours teasing and making her laugh though I couldn't boldly speak to her face to her.
Always thinking of asking her out but never had the courage though I sometimes caught her staring at me till we left secondary school.
Fast forward to this year we got talking on WhatsApp and then she opened up to me and I did same too.Believe me I was shocked though I don't regret not asking her out.
please share yours.

Yes and we are dating now

Is it ever possible for two girls to crush on a guy and a guy on the two girls??
These girls crushed on me secretly, they told my friend, after being AWOL for 3 weeks i came back then my friend told me, i got close with kela, i liked this girl 'cos she was wild.. But the other girl was just there.. Long story short, i lost contact with kela but i'm dating the other girl.

Oh yes but it didn't work out sha

Kseafresh:
Yes and we are dating now

Happy for you.

Drince:
Is it ever possible for two girls to crush on a guy and a guy on the two girls??
These girls crushed on me secretly, they told my friend, after being AWOL for 3 weeks i came back then my friend told me, i got close with kela, i liked this girl 'cos she was wild.. But the other girl was just there.. Long story short, i lost contact with kela but i'm dating the other girl.

'two girls on a guy' sure
A guy on two girls that's really something. I'm not so sure. I'm going to ask you this.Did you have a crush on the two girls before you were told they had a crush on you?

Crush like Jam?

Zita55:
Oh yes but it didn't work out sha

must have felt bad about it.

of course yes, it was electromagnetic, and magnificent that was my teenage days, years Ago

it's either I crush on you or you crush on me... Both of us can't be simultaneously compatible.

Stevecrown1818:
'two girls on a guy' sure
A guy on two girls that's really something. I'm not so sure. I'm going to ask you this.Did you have a crush on the two girls before you were told they had a crush on you?

Dprince oh please come and answer this, am curious

It's always a common habit amongst secondary school colleges.
Even my secondary school crush still dey crush on me but me don let bygone be bygone..

Yes we are both in Netherlands now
Her dad sent us there to give birth

Menh.... In my secondary school days i almost dated half of the girls in my school, but there was one who was very stubborn and that makes me crush on her, she always shows sign of disgust when she sees me but that didn't stop me it only makes me angry and desperate to have her like the other girls, and at last she fell for me but she later told me she never hated me and she was only behaving like that because of my ruggedity in school, what she said made me left her and walk away, though she was my crush and i new she loved me, but i will never love her the way she wants.

Many years ago, after secondary schooling, I was at home waiting for uni to start. I liked a guy in my neighborhood who was already in 4/5 year engineering. I promptly showed this like by being as giggly and bashful and intense as I knew how to be, smh! Well, I found out he liked me too. But when I actually really sang some of “let’s wait a while” by Janet Jackson to him the day I finally hooked up with him, he promptly bolted to another girl who was ready to be an adult. And there I was thinking I was gradually easing my way into a relationship with the song sef! I cringe, in remembrance, lol.
JAMB period crush shared.

Yeah, we dated for a while but I had to leave, I gave her something to remember me by.

Stevecrown1818:
must have felt bad about it.

Swears

Stevecrown1818:
'two girls on a guy' sure
A guy on two girls that's really something. I'm not so sure. I'm going to ask you this.Did you have a crush on the two girls before you were told they had a crush on you?

Stacyomolola:
DprinceDrince oh please come and answer this, am curious

Yeah i had crush on them before i was told... when my friend told me, from that moment we got closer.. I still miss kela

Yes but she didn't return the crush she later hated me seriously for behaving stupid around her and telling my friends about no actually my friends told her and she used me to catch cruzz by telling them to tell me she will only be with me when i stop with my stupidity

merahki:
Many years ago, after secondary schooling, I was at home waiting for uni to start. I liked a guy in my neighborhood who was already in 4/5 year engineering. I promptly showed this like by being as giggly and bashful and intense as I knew how to be, smh! Well, I found out he liked me too. But when I actually really sang some of “let’s wait a while” by Janet Jackson to him the day I finally hooked up with him, he promptly bolted to another girl who was ready to be an adult. And there I was thinking I was gradually easing my way into a relationship with the song sef! I cringe, in remembrance, lol.
JAMB period crush shared.

Nigerians ehn... This reads like its been written in Australian English

Drince:
Yeah i had crush on them before i was told... when my friend told me, from that moment we got closer.. I still miss kela

Bad guy.. you really got the job done.

ItooWorWor:
Menh.... In my secondary school days i almost dated half of the girls in my school, but there was one who was very stubborn and that makes me crush on her, she always shows sign of disgust when she sees me but that didn't stop me it only makes me angry and desperate to have her like the other girls, and at last she fell for me but she later told me she never hated me and she was only behaving like that because of my ruggedity in school, what she said made me left her and walk away, though she was my crush and i new she loved me, but i will never love her the way she wants.

Quite interesting.

mmars:
Yes but she didn't return the crush she later hated me seriously for behaving stupid around her and telling my friends about no actually my friends told her and she used me to catch cruzz by telling them to tell me she will only be with me when i stop with my stupidity

funny..

Tozic:
it's either I crush on you or you crush on me... Both of us can't be simultaneously compatible.

So true.

Stevecrown1818:
I remember some years back when I was in secondary school, there was this girl I had a huge crush on. She is one the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. We got so intimate that we would chat for long hours teasing and making her laugh though I couldn't boldly speak to her face to her.
Always thinking of asking her out but never had the courage though I sometimes caught her staring at me till we left secondary school.
Fast forward to this year we got talking on WhatsApp and then she opened up to me and I did same too.Believe me I was shocked though I don't regret not asking her out.
please share yours.

But Why does staring automatically relays the way a person feels about you?
Just being wondering.

Yes and yes and yes and yes and yes and yes. Many times. But I suppressed them. I made sure they didn't move to the next phase cos I'm this kind of soft, shy guy. Nairaland is helping me bit by bit to out grow somethings.

Allaboutkatiee:
But Why does staring automatically relays the way a person feels about you?
Just being wondering.

I understand you. But this was just too obvious for me. She even told told me how she stylishly stares at me trying not getting caught.

Stevecrown1818:
I understand you. But this was just too obvious for me. She even told told me how she stylishly stares at me trying not getting caught.

Maybe it's just an unconscious habit of showing how you feel.

Yeah but it didn’t last that long. I always Feel like when two People that are crushing on each other start dating, it never real works out. I don’t know, maybe it’s just me.

Allaboutkatiee:
Maybe it's just an unconscious habit of showing how you feel.

perhaps..